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Re: Married In School, Single At Home by hUmaneOne: 9:56am On Sep 25, 2016
dacovajnr:
Have I said something wrong? I guess am right then...

you said
but not really a plagiarism per say...

it is full blown plagiarism ,,correct yourself
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by kennynikky(m): 10:09am On Sep 25, 2016
hello i lyk ur post buh dn't 4gt dis, dat life's a choice, is what u choose dat matters, dat article's d real truth buh, dey r Some dat stay 2geda nd live a decent life, dey r few, xo sis dn't allow provocation 4rm ur 2 fwnd 2 get u down or spoil ur decent nd intelligent, mind ur buzz nd let dem b... Anyway am using dis medium 2 tnk GOD 4 adding anoda years 2 mine.. M nd my 2nd. HAPPY BIRTDAY 2 us..
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Nobody: 10:27am On Sep 25, 2016
Bleeding for 4months and damaged fallopian tubes from excessive intake of contracetives? What is wrong is wrong but don't lie to make your story alarming. You might have lost some people there.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by fetrillion(m): 10:35am On Sep 25, 2016
RealJaneDoe:
Oh PUH-LEASE give me a break from what you wrote you mostly shamed the girls why.... so the guys are not involved too. That's very silly

Anything that is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

If girls are promiscuous they're hoes if guys do the same they're pros.

.We really need to stop this habit of blaming one side for an issue when clearly both are involved.
Its so freaking annoying

I am not supporting what they are doing but spread your message to both sides OK!!!!

Your level of comprehension is apparently infinitesimal.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by chuckwizzy(m): 10:41am On Sep 25, 2016
nairaarea:
*MARRIED IN SCHOOL BUT SINGLE AT HOME.* THOUGH IS QUITE LONG BUT I URGE YOU TO READ AND THANK ME LATER

Welcome to Nigerian campuses where little girls are practising 'wifely functions'!
Just visit the boys' hostels and you would be disappointed to find out that it is now common for a girl to live in with a course mate. It is now common for her lover to give her the popular compliment 'you look sexy my gal' and she would gladly reply 'thank you honey' with a flirty voice and a romantic smile. Who is her lover? A 300 level student whose CGPA is barely up to 1.78! And they are aiming for the next best couple award for the session by the departmental association. So, the girl need to live with him to prepare along.
What nonsense! It seems that some girls
suddenly loose their senses immediately they gain admission. I've seen that some of them have no more sense of caution, honour and dignity. They would change their wardrobes and acquire a new set of make ups just to look
'campussy' and sexy enough for the guys. In
months, they would start sleeping around with little boys. I mean boys who collect pocket money from their uncles! Dirty boys who most of the time are infected with sexually transmitted diseases. Hey! I want you to know that you were sent to school to obtain a degree not a disease. The campus is called a school; school not sex! You are on campus to receive education not ejaculation. You are here to master the use of a pen not the pleasures of a penis. Wake up girl! Do some thinking. Your future is greater than the 'best couple award'. You cook for a boy you are more intelligent than.
You give your virginity to a boy who will
definitely leave you after graduation. You play wife to a boy who cannot even care for himself. Oh, you have given too much. Enough! Open your eyes! Can't you see you're being foolish?
You are passing through the fears of unwanted pregnancies yet you are opening your legs to a
coward who cannot stand before your father. And when you eventually gets pregnant, he would brutally advise you to abort it and you would timidly agree; then face the consequences later. What a shame! You may master the use of condoms but you can't master the punishment of your conscience. Don't you know you are bringing shame to your family? Don't you know that you are cursing your mother by accepting to sleep with a boy (not even a man) without her consent?
I cautioned a girl against sleeping around and she replied 'Sheddy, I don't sleep around; its only one boyfriend I have and am faithful to him'. What impunity! That's classified harlotry. And don't you know that sleeping with a man without your father's blessings is bringing a curse to your future?
What happened to your cultural values?
Somewhere in your heart you know he would use you and dump you; so why are you setting up yourself for a heartbreak? I want to remind you that you are a lady and one day you may get married. And your husband would know that you are such a dirty bitch who sleeps with anything on trousers. The greatest gift a lady would give to her husband on the wedding night is her virginity less lost it out of (rape) not the certificate of best couple of the year on campus!
The other gifts for the rest of her life are her
care and character not her curves and
complexion! Real men know this; so, get it
screwed in! Those treacherous boys would call you 'sexy'
and you would answer? Oh, sorry! They touch your breast and you would smile? They would ask you out and you would oblige? Oh, you are
indeed a mistake. I'm not saying that you should be rude or never live a 'social life' but I want you to think deeper than you are currently doing. I want to turn your attention back to your books.
You are not in school for breast exhibition. So, pay less attention to those boobs and give more attention to your books! You are not in school for cat walking show. You are rather here to show us the dignity of womanhood. You are here to prove to us that you are costly. So, why make yourself so cheap?
I am writing this with both love and pain in my heart and that's why am sounding stern. I know about two girls now that have been living with
their boyfriend since year one and as it is now they can't even even count how many abortions they had for that same boy at sch bae. it's now like a normal thing to them, the last one she did
almost took her life and that made her bleed for 4 months, imagine how you do feel with ordinary 4 days of menstruation left alone living with it for months.. As a matter of fact one of them have damaged her fallopian tube due to excessive use of contraceptives she has taken to prevent pregnancy. I want you to look beyond now and think of what advise you would give your own daughter when you become a mother. I hope I have not offended you...if I have, please repent.
To the decent girls I have seen on campus: do not be swayed by these evil. Be consistent and keep celebrating your purity. I am always proud of you. And God is more proud of you.
....... . Thanks.

