if you nor get money you be morkey no honey not even dieling according to uncle p,, ,, no girl is ready to marry e go better, they all looking for e don better

Yes it is, shd u marry a man that is poor, that is a diferent question

Yea! it is possible. Remember, no condition is permanent. A guy is poor today does not mean he will not be rich tomorrow. Marrying a rich guy is not it; but a guy who realy loves & cares 4 u, 4 luv conquers all.

omahost005:

Yea! it is possible. Remember, no condition is permanent. A guy is poor today does not mean he will not be rich tomorrow. Marrying a rich guy is not it; but a guy who realy loves & cares 4 u, 4 luv conquers all.

A poor man that does nothing about his condition will remain poor

A poor guy with potiental
not some NFA!

ijaw_girl:

A poor guy with potiental
not some NFA!

Wonderfully said, agreed with you, cos love is not enuf

there r 3 reasons y "nigerian galz choose not 2 marry a poor guy.talkin from a niger galz perspective.1-if she suffered hardship wit him n he is com4table hill start lukin 4 stupid excuses 2 cheat around say maybe shes 2 fat or shes no longer a good cook etc 2-its very difficult 4 a gal who has lived in a wealthy and com4table home 2 marry a pauper.even if she is fallin in luv her parents will giv her reasons 2 fall out of luv n marry som1 of her class 3-no gal,i inclusive is ready 2 live in poverty,eating to kip body n soul not necesarily liking d food out of poverty and most galz.i inclusive cant sit n watch n allow my baby suffer mal nutrition,besides it will be a slap on my face n an embarrasment 2 my parent 4 me 2 study in an expensive school n come out with a good degree n end up with a paupe.god 4bid.i"ll definetly marry som1 of my level or higher if possible.any way wot r my sayin likes attract likes.a male graduate can neva be attracted 2 a pepper seller,neither can a female graduate be attracted 2 a poor bus conductor

there r 3 reasons y "nigerian galz choose not 2 marry a poor guy.talkin from a niger galz perspective.1-if she suffered hardship wit him n he is com4table hill start lukin 4 stupid excuses 2 cheat around say maybe shes 2 fat or shes no longer a good cook etc 2-its very difficult 4 a gal who has lived in a wealthy and com4table home 2 marry a pauper.even if she is fallin in luv her parents will giv her reasons 2 fall out of luv n marry som1 of her class 3-no gal,i inclusive is ready 2 live in poverty,eating to kip body n soul not necesarily liking d food out of poverty and most galz.i inclusive cant sit n watch n allow my baby suffer mal nutrition,besides it will be a slap on my face n an embarrasment 2 my parent 4 me 2 study in an expensive school n come out with a good degree n end up with a paupe.god 4bid.i"ll definetly marry som1 of my level or higher if possible.any way wot r my sayin likes attract likes.a  male graduate can neva be attracted 2 a pepper seller,neither can a female graduate be attracted 2 a poor bus conductor

it is god, bad, ugly, to get friend ship 2 a poor guy becouse love is decition between one person 2 the other

kulyie:

there r 3 reasons y "nigerian galz choose not 2 marry a poor guy.talkin from a niger galz perspective.1-if she suffered hardship wit him n he is com4table hill start lukin 4 silly excuses 2 cheat around say maybe shes 2 fat or shes no longer a good cook etc 2-its very difficult 4 a gal who has lived in a wealthy and com4table home 2 marry a pauper.even if she is fallin in luv her parents will giv her reasons 2 fall out of luv n marry som1 of her class 3-no gal,i inclusive is ready 2 live in poverty,eating to kip body n soul not necesarily liking d food out of poverty and most galz.i inclusive cant sit n watch n allow my baby suffer mal nutrition,besides it will be a slap on my face n an embarrasment 2 my parent 4 me 2 study in an expensive school n come out with a good degree n end up with a paupe.god 4bid.i"ll definetly marry som1 of my level or higher if possible.any way wot r my sayin likes attract likes.a  male graduate can neva be attracted 2 a pepper seller,neither can a female graduate be attracted 2 a poor bus conductor

poor man don suffer oh

Poor at what age please?

If he's a young graduate, well, there's a potential as they say,
but if he's over 35 and still poor, haaa, that one hard o,
forget all that "if we love each other we shall overcome" it's a lie

It has been said that money is the cause of most divorce cases.

To me money is not an issue.l am interested in who u are and not what u are.

Everything is possible under the sun. It all depends on what you want and how you feel, etc.

the problem isnt necessarily marrying the poor guy but the fact that if he makes it rich in the future, he may decide not to care for the wife who was there while he was poor.

there are condition that back it up ,even in the whole wide world money is the pillar that hold the relationship or the guy sabi service well well .

My parents are a perfect example, mumsi's dad was RICH in every sense of the word, popsi dad died early and their family was a write off!
But popsi's swore that none of his offspring wld ever suffer what he went thru, was a houseboy up to uni, was only able to pay school fees cos he got a scholarship
His perseverance, determination and God's grace saw him thru.

