Nigerian parents expect their daughters to get married someday. However, one thing
they are particular about is the kind of man their daughter(s) bring home as a
future husband.


With more 250 ethnic groups with Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa leading the pack, the
expectations may be different but they are interwoven and almost similar. These
presumptions are largely influenced by culture, religion, heritage, and exposure of the
families involved.

This said, a would-be or prospective son-in-law should take note of the following
tips shared by Jovago, Africa’s No.1 hotel booking portal if he wants to be
accepted by a prospective bride’s parents as in Nigeria, and the African continent
at large, a parent’s blessing and endorsement of a marriage is important.

1.He must be able to care for himself
No parent will allow their daughter to ‘marry’ a man who cannot take care of
himself. Everything about their relationship is hinged on love rather than the man’s
ability to take of the family he will raise. In fact, only a handful of women today
will take that kind of man to her parents. Nigerian parents do not demand much.
He should have a reliable means of livelihood or survival enough to take care of
the bride.


2.Respectful
Yorubas(for example) value respect. This is an aspect of culture they do not toy with. Even if
the parents accept you, the family members will never. They will always point it
out especially if it is obvious. However, you do not need to worry much if you not
marrying a Yoruba girl. However, this does not allow a would-be son-in-law to
treat the parents with disdain.


3.Dress responsibly
Laced ears, plaited hair, sagged trousers and blinks will simply get you fired as a
son-in-law. You should dress the way you want to be addressed. In summary, dress
responsibly. If that’s your style, try as much as possible to shelve it whenever you
are visiting your bride’s parents. By the way, don’t let her parents catch you
dressing like a gangster, they will not hesitate to tongue lash you.


4.Religiously consciously
Some parents may not be too keen on this. Despite this, whether you are a
Muslim or a Christian, you should be religiously upright. Nigerians are one of the
most religious black nation in the world. They expect their daughter to marry into
a pious home.


5.No wife battery
Wife battery is now prevalent in the Nigerian society. In time past, this wasn’t
the case. Today, there have been several reports of domestic violence with women
bearing the brunt. So, parents always try to enquire from their daughters to assure
them that their prospective son-in-law is not prone to wife battery.

Make I book space first

Brb

Number 3 is on point, unless the parents are ok with the dressing.

As per topic, your thread title says Nigerian, then you went on to single out Yoruba, why?

Norm plus u mst b frm an authorised tribe/ville/community.

Op not only yoruba value respect.. All tribes value respect.... No tribe wishes to be insulted or downgraded while giving out their daughters in marriage..

Noted.

This should be a front page of material.

Asides point no 4, I think all the other points is not just a Nigerian thing, it's universal.

I might be wrong though.

Gud points, but for now. 3 what of if the parents dress like gangsters.

For no. 5, not easy to know, the man could be pretending .

very true indeed