you know most of the time
its common for the wife to be bullied

but I will never forget the day
late at night
my neighbours were having a sleepover at my house

all i cld wear from the opposite room was my mother consistently telling my father to shut up for like 20 times
she was so loud and aggressive while telling him to s up
my neighbour was so shocked and embarrassed for our father and kept complaining, see how ur mummy is telling ur daddy to shut up

it was a horrible experience
when I think abt it till today, I feel so bad for him

after some few minutes
they had a big fight and broke all the furniture in the sitting room

Eyaa!! I hope they didn't break it on your head?

onila:


after some few minutes
they had a big fight and broke all the furntires in the sitting room

This girl sha .. U nor dey tire? How many thread u don create for nl?

Stiched brain. This is only the second time I would read your thread. I thought you had something serious to say, bringing your father into this, otherwise I would never click on your thread. Continue ooo.

My advice. Tell him to Viagra up and show her the boss in a surprise assault [trust me]. U wlcm

onila:
you know most of the time
its common for the wife to be bullied

but I will never forget the day
late at night
my neighbours were having a sleepover at my house

all i cld wear from the opposite room was my mother consistently telling my father to shut up for like 20 times
she was so loud and aggressive white telling him to s up
my neighbour was so shocked and embarrassed for our father and kept complaining, see how ur mummy is telling ur daddy to shut up

it was a horrible experience
when I think abt it till today, I feel so bad for him

after some few minutes
they had a big fight and broke all the furntires in the sitting room

hahaahahaha hahaahahaha

shut up... 20 times ? the woman mean oh
am sure she gave him the first and second slap.

furniture is furniture, whether singular or plural

Sorry about this.

Seun sef don believe the fake story

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maureensylvia:
U remind me of my family where mum keeps telling dad that they were not meant for each other, dad prays that one should die between them as well as my mum, mum said that as soon as dad dies she will sell his landed properties. I told them that when I get married that my family will not be like theirs, children look up to their parents character in terms of marriage but mine is a different case, I don't want yo GO further @op U triggered me to say this, now am married am using common sense in my marriage not what l learnt from my family. I wonder y they haven't divorced till now even though there is no love there Any longer***sobs***

this is probably the kind of stuff for me to say. But my prior solution works in the short term at least

ilovetheline:
this is probably the kind of stuff for me to say. But my prior solution works in the short term

do u mind sharing?

maureensylvia:


do u mind sharing?

My advice. Tell him to Viagra up and show her the boss in a surprise assault *raunchystuff*

ilovetheline:
My advice. Tell him to Viagra up and show her the boss in a surprise assault [trust me]. U wlcm

michymeg:
Eyaa!! I hope they didn't break it on your head?

; D


These people ehn

Lol my mum used to shout at my dad aswell

Isn't yelling at each other something married couples are bound to do?
I don't see any bullying in that situation.

fellis:
Isn't yelling at each other something married couples are bound to do?

I don't see any bullying in that situation.

how come my neighbour found it uncommon, strange and painful

doesnt his parents fight? there was something wrong that day

@maureensylvia, is your story real? I find it too hard to believe, because I can't imagine children growing up in homes like that. Just reading it stirs pain in me.

I hope you don't allow your growing-up experiences to affect your relationship with your hubby.

JonTal:
@maureensylvia, is your story real? I find it too hard to believe, because I can't imagine children growing up in homes like that. Just reading it stirs pain in me.

I hope you don't allow your growing-up experiences to affect your relationship with your hubby.

I can't lie against my parents,all the same they are precious to me, I try my best in my marriage, I even asked my mum what is it that I learnt from them, she kept quiet for sometimes out of guilt and said morning prayers...is that all mum?

maureensylvia:


I can't lie against my parents,all the same they are precious to me, I try my best in my marriage, I even asked my mum what is it that I learnt from them, she kept quiet for sometimes out of guilt and said morning prayers...is that all mum?

Hmmmm.
The good thing is that you recognised it as a problem while it was all happening. I think that helped you to decide in advance to be different. Unfortunately, many young people with similar experiences bottle up traumas which they grow into adulthood with and transfer them to their marriages.

May God continue to bless your marriage.

maureensylvia:


I can't lie against my parents,all the same they are precious to me, I try my best in my marriage, I even asked my mum what is it that I learnt from them, she kept quiet for sometimes out of guilt and said morning prayers...is that all mum?

Was touched by your story. A lot of us out there, but we give God the glory and hope/pray for better marriages in our time.

Fadamant:
Stiched brain. This is only the second time I would read your thread. I thought you had something serious to say, bringing your father into this, otherwise I would never click on your thread. Continue ooo.

if u dont have anything to say

mind ur business. thank you

feeling snubbed

onila:


if u dont have anything to say

mind ur business. thank you

feeling snubbed