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Adults Only .. by Nobody: 8:19am On Jul 26, 2016 |
Wife,and I were arguing when its safe to have sex after delivery..we went to google,it prescribed at least six weeks either natural birth, or C-S.. She insisted on waiting for 3months before anything,saying that Google opinions isnt conclusive. Pls note that it was just a normal discussion, not that am under any pressure sexually.. |
Re: Adults Only .. by HARDBUOI: 8:41am On Jul 26, 2016 |
is ur wife kpomo sweet?
sorry to ask |
Re: Adults Only .. by Onegai(f): 8:44am On Jul 26, 2016 |
Anecdotally, I think for most women it's back to normal at 4 months after. Are we scaring her? I wish I had known these things, so I would have been more prepared as to what happened rather than "surprise!". It's an emotional response, not just physically. Do the above mentioned and take things slow. 1 Like |
Re: Adults Only .. by eagleccentric(m): 8:47am On Jul 26, 2016 |
six weeks is the recommended period but some women heal fully much earlier than that. Depends on how she heals. And for above comment, this is family section pls. |
Re: Adults Only .. by Onegai(f): 9:40am On Jul 26, 2016 |
eagleccentric: But do you realise it is the "Family section", not the "Religious (False Morality) Section"? Do you want to take a minute to think that the OP said adults only? Nigerians are funny: a husband comes to ask married couples about sexuality within his marriage. An apparently single guy gets uncomfortable with details. Because Sex is dirrrttyyyy, even if God created the organs for it and has santicified it during Matrimony 5 Likes |
Re: Adults Only .. by blank(f): 10:24am On Jul 26, 2016 |
Depends on her. Some start at 4 weeks, immediately after lochia, after 6 week check up etc. Depends on her state and how traumatic she felt the delivery was. 1 Like |
Re: Adults Only .. by netotse(m): 11:51am On Jul 26, 2016 |
okay I'm starting to resign myself to being actionless for a while |
Re: Adults Only .. by yvelchstores(f): 7:50pm On Jul 26, 2016 |
op it all depends on individual so despite what ever we say here, it boils down to what your wive feels is OK for her. I HV seen ppl who made their husband wait 6 months, personally 4 weeks will do.all d best. |
Re: Adults Only .. by eagleccentric(m): 5:02pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
Onegai: I wasn't referring to your quote pls, i was referring to HARDBUOI or whatever his/her name is. Your post may have come in while i was writing so its as if i was referring to you. BTW, your post was quite educative. Thanks |
Re: Adults Only .. by Onegai(f): 6:12pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
eagleccentric: Okay bros. No vex |
Re: Adults Only .. by 2goodbobo(m): 6:29pm On Jul 27, 2016 |
She can make you come through MouthAction. You must not penetrate if she is not ready to have it any time soon. 1 Like |
Re: Adults Only .. by eagleccentric(m): 12:22am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Onegai: i vex small sha, but since op said adults only, i must needs behave like one |
Re: Adults Only .. by Evacroft: 12:30am On Jul 28, 2016 |
It all depends on the body although babycenter says 6weeks,but w all heal differently, just like when u have a cut and has to be stitched, d person with whom u were stitched the same time might not heal as fast as u. That shouldn't bring friction much,just try and communicate. |
Re: Adults Only .. by Nyceguy92: 2:38am On Jul 28, 2016 |
I think six weeks after delivery is too soon. Most women are still sore and tender and heavy with breast milk to bother about sex at six weeks. For all practical purposes, three months sounds reasonable. This is the time most women tend to tune in to their husbands' advances. However, it is known that some who find it difficult to wait that long start earlier. 1 Like |
Re: Adults Only .. by TheArchangel(f): 8:28am On Jul 28, 2016 |
Chaii my brother. |
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