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massinola:
11. You reasons for failure because you failed to realize that the people surrounding you are the mirrors with which you see yourself. given the chance, everybody will score him/herself 100%

Help me tell them and the OP. Everyhuman at some point need people to talk some senses into them,. As the saying goes "Advice no be curse"

Someone must watch someone's else back, our actions affect people around us either postively or negatively. So yes I owe explanations to people around me, *there's a difference between steping out of boundary and a genuine concern*. It ll definetly become everyones business, when the shit hits the fan.

Care about what other people think and you will always be their prisoner. Lao Tzu

SmathGate:
WHY DO WE FEEL THE NEED TO ALWAYS GIVE EXPLANATIONS?

Being an active member of society can fill you with all sorts of pressure and stress. Certain situations make you feel like you must respond a certain way or act in a specific manner. And yes, some people think they know what is best for you and your livelihood.
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REGARDLESS OF ALL OF THOSE THINGS, YOU MUST REMEMBER, YOU DON’T OWE ANYONE AN EXPLANATION FOR…

1. YOUR LIVING SITUATION.

The way you live your life at home is no one’s business but your own. It doesn’t matter whether you have housemates, live alone, live unmarried with a partner, or if you still live with your ex.

2. YOUR LIFE PRIORITIES.

Dream of opening a restaurant? Want to become a pastor at your church? Have an urge to sell all of your belongings and backpack through Peru? Go for it! And remember, you never need to explain your priorities to anyone because they are your priorities, and are not there to impress people.

3. NEEDING ALONE TIME.

If you require alone time in your life, you’re not being rude, introverted, or unfriendly, despite what others might think. You just need time to be by yourself- alone. We all need time to find our center and refocus.

4. YOUR PHYSICAL APPEARANCE.

We all go through changes with our bodies. Losing weight, gaining weight, getting a new hairstyle, growing a beard, or doing anything different with your physical appearance doesn’t require an explanation. They will just have to deal with your purple hair.

5. YOUR FOOD PREFERENCES.

Not everyone is fan of pizzas and burgers. Some folks like banana and bacon sandwiches, or they prefer spaghetti with butter instead of tomato sauce. We all have different tastes when it comes to food. If someone tries to judge you over it, don’t pay them any mind. You just go ahead an dip your french fries in your ice cream.
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6. YOUR SEX LIFE.

This is a no-brainer. It is a very personal part of your life, and whether your sex life does or doesn’t exist, it’s no one’s business but your own. There will always be someone who will pass judgement on you for who you sleep with or what your sexuality is. But I’ve found, their opinion doesn’t matter.

7. YOUR CAREER OR PERSONAL LIFE CHOICES.

Go in the direction you want to go, and follow the path of your choosing. If you are a talented artist who desires working in the legal field, follow your heart. If being a lawyer is your dream, go for it. The ones who truly care for you will support your decision.

8. YOUR RELIGIOUS OR POLITICAL VIEWS.

These days, it’s easy to pick a fight- just ask someone what their political or religious affiliation is and watch the battle ensue. Whether you are a Republican or a Democrat, a Catholic or a Protestant, it is your choice and yours alone, and you never need to defend your beliefs (as long as they don’t harm anyone). Of course, if someone wants to have a mature, candid discussion with you about the topic, then go for it. Exchanging ideas and viewpoints can expand the mind and is beneficial for both parties.

9. BEING SINGLE.

Regardless if you’ve been single for a week or a year, you’re probably comfortable with the decision at this point in your life. If people are pressuring you to find a date, or to get married and settle down, tell them to mind their own. Being single can be great.

10. YOUR RELATIONSHIP CHOICES.

Did your ex ask you to get back together and you said yes? Did you forgive the one that cheated on you?Did you turn down a marriage proposal? Well guess what? All of these decisions were made by you for your own set of reasons. You followed your heart and this is where you landed, and you don’t owe anyone an explanation for that.

Life can be complicated, and the people around us can either make it more difficult, or they can ease the burdens by supporting your choices. You don’t have to give explanations for everything.

culled from http://iheartintelligence.com/2016/07/28/11-explanations/

If you owe no one explanation for all these then you should carry yourself to the hospital when you fall sick bury yourself when you die.

Shikena

No one is an island

ifeomaekol:
Someone must watch someone's else back, our actions affect people around us either postively or negatively. So yes I owe explanations to people around me, *there's a difference between steping out of boundary and a genuine concern*. It ll definetly become everyones business, when the shit hits the fan.

Gbam!

