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Re: What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by Onegai(f): 9:29am On Jun 02, 2016
5minsmadness:


From history and piece from the Bible, Xerxes was also known as Artaxerxes, a contusion from Ahasuerus. And yes, it is said he reigned from BC486-BC465.

I see crackhaus has already responded so I need not say more.


You do realise though that most Hollywood movie portrayals of history is heavily garnished to make it more interesting e.g Spartacus?

I know Hollywood garnishes to the point of silliness and "300" is actually a comic book, heavily stylized (like the Watchmen). But think about it: this is the ancient world, where they had really savage and out-there customs. Pedarasty, for example was practised by Greeks and Spartans and cultures used to borrow from each other. So Xerxes' court was for sure very "out-there" and this Hebrew girl (everyone knew the Hebrews were conservative by their world's standards) married the king . That is the modern day equivalent of an MFM pastor's daughter marrying the son of a corrupt politician who also happens to run a nightclub (who has been exposed to every vice) and didn't even bother to give his life to Christ before wedding the babe. grin and she pleased him!

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Re: What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by crackhaus: 9:42am On Jun 02, 2016
TheArchangel:
Thanks so much.
You're welcome
Re: What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by 5minsmadness: 1:06pm On Jun 02, 2016
Onegai:


I know Hollywood garnishes to the point of silliness and "300" is actually a comic book, heavily stylized (like the Watchmen). But think about it: this is the ancient world, where they had really savage and out-there customs. Pedarasty, for example was practised by Greeks and Spartans and cultures used to borrow from each other. So Xerxes' court was for sure very "out-there" and this Hebrew girl (everyone knew the Hebrews were conservative by their world's standards) married the king . That is the modern day equivalent of an MFM pastor's daughter marrying the son of a corrupt politician who also happens to run a nightclub (who has been exposed to every vice) and didn't even bother to give his life to Christ before wedding the babe. grin and she pleased him!

Pederasty would have been more about power and control and "male bonding" than sexual pleasure. Dont ask how i know grin
Pleasing the king may not actually have been in se.xu.al terms. Having sex would not be that big a deal to him as he would have had sirens at his beck and call. Most likely her humility, kindness and thoughtfulness won the "beast" over.

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Re: What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by Nobody: 3:07pm On Jun 02, 2016
My husband / bf pumping another man? embarassed embarassed embarassed
I may faint.
Re: What If Your Husband Or Boyfriend Cheated With Another Man? by Onegai(f): 3:08pm On Jun 02, 2016
5minsmadness:


Pederasty would have been more about power and control and "male bonding" than sexual pleasure. Dont ask how i know grin
Pleasing the king may not actually have been in se.xu.al terms. Having sex would not be that big a deal to him as he would have had sirens at his beck and call. Most likely her humility, kindness and thoughtfulness won the "beast" over.

Some African cultures practised Pederasty. But more importantly, how do you know about it...

Ghen ghen ghen! cheesy

So, basically, you're saying the Book of Esther is also about telling good girls to marry bad boys, bah!!!! Because they will "tame" them. grin

In the context of this thread (what was it about sef?), pedarasty would explain a wide walking in on her husband in bed with another man and he explaining things away as "bae, the love I have for you is earthly and will keep the human race alive. But this is a purer form of love, devised to keep male binding very strong. Don't get mad, sweetie!"

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