Bernice Cryout(Voice of Inspiration)
400Level Department of Nursing,
Nnamdi Azikiwe University
don't you know how goooooooood sex feels.. it's a natural pain killer.. you'll forget about your worries
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by goingape1: 11:24am On Sep 25, 2016
Ginaz:


Sorry if you're guilty, I never met to upset anyone. Pls don't be offended, everybody got principles and that happens to be mine. I not forming holy as I'm not holy myself. Abortion is something that doesn't goes well with my personality, as I have made up my mind never to indulge in it.

My post wasn't to condemned but to encourage.
for you information I'm not guilty of abortion
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by simplyakinz(m): 11:53am On Sep 25, 2016
This Lifestyle Are Mostly Common In SS/SE Higher Institution Xpecially State Owned Skul
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Chiefoomii: 12:32pm On Sep 25, 2016
Hope they will hear your word. Truth is Bitter!
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Vicsean: 12:46pm On Sep 25, 2016
Too much attack on the female gender and ur argument is too one side. Atleast I know a couple of girls that got married to their college boyfriends.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by habsydiamond(m): 1:04pm On Sep 25, 2016
Couple life dey jaburata for all campus. How dem dey get time read sef. To me, wetin go dey the guy mind is to nack the girl blue, black like turning a blue litmus paper into black. Majority of such relationship always end after graduation. Some also end up having bad CGPA when they graduate.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by engrelvis(m): 1:10pm On Sep 25, 2016
A lot of girls r misunderstanding dis.yes some few girls get away with but generally dey r d losers.boys dnt really v anything to lose.is free sex n good food everyday. Is lust greed n indiscipline.girls wise up.d boys r using u
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by lonelydora: 1:18pm On Sep 25, 2016
fulaniHERDSman:
grin cheesy
Na so Lalastic take camp one okpekesis then for school ... funny thing was, he told us she was his sister ... na for final we discover say na "wanne indi owerri" grin cheesy

Original Igbo boy claiming Fulani herdsman. grin
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by fulaniHERDSman(m): 1:21pm On Sep 25, 2016
lonelydora:


Original Igbo boy claiming Fulani herdsman. grin
i am ibo by marriage.either way you are right. No hard feelings tongue wink

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Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Nobody: 1:24pm On Sep 25, 2016
RealJaneDoe:
Oh PUH-LEASE give me a break from what you wrote you mostly shamed the girls why.... so the guys are not involved too. That's very silly

Anything that is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

If girls are promiscuous they're hoes if guys do the same they're pros.

.We really need to stop this habit of blaming one side for an issue when clearly both are involved.
Its so freaking annoying

I am not supporting what they are doing but spread your message to both sides OK!!!!

Jackie chan...take a chill pill first, oya swallow...now digest







the op is a female,she is simply advicing her fellow gender...like a mum would, talking of how to not throw away their dignity cos of one silly award etc etc.
u can open a counter thread and advice your fellow guys too...its allowed

judging from your moniker,u are a "Jane"....so what's the prob?
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Vicsean: 1:29pm On Sep 25, 2016
engrelvis:
A lot of girls r misunderstanding dis.yes some few girls get away with but generally dey r d losers.boys dnt really v anything to lose.is free sex n good food everyday. Is lust greed n indiscipline.girls wise up.d boys r using u

Haba guy free sex and good food? Ya sounding like only guys get satisfied during sex.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by biggy26: 2:10pm On Sep 25, 2016
RealJaneDoe:
Oh PUH-LEASE give me a break from what you wrote you mostly shamed the girls why.... so the guys are not involved too. That's very silly

Anything that is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

If girls are promiscuous they're hoes if guys do the same they're pros.

.We really need to stop this habit of blaming one side for an issue when clearly both are involved.
Its so freaking annoying

I am not supporting what they are doing but spread your message to both sides OK!!!!


