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5 Things Nigerian Parents Expect From An Intending Son-in-law by dannydammy(m): 2:50pm On May 22, 2016 |
Nigerian parents expect their daughters to get married someday. However, one thing they are particular about is the kind of man their daughter(s) bring home as a future husband. With more 250 ethnic groups with Yoruba, Igbo and Hausa leading the pack, the expectations may be different but they are interwoven and almost similar. These presumptions are largely influenced by culture, religion, heritage, and exposure of the families involved. This said, a would-be or prospective son-in-law should take note of the following tips shared by Jovago, Africa’s No.1 hotel booking portal if he wants to be accepted by a prospective bride’s parents as in Nigeria, and the African continent at large, a parent’s blessing and endorsement of a marriage is important. He must be able to care for himself No parent will allow their daughter to ‘marry’ a man who cannot take care of himself. Everything about their relationship is hinged on love rather than the man’s ability to take of the family he will raise. In fact, only a handful of women today will take that kind of man to her parents. Nigerian parents do not demand much. He should have a reliable means of livelihood or survival enough to take care of the bride. Respectful Yorubas value respect. This is an aspect of culture they do not toy with. Even if the parents accept you, the family members will never. They will always point it out especially if it is obvious. However, you do not need to worry much if you not marrying a Yoruba girl. However, this does not allow a would-be son-in-law to treat the parents with disdain. Dress responsibly Laced ears, plaited hair, sagged trousers and blinks will simply get you fired as a son-in-law. You should dress the way you want to be addressed. In summary, dress responsibly. If that’s your style, try as much as possible to shelve it whenever you are visiting your bride’s parents. By the way, don’t let her parents catch you dressing like a gangster , they will not hesitate to tongue lash you. Religiously consciously Some parents may not be too keen on this. Despite this, whether you are a Muslim or a Christian, you should be religiously upright. Nigerians are one of the most religious black nation in the world. They expect their daughter to marry into a pious home. No wife battery Wife battery is now prevalent in the Nigerian society. In time past, this wasn’t the case. Today, there have been several reports of domestic violence with women bearing the brunt. So, parents always try to enquire from their daughters to assure them that their prospective son-in-law is not prone to wife battery |
Re: 5 Things Nigerian Parents Expect From An Intending Son-in-law by Cutehector(m): 2:55pm On May 22, 2016 |
Ok so should I prostrate on the floor if I meet a yoruba would be father -in-law? |
Re: 5 Things Nigerian Parents Expect From An Intending Son-in-law by olatunjithomas(m): 3:03pm On May 22, 2016 |
....and of course regluar envelope to your potential father in-law will also contribute greatly to the process |
Re: 5 Things Nigerian Parents Expect From An Intending Son-in-law by ArchEnemy(m): 3:05pm On May 22, 2016 |
olatunjithomas:Yeah Should be loaded in the pocket too |
Re: 5 Things Nigerian Parents Expect From An Intending Son-in-law by marshalcarter: 3:09pm On May 22, 2016 |
Op....all dis tinz u mention/DEPENDING on the kinda woman....sum women go expect 4 range rovers...3 porshe...and every week offering Ma wife to cum..lemme tell u......I rest ma case 1st |
Re: 5 Things Nigerian Parents Expect From An Intending Son-in-law by Nobody: 3:34pm On May 22, 2016 |
TRUE POSTS @OP but add you must be rich or atleast come or a relation to a rich family. "money is very important becaus the parents and the family members of the lady tends to fantasize whats in for them when they get to know that you are rich or you come from a rich family. |
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