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Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by overtlyderanged: 9:15pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
How did the payment of bride price come into existence ? |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by VocalWalls: 9:26pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
lekkipropertyy: List nko? |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Bluette(f): 9:30pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
VocalWalls: I concur.. Cc: PHOTOSHOOT. |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by iykenathan162(m): 9:31pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
epmmiks: in what way did he (fayose) assit the young man to better his life in future? |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Nobody: 9:32pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
DirtyGold: Did you read the first post at all? |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by darlingtin1985(m): 9:36pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
My advice is simply don't act like a big boy, if possible there should be no rice and stew just the bride price and nothing else but If they say want a party it should be funded by the family members that wants it. Am not yet married but that is exactly what I will do. |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by darlingtin1985(m): 9:37pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
AyaSunday: Oversabi |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by VocalWalls: 9:38pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
Bluette: If he does, I will abandon all my options and vote for him... |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Nyceguy92: 9:42pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
The basic elements of the pride price paying ceremony are food and drinks, items( in the list)to be provided, and the pride price money. Few people are required: maybe at least 5 from your husband's side. Unless you want to make multiple trips with your husband, you can obtain the list ahead of time and take the items with you. What most people do is convert all the items to cash. It is more convenient. You and your husband may provide money for the entertainment to augment what your people have. Any elder in your family should be able to give you more details, but it won't be far from what I have said. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Bluette(f): 9:43pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
VocalWalls: Haaaaaaaa...no Now. Pls vote and support him even if he dosent. |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by DirtyGold: 9:45pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
AyaSunday:Yes I did! If you respected tradition as you are coming back to it now, you would not have gone to court first before the necessary groundwork. What's tha business? |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by VocalWalls: 9:47pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
Bluette: He must oh! |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by ASAMPETE1: 9:49pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
4 barrels of Palm wine and 2 pieces of kolanut. That's enough for ur bride price, cos you must hv milked the man dry. |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Bluette(f): 9:50pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
VocalWalls: I'm pleading on his behalf. |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Nobody: 9:54pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
[quote author=Lukmann1 post=48038044]Marriage and his wahala, This is one of the reasons i don't like getting marriage, All the stressed attachment to it. LUKWOMAN NA EKWUYELI |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by uchennaq(m): 9:55pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
Don't you have elders and relations to seek advice. Must you bring this here |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Nobody: 9:56pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
Nyceguy92:onye nkwuyeli ozo |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by VocalWalls: 10:00pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
Bluette: I no dey hear girl.plea... |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by VocalWalls: 10:00pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
ikiller: Mouthed! |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by sweetgala(m): 10:06pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
It is very important to note that for the Yoruba culture at large there is no regard for the bride-price but the important aspect is the ceremony of the family identifying your husband traditionally and prayers being said by elder members of the family. A poster has above listed the items that would be expected to be bought here is a post by another NL member miteolu The Yoruba Traditional Wedding Engagement list is presented to the groom’s family from the bride’s family some weeks prior to the traditional wedding day. The gift items asked for on the list (known as Eru Iyawo in Yoruba) are packaged and presented to the family of the bride on the traditional wedding day. The engagement list items below are not set in stone, although some like the Bible/Quoran, bitter kola, and are a must. www.nairaland.com/attachments/2920751_eruiyawo_jpeg0f88e73571ea9747b8536941352dc706 I would recommend you seek advise from a close friend's mother or a wise elderly lady of good repute whom you can confide in. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Bluette(f): 10:11pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
VocalWalls:Kikikikikikikiki... So whos' plea o |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by DICKtator: 10:14pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
sweetgala: Why all those lists? I thought the op typed bride price!! Bride price is different from dowry!!!!! |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by sweetgala(m): 10:17pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
DICKtator: She would be doing the engagement and introduction the same time, this in-fact was how Yoruba traditionally and culturally married off their daughters in a modest singular event before the fanfare of big white owambe asho ebi weddings came to be |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by wadetaw202: 10:58pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
AyaSunday: Welcome to yorubaland, where we Dont depend on bride price to pay our age long debts, send other children to school, buy/furnish a house, buy cloth, buy spoon, etc. |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by love4rent80s: 11:19pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
What's the difference between bride price and dowry |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Nyceguy92: 11:50pm On Jul 30, 2016 |
ikiller:Sorry, but I don't understand... |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by tevanso(m): 12:59am On Jul 31, 2016 |
DirtyGold:u mumu pass dona trump |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by nefertitiram: 5:17am On Jul 31, 2016 |
lekkipropertyy: It all boils down to the bride's family. Mine was 28k in total sef. Just fix date to see the Olori Ebi. Come with his fam members. You and hubby, wear and co Lace material. No too much paparazzi. They will deliver the bride price stuff. Family will pray for you, then photo session. Before 5pm, una don comot. Marriage don set. I have no idea why people make weddings so much of a big deal Hubby now felt if he knew how simple and easy it was, we would av been married 3 years b4 we did. Anyways, God bless my family for making the wedding simple and easy for him. We kukuma saved the party money 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by nefertitiram: 5:23am On Jul 31, 2016 |
love4rent80s: You pay bride price to marry a woman You pay dowry to marry a man We don't pay dowry in Nigeria. It's mostly seen in India and traditional/old school europe. |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by ademipeju(f): 6:26am On Jul 31, 2016 |
Bluette:. Wat re u concurring, na copy and paste the guy dey do. He suddenly turn to zikoko agent ontop MR.NAIRALAND Contest. Rubbish Happy Sunday |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by ademipeju(f): 6:28am On Jul 31, 2016 |
VocalWalls: shey u think say he dey creative reach that level? Na copy and paste e boy dey do na, wait till zikoko.com update something like dat so he can copy nd paste here Happy Sunday. |
Re: Nairalanders!!!!! Please Advise On This For Bride Price Paying Ceremony by Nobody: 6:45am On Jul 31, 2016 |
uchennaq:Obviously you didn't read the first post |
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