Plenty sick people in Nigeria, chai! To imagine people are justifying this is just sickening

Thank you! And when this is seen outside of Nigeria and they call us backward, we will start complaining! How can any sane person justify this! Two wrongs don't make a right! Recording naked images of that girl is just disproportional!

dadebayo1:


Taken down but a lot of people have downloaded it.. And it is already saved in several blogs too so even if YouTube deletes the video it remains in the cloud forever..
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At least its no longer on Youtube so its exposure is significantly reduced.

calliope:

Can't help but wonder if there were no other way to disciple her, den dehumanizing her?
I am not surprised tho, dats typical of an Ibo father.

apology to my ibo brothers..

fellis:


At least its no longer on Youtube so its exposure is significantly reduced.

Yes sir.. That's true.. Thumbs up

AuroraB:
And her generation will be glad she became sexually adventurous at such a young age


What did the father do to the homeless oaf sef .

Life....

Is the man Innocent, is that the way to train a child.. That man and his kinsmen should be jailed for life... This is arrant nonsense. That girl will become worse.

As a counselor, that offence she did is not an offence of flogging but morals which were denied to her during upbringing by her parents.. they say show me a child and i will tell u his/her parents

As said, we can find the cause of a child misbehaviour but we should also learn to knw the cause.

Wailers, over to u

JustHere2Observ:
Thank God the video has been removed and I hope Nairaland mods will remove the pictures too.

people already have it on their storage device and can be easily uploaded to file sharing site

waternogetememy:


The two of u are mentally deranged.


I wont be surprise in the future to here u put prick in ur daughter yansh!


Better yet borrow her ur matrimonial bed 4 prostitution. eranu!

****


The man was measured and his temper under control, whilst he discipline and disgrace the useless girl.

Thanks for your comment. Its not the best treatment by the father but he expressed his anger under some control. Total disrespect for her father from this girl. But what of the boy, him own don finish if so.

5minsmadness:


There's no Maybe about it. We punish them so they don't make the same mistakes. If a parent is afraid to punish his own child cos he believes the child will "hate" him then he is a coward and not fit to be a parent.

If that video is your example of punishment for children then I will rather be a coward.
A display of rage is by no means a method of correction..

Animals everywhere , all of you people justifying this are just animals that deserve to be kept in cages and tamed . You idiots are pissed that she let at most ten men see her naked saying she is throwing away her pride and her father's pride since she isn't a virgin but for some dumb reason all nod to the fact that she was stripped and flogged in the midst of men who shockingly are also seeing her unclothedness whilst one is having an erection , if this wasn't bad enough it was uploaded on YouTube And has been downloaded multiple times , now this secondary school girl is to go back to school trying to pass her exams whilst being the item of scorn ridicule be it her seniors her juniors her teachers heck Even the food sellers And the new inside joke , her neighborhood will be the same , church Lool unless her obviously poor parents have enough money to send her to somewhere far away (another state) she will always be a joke , her friends will all avoid her ,people who dislike her will escalate the hell out of it , animals like you will constantly glare and she will then have to return to her stupid fathers house who will for some reason still expect her to behave like a cultured girl and show him utmost respect and be diligent with her work whilst passing exams and becoming a good person ...how ... being embarrassed in even a remotely public place is enough to dent ones esteem ,90% of the guys supporting this can't even stop a girl they like because they are afraid of being embarrassed in public as if a girl snubbing you will end your life but you expect this small girl to be able to bounce back from this , she is too small to be able to do that she sure as hell can't rely on her parents so her only option will be to wither and die or just Bleep everyone and everything and embrace the shame and become completely wayward ....all because some perverted father decided to flex muscle ... i can't even rant anymore

lielbree:

Was the girl naked?

I support the beating but not the unclothedness. That's just uncalled for

you have a point sha

This is a horrible child abuse!
Her father is mentally sick and should be locked away in jail!

blackpanda:

Like whom??

are you really asking me this?? Like seriously??





Maybe you don't live in Nigeria.

UmecheMoses:


I quite understand..... back in the days, the fornicator was whipped and dragged naked in the public..... it's rather unfortunate that today's public is now the social media..... but trust me, even if a demon tries to push her next time she won't do it.

The only thing she might not do is to bring a man to her father's house.

As for sleeping around, they just gave her the licence.

free world Bro is ur kid kill her if u want free world Bro is ur kid kill her if u want

GreyLaw:


I want to consider what you wrote a huge joke! The problem is not whether or not the man's action would correct the girl, but the damage his overreaction has caused.

Do you even consider it that till the world ends, that girl's unclothed pictures will be all over the internet, to be feasted upon by both genuine viewers and perverts?

Fatherhood or not, the man got it absolutely wrong. Trust me, in developed Western countries this man would be facing the courts now and the girl taken away from him.

In fact, whatever the girl did is a reflection of the moral decadence of her home and, of course, poor home training.

The kid was foolish; the father was more foolish!

The morally advanced society you cited are still studying more conservative cultures as a cure for the malaise in their style of parenting.
Last year, a survey in the US put children from Indian, Asian and Nigerian families to be better behaved than most children in the States.

Have we not seen or read these statistics of those advanced country and ours tirelessly?. the result are evident.

