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5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Chumani(f): 6:52pm On May 18, 2016 |
Domestic violence has become a viral issue in the society now with many women starting to speak up on the abuse they have suffered while with their husbands and in their matrimonial homes. Many women have lost their lives to this domestic violence while many has suffered bouts of pains and emotional trauma as a result of the constant battering they receive from their spouses. While the men who beat their wives have been called demons and beasts as a result of their actions, it would be wise for us to carefully examine this issue and put the blames where they ought to. The society should stop painting the men as the bad one, while they have been called beasts, it would also do us good to consider the role of the women who made the men turn them into animals with their constant battering and beatings. Please do not take it the wrong way, domestic violence is bad and no woman should have to go through it. It is a terrible experience that may have an everlasting impact on a woman’s mental health. Find below some of the reasons why women are considered to be a major cause of domestic violence: [size=16pt]1. Nonchalant Attitude[/size] http://www.onigeria.com/news/94778.html 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Mediapace: 6:54pm On May 18, 2016 |
Thumbs up op |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Jazzlite: 6:57pm On May 18, 2016 |
Op you're so on point...but there are some vulnerable ladies out there too.... I would not be so quick to attribute blames.... causes are often contextual....it might help to note that your wife/husband is not and never will be ur property! 1 Like |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by mii4u(f): 6:58pm On May 18, 2016 |
Nice write up |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Nobody: 7:32pm On May 18, 2016 |
Nice points OP. But d title is very wrong, No one shuld be blamed for domestic violence, no matter wat ur partner does to u, u r not supposed to raise ur fists on him or her. What happened to divorce? Parents shuld try to train and empower their children so they dont have to put up with an abusive partner because of financial instability. 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by BluStreak(m): 6:09am On May 19, 2016 |
The way this present generation throw divorce around leaves much to be desired. Is this how far disconnect we have become from reality? Divorce has become a melodious hyme everyone is singing to now. In this new chant for divorce, no one stops to consider the traumatic effect it will leave on the children from such marriages. It rewires their perception to life and in some cases exposes them to various forms of abuse. I won't wanna dig deeper into the many horrors of divorce as it affects the innocent children from the union. This however does not mean I encourage domestic violence or sitting tight in violent and life threatening marriages. Marriage takes a lot of work to make it work. The ADULTS involved should fucckkin be adults and correct their stupidity for the interest of the innocent kids and make that marriage work. Women should learn to be loyal and bridle their tongue, for it will yield better results when they say less hurtful things to their partners. No one can understand your marriage better than you that's in it. Friends most often will encourage you to do what they wouldn't do when face with the same situation you find yourself. Better still they'd want u in the same shoes as they are - afterall, misery loves company. We can all learn to live in peace and bring up lovely children to make our society a better place. 4 Likes |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by misreal(m): 7:19am On May 19, 2016 |
BluStreak:this is the wisest comment i have read so far. 1 Like |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Chumani(f): 11:32am On May 27, 2016 |
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Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Chumani(f): 11:33am On May 27, 2016 |
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Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Horus(m): 10:14pm On Jun 09, 2016 |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DC8nrpMXvqs [size=14pt]What Do Nigerians Think Of Domestic Violence?[/size] |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Nobody: 6:49am On Jun 10, 2016 |
No be Toks2008 thread be this? 1 Like |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Toks2008(m): 11:01am On Jun 10, 2016 |
Timbuktou: Jesu christi Seun,Lalasticlala, come and see the thread i created and was pulled down from front page getting rewritten and reposted on nairaland. What does this tell you? Apparently that write up that is not reasonable on nairaland sure made sense elsewhere. I am vindicated. Thanks Timbuktou for your keen observation. |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Toks2008(m): 11:05am On Jun 10, 2016 |
mii4u: This was originally written by me and many nairalanders asked for my head but now it is a nice write up shey. |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by eyinjuege: 1:17pm On Jun 10, 2016 |
Blustreak, Children should not be made to grow up in an environment filled with violence. It does more damage than good. Its just a matter of time for a man violent towards his wife to become moreso towards his own blood/ child. I'm yet to see a child in such an environment turn out right without any psychological baggage. In as much as divorce is life changing, the pieces of such a life can still be picked up, and under the right environment such a child can still grow up normal. No matter how much a spouse endures abuse, the children are seeing it and getting damaged. Leaving an abusive relationship isn't just about you but also about removing your children from a toxic environment. Can you imagine how children in Syria will turn out to be in the next 10 years? Under so much violence and even encouraged to participate? 2 Likes |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by Nobody: 2:36pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
Speaking from experience...hmm i think this thread is not even receiving enough attention as it ought to, women suffer domestic violence on a second-day to day basis in nigeria, however, we all want to shy away from it. a man is not a man until he can tame himself, i attribute hitting women to IMMATURITY. A man who is matured would not condescend to hitting but would rather walk out of such situations. I was in a relationship with a guy, we met during NYSC , little did i know that he also abused the person he was with before me, i dated , got engaged, and he was always pushing for the marriage to be done in a haste. I thank God i ran out, ran out i repeat, he didnt want me to leave, his family had to intervene, God so kind i later discovered he was AS genotype, and that just made my life easier, as i could hold on to his abusive nature which i endured for a very long time, lacerations today, swollen eyes tomorrow, popped blooed vessels in my eyes in january, pulled hair and wounds in february, .......and so it was till december only to start all over again january with the same sequence. The minute i discovered i was better than what he gave me. I RAN OUT ...... You dont easily leave an early abusive relationship, its only when perhaps the man is tired...... i have a lot to commute,but time is a constraint. IF THEY DONT CHANGE TO GET YOU; THEY WOULD NEVE CHANGE TO KEEP YOU 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: 5 Major Reasons Why Women Suffer Domestic Violence by NaeChris: 9:40pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
Women lost their lives, Men lost their joystick to domestic violence. Point of correction. |
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