So back to question
Is it possible to marry a poor guy? YES!!! As long as he has made up his mind not to remain poor!!!

I think everything depends on your state of mind at the time you meet a potential spouse.

When a lady's in a state of life when she has nothing & hence nothing to lose; anything goes. The 'poor' guy may not seem poor to her.

However, consider a lady who is building a good career and can support herself (or has a lot of family support), I expect her to be more choosy. She could possibly marry a guy she sees as 'poor' if and only if she can better him, or believes in him while having resources to give him a lot of support.

I say, for the guy and girl to become financially responsible before marriage. enough said.

I HAVE BEEN READING WITH KEEN INTEREST THE COMMENTS OF EVERYONE, AND I CONCLUDED THAT EVERYONE IS ALLOWED TO ERR HIS/VIEWS. WELL,
IF YOU HAVE OBSERVED IN LIFE, LADIES WHO ARE FROM POVERTY STIKEN FAMILY TENDS TO FORM MORE THAN THE HAVES!! WHO TOLD YOU ANYONE WAS BORN IN LIFE TO BE POOR? I PITY SOME LADIES, because, THAT A GUY HAS TODAY, ANYTHING CAN HAPPEN TOMORROW, AND WHO SAYS A LADY CANNOT GIVE A HELPING HAND? YOU GOING TO THE GUYS HOUSE AS A WIFE, ASK YOURSELF, WHAT IS YOUR CONTRIBUTION? WHAT HAVE YOU CONTRIBUTED OR HOPE TO CONTRIBUTE TO BETTER HIS LIFE?
I READ SOME LADIES VIEWS AND I FEEL TERRIBLY BAD! YOU GO AND LOOK FOR JOB NOW AND LETS SEE WHATYOU CAN DO, YOU ARE THERE WAITING FOR A READY MADE GUY, THAT WILL SNAP AT ANY LITTLE THING YOU DO,
SINCERELY AM PISSED WITH ALL THESE AJEPKAKO TALKING RUBBISH! NO GUY IS POOR, NO ONE, THERE IS A TOMORROW, AND GOD WHO HAS BROUGHT SUCH TO LIFE WILL SURELY BE AT HIS/HER RESCUE IN DUE TIME.

i can't marry a poor man period. people talk of love, is it love that will provide food, shelter or clothing? come to think of it sef where will the poor guy get money for a wedding in the first place i can date a poor guy who's got potential, probably work with him till he gets to the top before marriage but u know most guys are jerks, u stay with them when they are nothing and then when they start making small change they forget about u.

so i think I'll stick to a comfortable guy, not necessarily rich.

if i had the choice . . . . .

a poor man with potentials, vision, plan? yes

a poor man with lazy bone, no potentials and just whipping about being poor? no

will the guy be poor forever? NO. so it does not mean

Yeah cos you both need to understand what future means not present situation that judges,

make sure you marry rich guy even if e go give you eternal headache

@jarkbauer, sounds funny, anyway we marry not cos of something but for everything we need to access in life, Been poor or rich at present can not devile the word CHANGES, Bible said in all things get wisdom and make use of it, Present situation should not judge what future means

@Jehu sound mature and kind, But get something sometime guy may wish to do more than what u expect 4 u but cos of condition and he may not capable o doing it at that time, Probably cos he's unemployed and he has no funds but wish to do, may i know does he mean that if a guy can't get material things,money or gifts make him poor guy?

Yes. If he has potentials, a dream and desire for a better tomorrow and of course is hardworking.

Never despise anyone cos Time and Chance happeneth to them all.

You only know the true color of a man when he is rich. Only a few poor guy who becomes rich and still remain cool headed. Money has a way of making one arrogant.

I will marry a poor guy with good morals and potential

He is human too.

I think to many people have a wrong idea of this rich or poor thing.

The issue of marrying a poor man calls for a serious lesson.Who is a poor man? How do you define a poor man?

Please as far as I am concerned a poor man is man who is void of moral virtues and lacks godly vision.The man may be financially buoyant or financially poor.It doesn't matter.

There are the so-called POOR MEN who are good and wonderful and there are rich ones who are good and wonderful.

The real issue in marrying a man should never be base on money.In as much as money is good it will never make a marriage happy.

Some claim that you know the true character of a man when he is rich.I strongly disagree with such fallacious concept.

Wealth can never change a man.It is your self principles or beliefs that changes a man.As money is neither evil or good,it all depends on how it is used.

In the same way a man is said to be poor when he lacks basic human understanding.Those who end up marrying many rich guy end up regretting their choice in the first instance.

Many also who end up marrying poor guys also have their regrets.

The bottom line is this, you will always know who is really poor or rich by their speech and lifestyle than the money issue.

My conclusion is this.YOU CAN MARRY A "POOR MAN" IF HE IS GODLY AND RESPECTS YOUR PERSON.SHEKENA