Odunharry:
Didn't known until I saw your post...it came late though.
I'm on my way to your place, come outside. .

Am not at home

Toks2008:



If i hear!

She must learn how to.

Infact i will tell my wife the koko..."See i am a serious spirikoko nut when we enter bedroom abeg forget all your sista mary act and do me real good and make my head spin"

Many ladies don't even know how we men crave for bad bad things in bed as in ehn..any kind position,any kind oral,any kind madness..lapdance,twerking,flute blowing..name it..infact a man wants a LovePeddler in the bedroom ande once you know how to do your hubby then he is hooked.

For guys who dey shy from going down on your wife please understand that the female core is cleaner than your mouth because it has a bacterial flora that keeps it clean always except the lady has serious infection which can be treated.

What does it profit a man and a woman who refuses to do themselves like kilode?

Ewizard:
Make sex special for your woman and concentrate on the spot that pleases her the most. Let her know how important her climax is to you, and that your not gonna stop making love to her untill she reaches it. Hold her hands while your inside of her because thats gonna get her real emotional, and if she starts crying then that means it feels so good to her and she doesn't want it to end...

Women appreciate good sex!!

This post is bookmarked for future use; the cogent points in it cannot be overlooked.

misspicy:
Am not at home

Ishilove:

Ayam a learner

Odarry:

Lol at spirikoko....Omo people like that need agree on something o. .some people surely like love play pass some people and if them no find solution to the issue ehn, na cheating sure pass o.
You go like am with lights off sef

jornie:

Haah!!! hang bawo? Hanger ni!?
O tun Bend!! Eleyi gidigan oooo ...
Jesu kriti.. Kukum ki lo pe?...so ri!?..Anu idi e semi..
Igba ti oo ba le Joko fun ose meji aye e..

Ishilove:

Werey no bobo yi sha

jornie:

Mo ti so temi....air bender!!!

Ishilove:
Airbender ko, nyash bender ni!

5minsmadness:
When u lack sexual satisfaction in matrimony

As a man this can be very frustrating. The woman you knew that was very sexually active premaritally suddenly develops cold feet after marriage. She relaxes and loses her sexiness. She talks of being tired all the time and you as the man is turned into a houseboy doing all you can around the house to please madam and make sure she is well rested so you can get down to business in the bedroom later in the day. Most women still don't find this effort by the man enough and use the opportunity to take advantage of their husbands and use sex in blackmailing them (if u can't do so and so then we can't have sex). This is a man that is used to having sex three times a week and suddenly finds himself settling for it once or twice a month.

Men are sexual beings. Sex is a major part of our repertoire. If it wasn't so you wouldn't see so many cases of infidelity on the part of the man. Sex is important, very important to us. Sex is food. And if the wife denies him this meal he gets angry, irritable, commandeering and cold. A religious man will try and keep himself in check by practicing holiness, but you will always notice the bitter undertones in all the things he does. The grumpiness, the sadness, distancing himself away from the wife and choosing to watch TV instead, etc. A carnal man(for want of a better word) will simply take his business elsewhere. He will find sex either in porn.ogra.phy and mast.urb.ation (and the wife catches him one day and starts wondering where he learnt the bad habit from). Or he learns how to frequent prostitutes. Or he has an affair and if he doesn't get caught he goes on to have many other affairs all in a bid to satiate the sexual hunger within him. Even those that get caught if the situation in the house isn't rectified they harden thier hearts and become more daring in thier escapades.

I know women will come here and start screaming self control and how they know "millions" of men who practice such. Let's be honest, that's a lie, you don't know up to 10 men you can bet your life on that are faithful to thier wives, not even pastors. Sexual hunger is hard for us men. We need all the help we can get in controlling it.


So if you are a married woman reading this, don't starve your husband of sex. Satiating your husband is wonderful when done in love but if you can't do it in love at least see it as a duty. It will keep him sane, less prone to outside temptation fron your female gender whom he meets everyday and who by the way smell of roses, less irritable and more compliant to your wishes.

End of part 1.

Toks2008:


You too make sense except the lack of paragraph for ease of reading.

But wait o..has lalasticlala or mynd44 seen this thread? cos i believe we have countless married people viewing nland front page and the unmarried ones will surely get married someday.

freeage7:
OP, please are you married?

Toks2008:
Has lalasticlala seen This?

ednut1:
egbon when u go marry

kristen12:
Bookmarked for future use

WORDWORLD:
Another Nice thread Toks 

SO, IS SEX, INHERENTLY EVIL?

The relevance of this question to Christianity  makes it very clear why sexual perversion and carnal culture and oppression of women reigns supreme in the Western world in particular.