What pervs are you talking about, even if they gore at the online picture from now till eternity comes does it bore a hole in her skin. Hell No!!!

People have risen from much worse here in Nigerian.

So please spare me the archive threats of the internet, this is the least of her problems.

The man is not a citizen of an advanced country, but that of a "less advanced society" so he hasn't erred here. It is the norm and it is expected.

In fact, those days she would have been given a thorough beating by other women, remember it takes the whole village to raise an African child.

Now these benefits is lost in prisons we called flats, Duplexes and Private Homes/Estates and virtual world of internet and smartphones.

As no one claims a bastard child, except nowadays where shame is replaced with baby mamas syndrome.

The problem is that we are torn with identity crisis, we can not be whiter than the white and we have long sold our cultures to remain truly African. Hence we are not all white in our culture now and can never be and neither are we still 100% African in values, norms, and culture. we are lost somewhere in the middle.

Did you grow up in an African home where your sisters were sexually active at this age or had the temerity to bring their bed mate to their parents home, I am certain you did not, you dare not dare to dream about this.

As family name and reputation is everything back then not these days where followings on social media and the craze for views/blogs traffic is a measure of your role model capability or your trustworthiness of being a better character and judgement.

Disappointing

waternogetememy:


Mr man! I am not a thread pusher, it is not wat i do 4 a living, u can sign on with as much moniker as u like, the father has handled the matter, wen her mum gets back, she will collect curse and more slapping/flogging.


Commit suicide if u dont like it, u cannot love and care 4 their daughter more than the parents.


U are simple reasoning with ur dick and after wat u can get as a man, her parents are after her future.


If person like me mistakenly jam ur type with my daughter, u done meet God, i will not even touch her. I will use u to demonstrate just how wicked, i can be. She go fear.

grossintel:
This man is mentally ill, I won't be surprised to hear this kid committed suicide months from now.

D man get fault pass... Mtcheeew.

banmee:


Are you phucking kidding me? And 18 people liked this post. It is a reflection of the mental decay in a jacked up country. Because Nigeria is filled with animals, you have no choice but to act and think like an animal. So i understand your position. It's sad though.

trust me. I'm equally disgusted. And it's no longer 18 likes. It has over 250 likes now. Yes. There are many more who think like him.

femi4:
people already have it on their storage device and can be easily uploaded to file sharing site

This is sad, the father didn't think it through at all.

fellis:


At least its no longer on Youtube so its exposure is significantly reduced.

do u have a copy of the video

cococandy:
trust me. I'm equally disgusted. And it's not longer 18 likes. It has over 250 likes now. Yes. There are many more who think like him.

Don't get me wrong Mrs coco, each time i read your comments, it gives me a rush of warm feeling that at least there is one normal person who i can say came from Nigeria, but sometimes you need not tell me some things. I get riled up easily. Not good for my blood pressure and all. 250 likes? For that idiotic point of view? Which kain tin be dis na?

WHAT THE FORK!!!! the father is mentally sick no doubt about that. he will be sent to prison if its in the western world. what nonsense!!!!! its clear that he and the mother are both at fault here. becaus if they had given her thorough sex education, this would not have happen. TRAIN UP A CHILD IN THE WAY OF THE LORD AND WHEN HE IS OLD, HE WILL NOT DEPART FROM IT.

banmee:

Don't get me wrong Mrs coco, each time i read your comments, it gives me a rush of warm feeling that at least there is one normal person who i can say came from Nigeria, but sometimes you need not tell me some things. I get riled up easily. Not good for my blood pressure and all. 250 likes? For that idiotic point of view? Which kain tin be dis na?

I can't get you wrong. I know the feeling. Same here. There are only a handful of people on this forum that I feel that way reading their posts. You included of course.

How can a human being think this is okay? Not a goat or sheep. A human being. Thinking this way. It's alright. There have to be foolish people in this world for balance. But it hurts me there are more fools than normal people roaming about.

A foolish father who failed in training his daughter well thinks he can redeem himself by destroying her publicly and some folks think that's okay.

chai Bible complete. A child left alone to himself will bring shame unto his parents.
yes its annoying but d dad wasn't thinking straight, am sure his going to regret his actions wen his anger simmer down.

cococandy:
I can't get you wrong. I know the feeling. Same here. There are only a handful of people on this forum that I feel that way reading their posts. You included of course.

How can a human being think this is okay? Not a goat or sheep. A human being. Thinking this way. It's alright. There have to be foolish people in this world for balance. But it hurts me there are more fools than normal people roaming about.

A foolish father who failed in training his daughter well thinks he can redeem himself by destroying her publicly and some folks think that's okay.

If only there are ways to give a thousand likes.

banmee:


If only there are ways to give a thousand likes.

Alot Of hungry bloggers already have it.
Whats done is done, no Matter how right Whats wrong is wrong, it already happened let bye gone be bye gone

stanisbaratheon:


are you really asking me this?? Like seriously??






Maybe you don't live in Nigeria.

You have said nothing.

This girl is scarred for life, i hope she overcomes the trauma....She did wrong but this father is not very bright.




This is akin with killing a mosquito wit a sledgehammer.

Name checking

blackpanda:



You have said nothing.

well, let's leave it at this now before you start casting unnecessary aspersions left right and center because i don't have the time for that. Goodbye.