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Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 6:32pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: YES! And this woman is perfectly okay to you? One? It has been researched. Many women do. I was surprised, too. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 6:36pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: I believed your stories in my 20s and they even scared me. In my 30s I discovered that they were lies. Men become quite clingy and even desperate in their 30s and 40s. 5 Likes |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by HaneefahRN(f): 6:38pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Bolade005:Yeah, I can. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 6:39pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: What's wrong with this example? I have friends who were divorced in their 30s and re-married in their 40s. I have even seen women marrying in their 50s. Since they are not famous, I can't show them to you but they exist. 5 Likes |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 6:40pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I gave you scenarios, not stories to scare you. You haven't answered any of the questions, but I trust you to always come up with your usual tactful manoeuvres. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Bolade005: 6:41pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I admire your sense of humour. Trust me, it's not hard to tell you can't be more than 26years old. You're a 90s baby and that's why I'm not so surprised at your judgement on certain topics. And hey, it's okay to sometimes "follow crowd" , you don't have to be different always. I know deep down you know ALMOST everything in the OP is TRUE but you being you, you just have to disagree. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 6:42pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
byvan03: I have evidence. I will be glad to provide a compilation of female celebrities who married in their late 30s or even 40s. Some of them married, divorced and re-married. Open your eyes. 3 Likes |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Bolade005: 6:43pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
HaneefahRN:Good. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 6:45pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Bolade005: I look like a 90s child but I am not. I am quite lazy this evening, it has been an extremely hot day but I will take my time to google ALL these women who married and remarried despite being older than 35+. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 6:47pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:You Mindfulness will type anything to support your argument, we know your way for hia... You say it has been researched? Well how about you conduct a research here... Ask your friends here who are mothers to find out which of them regret motherhood. Also ask your female colleagues at work and get their responses. I honestly don't know what utopian world you seem to have created in your head and then went on to convince yourself that it is reality. 4 Likes |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: I wonder why you are so concerned with the choices women make or are able to make today. Whether they marry or not, have kids or not, what's your business in all of it? |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: I don't have to. There are people who were paid to do it. Regretting Motherhood: A Sociopolitical Analysis Regretting Motherhood: A Sociopolitical Analysis O ver the past few decades motherhood in Western societies has been widelydiscussed,challenged, andpolemically reworked ingenderandqueer studies and in feminist scholarship. 1 The bodies of knowledgeproduced by these intensive inquiries have made it possible to discuss themother and motherhood as cultural and historical constructs by which women are treated as a natural caregivers and through which womanhoodand motherhood are considered to be synonymous ð McMahon 1995; Arendell 2000 Þ . Whereas within this ideological construct, “the mother”connotes a falsely pan-class, pan-ethnic, pan-gendered phenomenon, the works cited in note 1 have conceptualized the diversity of mothers as fleshand blood subjects, with their own feelings, needs, and desires along in-tersecting axes of race, ethnicity, nationality, disabilities, religion, ...... http://www.academia.edu/9820246/Regretting_Motherhood_A_Sociopolitical_Analysis Love and regret: mothers who wish they’d never had children Around the world, women are seeking an honest, open debate about what happens when you admit that motherhood isn’t everything you were told to expect .... https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/may/09/love-regret-mothers-wish-never-had-children-motherhood Thank me later. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 6:52pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Now you're obviously getting tensed up. We're just having a conversation, aren't we? Just answer the darn questions...does the answer you know to be true scare you so much? 2 Likes |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Bolade005: 6:52pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:You're a 90s baby. I am sure you list will be full of celebs and millionaires. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by byvan03: 6:56pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: My eyes are quite open to reality, I don't view through rose tinted glasses and celebrities are no yardstick for measurement. Like you said, it's my opinion and remains so. I won't try to change yours either , except you truly don't believe the things you are writing here, otherwise let's believe what we believe . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 6:57pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: I am not getting tensed up dear. It's a question that has been on my mind for a while. What motivates you to jump on every thread like this? Have you made it a mission to help women who may make mistakes and would regret it later? And when I say, you are a feminist, you want to kill yourself. I have no fear. I have faith. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 6:58pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
byvan03: Kontinu! |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 6:59pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I'm sure you have such friends. Birds of a feather...and so on and so forth. This is something to be looked forward to, happy for you baby girl. 2 Likes |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 7:01pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Okay. So are we getting answers to the scenarios sometime this year? 1 Like |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: I like to associate with people who are as brilliant as I am. My encounters here are only a service to mankind. Free education. Thanks baby boy. [size=3pt]You missed something yesterday. Next time, support your friends before they lose it. I still don't know if it was actually funny.[/size] |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by byvan03: 7:02pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
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Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 7:05pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: You have gotten all the answers needed and more. By the way, it doesn't matter what age anyone marries. Just last year, a relative was left by her husband after 25 years of marriage. She was 17 when she met him and 19 when they got married. There is no guarantee in life! Any man or woman who thinks that marriage will save them from misery or loneliness, is gullible and out of touch with reality. 3 Likes |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 7:06pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Thanks for the links, much appreciated. Now will you conduct your own research to compare with what those writers came up with? I distinctly remember you telling me not to believe everything I read on the internet. Meanwhile, let me help you begin: Shaybebaby, do you have any regrets being a mother? 1 Like |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: You are the coolest feminist on NL. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 7:10pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:I agree with this completely. I haven't gotten no answers from you, but it's okay...never mind. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 7:12pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: What was the question again? |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 7:13pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Lol..indeed I missed a lot, especially the pics that got you and Shaybebaby into an uncontrolled hormonal frenzy |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 7:15pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:Barf |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 7:16pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
crackhaus: I don't want to be a bully so I won't post IT. |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by HaneefahRN(f): 7:16pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness: I agree with this. Marriage guarantees nothing. Lots of people are living miserable lives being married, but do not want to get out cos of what the Society would say, and fears of unknown. Being married doesn't mean being happy, nor save from loneliness. If a person makes a wrong choice of spouse, it's like hell on Earth. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
HaneefahRN: True! Suffer and smile tings. 1 Like |
Re: For Women: Career Before Marriage Or Marriage Before Career? by crackhaus: 7:18pm On Jul 24, 2016 |
Mindfulness:The USAF hasn't even learned how to conduct aerial tactical manoeuvres better than you do here. 2 Likes |
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