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SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 1:20pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
What happens when your step-mother is the same age as you? 1. You stop bringing friends over because she starts acting wired, due to insecurities 2. You fight over the top (yours) she decided to wear without your permission 3.Suddenly, your dad doesn't like it when you want to take turns for house chores. She's your age for crying out loud 4. Then she finishes the whole deal by STILL enquiring about whom that guy you were talking to is. Not parent enquiry, trust me 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 1:27pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
jagugu88li: If that happens then I think it's time for you to move out. I'm sure your dad won't mind financing that because I'm sure he is uncomfortable seeing you and wife together, because he'll always be reminded about the fact that he married his daughter's age mate. 18 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Vendoor(f): 1:30pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
This look more to me like an experience 5 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by hisgrace090: 1:35pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
People need to always consider their actions before hand. 2 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by pacino26(m): 1:37pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
In ur case you may need to go on a long vacation. Like charges repel unlike charges attract. |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Ioannes: Say you are the only child,still in University, mother passed on and anyway you are not used to your maternal family. What then? |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Emodeee: 1:38pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Are you writing from a female friend's experience or your girlfriend's experience? |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by hisgrace090: 1:39pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
People need to |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by hisgrace090: 1:40pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
People need to always consider their actions before hand.while remarrying remember your childrens welfare is paramount. 3 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 1:40pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Emodeee: Mine, current situation |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
jagugu88li: Get a place of your own still, maybe close to home (or not) and visit them often. That way you won't be a threat to your mother-in-law and your relationship with your father will be intact. I'm thinking you are old enough to stay on your own right? I'm assuming if you are the same age with your dad's wife and all... Hope you get what I'm saying... 2 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Emodeee: 1:45pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
jagugu88li: Upload your picture then. I think say you be male na. can you just narrate the full story? So we can fully grasp the message you are trying to pass out. Why did he marry a lady of your age? |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 1:50pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Ioannes: I get you and thanks for advice. Only problem is, with no job that's impossible and the scarcity of jobs is another problem. Currently I go by some allowance which is not much, but I get you 4 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
hisgrace090: Parents think we making them choose when we say such |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 1:56pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Emodeee: You don't have to make jokes about this 4 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
jagugu88li: You welcome, and all the best... 1 Like |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Emodeee: 2:00pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
jagugu88li: if i was joking, i would use a smiley or indicate a smile. I'm not joking. Narrate what happened. |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Sirmuel1(m): 3:28pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
just leave the house for her. |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by oglalasioux(m): 4:04pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
I've witnessed this scenario and in that case all the children were older than their step mother. It wasn't funny at all. OP, time to leave the house. 3 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 4:07pm On Jul 09, 2016 |
Sirmuel1: oglalasioux: bad solution, but true!!! |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 3:46pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
jagugu88li:from the post, I can deduce that you are talking from experience... but I think I have the solution.. I.e if you are willing to do... |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 4:08pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
doctorkush: You welcome |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by sisisioge: 8:22pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
Talk to her in the most amicable way you could and hence try to keep to yourself in the house. Lock your room. Get locks for your wardrobe. Become very grown up without seeming rude...just carve a space for yourself in the already crowded House. Since your mates are already getting married, its time to start acting the grown woman you are. May God help you. Thank God she's not already plotting to throw you out...we both know mother in-laws are devil's cousins. By the way, I meant no insults with the mates marrying thing....my mates are great grand parents now 2 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Richy4(m): 10:42pm On Sep 06, 2016 |
If you are a student, tell your dad u want to live close to uni...That is the best way of saying u want to stay out of their business...and if your request is granted, make sure it was not a hostel because that house will be your base... even during break, u are there.... For u to get some respect, u need to clear out, because i believe that since u have started talking about the house chore, it will soon turn ugly and ur dad might support her and u will feel dissapointed. Before it does, i suggest u keep ur dignity intact and find some where.... 6 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 9:42am On Sep 07, 2016 |
I won't mind that at all.... Am curious to find out how I might react... |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by jashar(f): 11:55am On Sep 07, 2016 |
hmmmm..... 7 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Jay542(m): 12:24pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
Just keep doing you with restrictions. |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 12:50pm On Sep 07, 2016 |
You just have to deal with it |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by DukeNija(m): 9:58am On Sep 08, 2016 |
jagugu88li: I'm just wondering why she would be interested in who you speak to over the phone and also your response. That was what got to me. Life is all about perspectives. And i think you need to look at this scenario from a different lens. Some said give her space, others said leave the house; and my question is for how long will you do all these? How long will you keep your distance and leave your dad to her mercy? I think you should embrace her more like a friend. Yes it is an awkward situation and i don't think your dad made the best decision here but theres little you can do about it now. By making her your friend you wield more power and influence over her and your dad, whilst protecting your dad. 2 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 11:39am On Sep 08, 2016 |
sisisioge: no offence taken, if I'm lucky my turn will come, hopefully soon. Thanks loads hey 2 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 11:55am On Sep 08, 2016 |
jashar: Chai,see plan m'Lady all you've said is true but the practical side is almost impossible. This here is what I call polite imprisonment and I have to do it to myself Hard because just seeing the person spoils the mood, I'm sure you know how that feels. But thanks darl 3 Likes |
Re: SHOCKER: When A Step-mother Is The Same Age As You by Nobody: 12:15pm On Sep 08, 2016 |
Richy4: Honestly that wouldn't work for both me and my dad. Without giving you a lot of family history, we are the only family left. Anyway..I hate the idea of being subtly kicked out but a stranger. DukeNija: She still had interest in guys here age, that's how I see it. Then acts out DukeNija: My friend? Yeah I hear you. I'm trying to do all these but really its easier said that done. Time will tell bro, time will. Nothing is as annoying as waking up to seeing the d***l 1 Like |
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