The way you live your life is no one's business, you can only say that when you know you don't need anyone's help in your life (decent life) [/quote]

This is the best answer to this one sided article.... Lets watch this OP he must be gay...!

dejavubobo1:
But all this tinz we look forward to others to give there assessment b4 we roll

I think dats becos we too overly conscious of what others think about us and we wanna keep keeping up with the on ground reputation.

oladele239:
Your choice to be a Zombie or wailer
Your choice to tell anyone the size of your balls
Your choice to be an ipod or yoluba

You owe no one any explanation on these choices above!

Ur choice to either eat 404 or rodents
ur choice to either sip brukutu or pastise
ur choice to either go out with above 40 or under 15
ur choice to either drive a range or keke
u owe no one any explanation on these choices above

kachiz:
One guy during NYSC: why do you always like going to toilet? I don dey monitor you, somedays e dey even reach four times.

Me: its bevause I am using my money to buy food for myself unlike you that is saving your allawee to use and buy land in your village, buy car and send your future children to school.

very funny

ok

liztemi:

I think dats becos we too overly conscious of what others think about us and we wanna keep keeping up with the on ground reputation.

Bt if ppl don't comment on how u live then u are not living at all. Our careers, spouse, neighborhood are all influenced by ppl around us

Very funny.

chubbygal:
Your complexion

Angeldepedro:
I owe my loved ones all those explanations, my parents, siblings and my partner, i live for them.

You just said it all.
I wanted to tell him he would understand he owes alot of explanations on all the above stated when he gets married.

dominique:
Trust our people, they must pokenose and ask for answers directly or indirectly

Dominique how are you?

kachiz:
One guy during NYSC: why do you always like going to toilet? I don dey monitor you, somedays e dey even reach four times.

Me: its bevause I am using my money to buy food for myself unlike you that is saving your allawee to use and buy land in your village, buy car and send your future children to school.

people can be funny
...always pokenosing

Adeoba10:
My comments on Nairaland.
FTC
Hello my fellow Nairalanders. Please I need ur help n assistance, i hate coming online to ask for favour, but i cant hold it anymore, please if u cant help me dont abuse me. I just want to ask you people, d address and phone number of those wu are in charge of FTC gift. Am xpecting mine.

On behalf of Seun, the board of trustees, moderators, staff and medicals of nairaland, we wish to apologize on the delay on delivery, as regards your duly earned First To Comment gift.

You do not need addresses or contact of the gift couriers as your first comments in various threads have already been assessed and deemed worthy of an endorsed gift.

The economy, especially the rising cost of the dollar, has negatively affected business-mostly courier charges.

Nairaland is working effortlessly with the Buhari led administration that amongst others, your FTC gift gets to you in earnest.

We appreciate your diligence and effort in constantly posting first in given threads. We apologize for the delay once again.

Thanks.

OP. Thank you for this.

Mr OP
If you don't owe no-one explanations, then you may as well go and buy land in Jupiter where there'll be nobody to ask you anything

@op

I think you owe a lot of people an explanation if you do any of those things you listed wrongly. They are standards for everything we do in life and their norms in which you should do it. For example, you see some matured guys goin to date an underage girls of 15, 16 and the likes. Do you leave such person to his own? Because there is nothing you tell the underage that won't be regarded as manipulation in regards to the law guiding minors.
So my brother, even ur freedom of any such can be taking from you if you misplaced the priority of the essence why it was given to you.

Thanks

MzDesire:
Thank you

MzDesire okparanozie

youngest85:


MzDesire okparanozie

Ehn??

deebrain:



On behalf of Seun, the board of trustees, moderators, staff and medicals of nairaland, we wish to apologize on the delay on delivery, as regards your duly earned First To Comment gift.

You do not need addresses or contact of the gift couriers as your first comments in various threads have already been assessed and deemed worthy of an endorsed gift.

The economy, especially the rising cost of the dollar, has negatively affected business-mostly courier charges.

Nairaland is working effortlessly with the Buhari led administration that amongst others, your FTC gift gets to you in earnest.

We appreciate your diligence and effort in constantly posting first in given threads. We apologize for the delay once again.

Thanks.

Guy, u go good for Customer care agent...

MzDesire:
Ehn??

Happy weekend

A lot of people clicked d like button but if we see a thread about a spinster na we go first shout "go and marry" or something similar.they dont owe u an explanation.

youngest85:

Happy weekend

Same to you

Well If you dont owe anybody any explanation on the above then be ready not to ask and receive help.

For?

MzDesire:
Thank you

asumo12:
For?

the write-up

What a timely message?