It would be nice if you can balance it. That the female was emphasized, doesn't mean d guys are exonerated. And like we all know, d girl carries d pregnancy and is d one that gets shamed by society. So if d girl is strong enough to say no, there's nothing d guy can do.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by engrelvis(m): 2:13pm On Sep 25, 2016
Vicsean:


Haba guy free sex and good food? Ya sounding like only guys get satisfied during sex.
d truth is most guys at DAT age is being control by their sex hormone .guys will never agree to DAT but is d truth.d more a girl keep herself d better her chances of gettin married. Even d bad guys need a good girl for marriage. D Western world u r copying r more tolerant.if u v travelled out u will understand. Their societal value n orientation v put paid to dat
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by KardinalZik(m): 2:13pm On Sep 25, 2016
No jealousy dey worry the author. Period!!!
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by laoludavid(m): 2:40pm On Sep 25, 2016
Hmmmm, may God forgive us
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by victme1(m): 2:50pm On Sep 25, 2016
Ondoboi12345678:
Someone should help me ask the writer if she married as a virgin. If yes, come collect medal or plastic. If No, she should pls take this down.

God will bless u with only girls





























It's OndoBoy Again
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by luciouscookie: 3:25pm On Sep 25, 2016
I am confused. So girls only get pregnant when they move in with their boyfriends

And then they abort the babies because they're married in school and single at home

To avoid pregnancy and abortion I think we should be preaching abstinence and using of protections.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by otunba88(m): 5:28pm On Sep 25, 2016
na this kind girls as described by the op will get married to a rich dude and live happilly ever after while the 'holier than thou ladies' will still be going to crusade and vigil . lol
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Vikky014(f): 5:35pm On Sep 25, 2016
FinestPINACLE:
me too am happily married to my schl boyfriend whom I lived with.
happily married indeed yet u want to donate your kidney for sale...i wont b surprised you dnt hv any child since den due to many abortions u did wt him...stop deceiving urslf u hear
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Vikky014(f): 5:37pm On Sep 25, 2016
otunba88:
na this kind girls as described by the op will get married to a rich dude and live happilly ever after while the 'holier than thou ladies' will still be going to crusade and vigil . lol
and you are among the rich dude dt will marry those type of girls...
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Vikky014(f): 5:38pm On Sep 25, 2016
engrelvis:
d truth is most guys at DAT age is being control by their sex hormone .guys will never agree to DAT but is d truth.d more a girl keep herself d better her chances of gettin married. Even d bad guys need a good girl for marriage. D Western world u r copying r more tolerant.if u v travelled out u will understand. Their societal value n orientation v put paid to dat
period
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Vikky014(f): 5:42pm On Sep 25, 2016
chuckwizzy:
don't you know how goooooooood sex feels.. it's a natural pain killer.. you'll forget about your worries
common a guy dt ws sent to sch to study is nt supposed to house a girl...secure ur future first...sex is a time waster...it makes those people dt indulge in it lose purpose and focus
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by bigblackbooty(f): 7:46pm On Sep 25, 2016
If u ain't a virgin then u're worse than Buhari
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Deboxoxo(m): 9:41pm On Sep 25, 2016
Hmm but I av read ds post on whatsapp since last 2 months b4 been publicized here.. Hw cum??
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by RayRed16: 10:31pm On Sep 25, 2016
seyiojomu:
Do u wanna go that line for real? Bringing your religous views into a social and modern society discussion? If yes, identify urself pure first cos no sin is bigger than another.

Am no supporter neither am I discouraging people on this subject, dere are advantages and disadvantages, teach ur kids the right ways and its up to them to use their free will and mind on discerning what is right to do or not.

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Oh sorry! I thought u were a Christian! Sorry for bothering u, bro.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Eugstycks(m): 6:24am On Sep 26, 2016
NeutralJUDGE:
Too bad of us student...the end justifies d means
,the is end is never good you know...
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by abouzaid: 7:14am On Sep 26, 2016
geronimoedeh1:
i repeat,my daughters wud go to part time school ony afta dey hav married...period
an average girl in school sleeps with a guy or guys fo lik 300 times before she graduates...wtf
a faithful girlfriend co~habiting with her man vs these girls that sleeps with almost everybody. which one is better? maybe i should ask op that question, the simple truth is that atleast 90% of all the girls in higher institutions technically qualified to be called prostitutes.
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by FinestPINACLE(f): 9:49pm On Sep 26, 2016
Vikky014:
happily married indeed yet u want to donate your kidney for sale...i wont b surprised you dnt hv any child since den due to many abortions u did wt him...stop deceiving urslf u hear
Hmmmm see me see wahala? Guess u must hv bin dumped a million times by ur partners. So sorry but don't come and show ur act of stupidity to d world! Ode! itz everybody who have boyfriends in schl dat do abortions. receive sense plz. Am happily married to my schl boyfriend and a proud mother of a son! idiot!

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