Who you, say you are matters a lot in your interaction with people around you. Your personality speaks more about you. This attribute is also important when it comes to marriage. We have been told that “relationships are full of compromise” and to a large extent, they are. Now when two people with distinct personalities, desires, and needs merge their lives (wedding), there is bound to be some work ahead – it’s never going to be a smooth ride. There some are key elements that make you who you are, and should not be played with.

1. Morals

Your morals should not be watered down just because you want your partner to be happy. What you believe in should be respected by him/her. Loving someone does not mean absorbing their moral values. If you compromise on these, your conscience will suffer, eventually causing you to resent your partner. Better to find a mate with similar moral values, that the two of you can use as a guide throughout your marital lives.

2. Family

No matter how disjointed our families are we cannot run away from it. Family units are never perfect, and the mate is often required to cope with as many of your extended family’s problems as you do. Cutting your family out of your life to satisfy your spouse is destructive, and will most certainly lead to you resenting your partner for the loss of these precious family ties. With families, both partners need to realize that the healthy compromise comes in accepting their loved one’s family, flaws and all.

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