FACTS ABOUT YOUR OWN FAMILY VOL 1.

many people become enmity with their own family immediately they got
married to their spouse probably because they did not take their advice or that
their family member did not like their choice of wife or husband or maybe they
felt that they don't call them the way they use to do before etc.

Don't allow your marriage or relationship to cause problems between you and your family,
your family is so important as your marriage and your relationship is, don't see
it as when you marry you don't have anything to do with your family again,
your family is your second home. Your home of refuge.

I found out through my observation that one of the things that causes enemity
between husband and wife and their families is unforgiving spirit ,refusing to let
go of what they did to you or what you did to them during marriage. listen as
long as you refuse to let go, there will be no peace between you and your
family unless you make peace with each other.

Don't you know that if you are having problem with your family it will affect
their relationship with your spouse if you don't correct it now ,no matter how
you try to live without them.

Your family is part of you,remember this is where you are born,this is where you spent most of your life. This is where you spent
your childhood and adolescent years. Your individuality emerges from family
relationships. Family isn't the only influence, but it is a substantial one so you
can forget your family now or abound them now.

Developing a good relationship with your family requires emotional work. You
need to become a separate person while staying connected to your family. This
is not an easy task for most people that already have problem with their family.
But finding a balance between individuality and family connection is a key to
establishing a healthy marriage.

Force yourself to be more involved with your
original family,call them, talk to them,involve yourself in your family intimate issues, support your family financially and other wise, involve yourself in solving
your families conflict because the more you try to be involve with your original
family, the easier it will be with your partner because you will learn to
talk,resolve conflict, control your emotions, and extend grace etc.

Lovely one OP

lilyqueen:
Lovely one OP

thanks dear