A woman has cried out for helping after
finding out that her son might not actually
belong to her husband, and she is afraid of
how it would ruin her marriage after she
cheated.







I am so ashamed of this and it has made my
life unbearable for me. I’m very suicidal and I
just don’t know how to fix this mess. I have
a three-year-old son now, when I got
pregnant I thought my son was for my
husband and not my then boyfriend. I was
proud to be pregnant and never had worries
about who the father of my baby was.


My husband used to cheat on me a lot and I
cheated on him and so when I got pregnant I
was sure the baby was his cos I dumped the
other guy and later heard that he has passed
away. However, problem started recently
when I found out my husband has a daughter
who was born 7 months after my son and the
girl just resembles my husband like a
photocopy and I started seeing difference in
my son who suddenly looks nothing like my
husband.



I see that my son could be the other guy’s.
All these while, I didn’t think for once that my
husband is not the father
My husband and my son have a very strong
bond, they are so in love with each other.
But, I fear what could happen if he finds out
he is not actually his son.




I feel like a thief. I feel like I’ve committed
the biggest sin in the world. My husband’s
family love my son, he is one of them they
also do everything for him.




Everyday, I want to tell my husband about
this but I’m scared I’m always in tears. I’m
so scared of the damage this issue is going
to do to us. I know his heart is going to
break if he finds out. What should I do?
Should I tell him or just forget about it? What
will happen if he finds out himself?






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Hmmmm

Just forget about since you are not even sure who the father of your boy is.
What if your husband is the father and you went ahead to spill your filth?
It is only guilty conscience worrying you.
Live your life a better woman and bother less.

infogenius:
Just forget about since you are not even sure who the father of your boy is.

What if your husband is the father and you went ahead to spill your filth?

It is only guilty conscience worrying you.

Live your life a better woman and bother less.

OK thanks

It doesn't take blood to be family but the heart. Your husband have created an everlasting bond with the son and I don't think opening up about your infidelity will change that. Forget the fears within and focus on bringing up the kid in the best possible way.

u r not even sure of the child's father. pls be sure first

Can't you steal a pint of your husband's blood and secretly go for test with your son .men never ever forget things like this.for your own peace of mind try to be sure before spilling your beans you can start thinking of begging when you are sure.

Like d posters above -
1. u r nt sure of son's paternity.
2. ur ex bf pass away
3. now ur son z wid u and has a great bond wid ur hubby

my advice, incase u find out ur son isn't ur hubby's, bury d truth, live wid it, its d cross u ve 2 carry till death

ancashy:
Can't you steal a pint of your husband's blood and secretly go for test with your son.

Was about to say the same..

Please don't do anything silly yet, follow this lady advice. Best of luck.

A father is he who takes responsibility for the baby. Before you take any decision, pls get a DNA test done.

Mopricelezz:
This one Big pass me oo.

Good afternoon.
Do you read pm's?

infogenius:
Just forget about since you are not even sure who the father of your boy is.

What if your husband is the father and you went ahead to spill your filth?

It is only guilty conscience worrying you.

Live your life a better woman and bother less.

This guy can keep a secret forever. Ask him, he knows who killed Dele Giwa, MKO Abiola, Sanni Abacha.

WorldRichest:


This guy can keep a secret forever. Ask him, he knows who killed Dele Giwa, MKO Abiola, Sanni Abacha.

Lol!
As if you know.

1 - 1.

Toor, u re nt even sure. U better carry d truth 2 d grave b4 u kill dat man of heart attack. Just pray 4 God's forgiveness and believe d baby Is 4 ur hubby btw ur ex is dead. Don't go digging what u can't finish. Just pray he doesn't find out in d future...

#copied#
B4 nlders will come 4 my head