About three centuries after Apostle Paul, came a theologian known as St. Augustine. Like his predecessor, he believed that sex was a threat to spiritual uplifitment even in marriage. He believed that sex is INHERENTLY EVIL and taught so to his followers.

In The City of God, St. Augustine says: "Man's trangression (i.e Adam and Eve's sin) did not annual the blessing of fertility bestowed upon him before he sinned, BUT INFECTED IT WITH THE DISEASE OF LUST"

Such a verse as "Behold, I was brought forth in INIQUITY AND IN SIN my mother conceived me" PSALMS 51:5, is mostly quoted to supportting that SEX even in matrimony is inherently a sin.

"I know nothing which brings the manly mind down from the heights more than a woman's caresses and that joining of bodies without which one cannot have a wife". St. Augustine.

Sexual intercourse was transformed from something innocent to something shameful by the original sin of Adam and Eve, which is taught as a doctrine that has passed from generation to generation. Instead of sex to be understood as NATURE which should be harness RESPONSIBLY THROUGH CULTURE, in the institution called marriage without guilt. Sex is made a SIN altogether even in matrimony according to these doctrines of men of 'God'.  So for generations we have been made to living in GUILT while performing what is as natural as the air that we breath. We have been fighting against ourself and the results has been all kinds of sexual attrocities.

Is it a 'SIN' the nocturnal emmission during sleep known as WET DREAMS at such an early INNOCENT age experienced particularly by boys world wide, Africa, Asia, America, Europe.............? Is this nocturnal emission as a result of lust, fantasy at such an early innocent age or pornography in our today's sorry state or its no more than natures programming called PUBERTY? 

The story of Adam and Eve in the Bible is infact 'A' to EVIL. It has succeeded in programing men's SUBCONSCIOUSNESS right from childhood to degrade women through the indoctrination of the FORBIDDEN FRUIT. This view of degradation of women a root from the Bible is firmly supported by a lot of scholars who have cared to explore our FUNDAMENTAL SOCIETAL THOUGHTS. Such a scholar as Amit Kumar, Author of the book Fundamental of Social Thoughts which in a chapter, THE FEMINIST SOCIAL THOUGHT you read as thus: " Feminist social thought traces at least as far back as the 'women controversy' of the 17th century. Caught up in debates over the first two creation stories presented in the Book of Genesis, certain Christian patriarchal interpretations of human nature understood WOMEN to be IMMORAL and DECEPTIVE.

Women are veiwed as accomplice of EVIL, for having being the 'one' according to the Bible responsible for the fall of man. Eve was said to be the one who seduced her husband Adam to eating the forbidden fruit after she had danced to the seductive whispers of the serpent who adviced her to doing so. Hence, women are regared as EVIL themselves for having befriended the serpent to listen to it. They are percieved as no more than a creature for MAN'S OWN PLEASURE, HIS PROPERTY to be used and abused and thrown away like a banana peel. As if punishing women for being responsible for the down fall of man, Adam who also had a mouth he could have used to say NO to Eve but instead used that very same mouth for devouring the forbidden fruit. It wasn't Eve who brought about his being exited from the garden of Eden but his own FOOLISHNESS.

The story is narrated in Genesis 2:4-3:24. God prohibited both of them, Adam and Eve from eating the fruits of the forbidden tree. The serpent seduced Eve to eat from it and Eve, in turn seduced Adam to eat with her. When God rebuked Adam of what he did, he put all the blame on Eve.

"The woman you put here with me she gave me some fruit from the tree and I ate it".

To Adam, God said: "Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree........cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life".

The indoctrination from early childhood in Christianity of the concept of Adam blaming Eve for seducing him to eating the forbbiden fruit which resulted his being cursed and both chased out of felicity as been A MAJOR CONTRIBUTING FACTOR TO UNEQUAL TREATMENT OF WOMEN IN CHRISTIAN LANDS,TO THE POINT OF OPPRESSING WOMEN. The Western world being my emphasis because of Christianity and where the stench homosexualism and the right to same sex marriage is very strong.

And what is the out-come today for men's maltreament of women due to this 'EVIL EVE' mentality over centuries gone by?

The most radical movement in recent times is born, further responsible in part for bringing our whole social structure down and bleeding in particular the HOME. This movement is the FEMINIST MOVEMENT popularly known as a drive for women's liberation.

Without derailing, one of the choices the feminist seek to make socially acceptable is LESBIANISM. "Lesbianism is a road to FREEDOM, FREEDOM from oppression by men and for SEXUAL SATISFACTION" says the radical feminist. The daughter of Bilitis the aim which is to promote LESBIANISM. In TRUTH women are not getting their FULL share when it comes to sexual intercourse with a man. Most are just managing!!! Yet is not a reason to becoming a SICKO, lesbian. NOT AN EXCUSE AT ALL.

The problem is quite deep.