now that you've learnt your lessons will he come back? no

Lesson to learn. Sadly, many of them will still do same mistake even after reading all this

PrettyCrystal:
go and marry again

marry am now

Now this is a very big lesson to all the ladies. Seriously I dunno what the problems of most ladies are nowadays. They will see someone that truly loves and cares for them and ready to sacrifice his life just to make them happy, and instead of calmin down and live a good life and enjoy, they keep finding what is not lost up and down and never get comfortable. Regrets and gnashing of teeth is the end results they eventually get. May God help you all.

tell them oo

ChangeIsCostant:
This is a true life story of a woman who is lamenting her ordeal after getting divorced by her husband due to her ego and bad advice from people around her. This was shared by 'Relationship Matters Forum'. Read below;

I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.

There is no benefit in pride!

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/07/there-is-no-benefit-in-pride-woman-who.html

from d look, ha family gat pride.. Bad family, wicked family... I dnt pray to marry from a family as this.... Am happi for her. U neva c anyfin

Hmmm.....


Let me go and call Ngozi

dz story sef don teh......grade 12 fr dz UBE era! smh Op

Reading the post just saddened me i don't know why

cc cococandy

I have never seen confused folks like women. they have chicken brain.

You see am

colik:
" Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain."

It's like you were high on Cameroon pepper then. pack your bags ke? Is marriage like boarding school?
people dey sha.

Lmao.. that part got me like WTF !!

Whether the story was made up or not is inconsequential. The fact is, it happens. Just learn from the story, that's all. If u can't, just waka pass

Even those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.

Bad-mouthing u while they remain "happily" married.
Women are their own worst enemies.

hahn:


It is too obvious that the story is fabricated

. Don't relat the message to your female folks o, just keep looking for how true it is.

hahn:


It is too obvious that the story is fabricated

. Don't relat the message to your female folks o, just keep looking for how true it iis [color=#000099][/color]

This story look almost like mine, though my wife was lucky that I didn't go so far as in divorcing her, she would have been regretting by now. Women should stop comparing their marriages with that of their friends.

Mynd44:
I hail your story telling skills

lmao... the story is so fake....

Fake or not.

Fake or not. I go save am for future purposes

ChangeIsCostant:
This is a true life story of a woman who is lamenting her ordeal after getting divorced by her husband due to her ego and bad advice from people around her. This was shared by 'Relationship Matters Forum'. Read below;

I am 32 years old. Me and my ex hubby dated for six years, I started dating him whilst I was in grade 12, I was 19 years old. We were best of friends, I waited until he completed college and started work, my family and his family then met, we got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times, but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he can’t control me. Every time we argue, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain. My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him. If he is controlling me I would always dare him that if you wish divorce me- I never wanted divorce, I just had pride and I never wanted to look a lose in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so had that for the first time he beat me and lock me out side, I went to my family, my family took him to police, every time I looked like I am being abused! But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained. I was asked by his family to withdraw the case, I felt that what I was doing is wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall. Of which he openly knelt down and apologized. I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue, and he remained alone. After two days I received a call that he is in hospital, my family told me that I shouldn’t go there because it will look like am begging him, and my sisters believed he is faking the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused. He spent a week in hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon. I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me, I called him and say he will get the divorce because I live like am in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared. To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and me acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We got divorced in 2009 July. Now, this Saturday my husband is getting married again, whilst I am here wasted! My family are gossiping about me, I depend on what my ex gives to my son for survival. I know I wasted my marriage. I am here telling all wives to be careful how you get advise. Don’t be cheated. Even my young sisters are much more respected than me. Those who encouraged me to divorce are always bad mouthing me.

There is no benefit in pride!

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/07/there-is-no-benefit-in-pride-woman-who.html

Super story
Fabricated story

GirlAfrik:
Super story
Fabricated story

Wise Lady. It's really fabricated

go and marry again

Fake story, but interesting nonetheless.

Pride goes before a fall.

SamMilla1:
cc coc0candy

You see why i always say that men can take decisions at any point in time esp. When it comes to this.

[size=13pt]whatever you make of this story. . . . . i will advise girls, when you have a man, be careful whom you listen to. make sure your advisers are happily married. . . otherwise they may be looking for companion in single motherhood.
oyibos introduced divorce to us. . . . . now oyibos are more likely to remain married than blacks, in America, Nigerian women are more likely to call police for their husbands than oyibo/african-americans,

for me, grounds for rethink in a relationship is if your man is beating you, threatening to beat you, cheating on you, voted for Buhari
apart from that, i'll advise that you remain in the marriage and try to make it work. and leave all this feminism BS. don't bring it into your marriage.

and finally, I blame Buhari for all this nonsense Since that fool became president, everything is falling apart, including marriages. [/size]

#Buharism
#TotalFailureInAllSectors

Women shaa See what she course her self in d name of family advice. Lesson 4 married women

this movie is a nollywood movie ..i tink jim iyke is d leadin actor