I am seriously tempted to outline my preferences on here, see if there is anyone who meets or almost meets them and then explore a friendship targeted at a purposeful relationship.

Ok.. I am just going to do that...( God works in mysterious ways). I am looking for a lady with the following attributes:

[b]Christian: ( Born Again preferably CAC/RCCG) Family Background) It will be nice if the parents are well involved in Ministry
Educated: At least first degree with good academic records ( evidence of a budding career or business ( business is preferred)
Personality: Mild Introversion ( I am an extrovert, can talk for Africa, life of the party, multiple chain of friends, big baby etc)
Ministry: Must be involved in Ministry work ( it will be good if she is good with children and old people, I love these people)
Spirituality: She must be someone who understands the significance of ceaseless praying and the fact that we are all that we are by the grace of God ( so she will be humble and be able to exude grace and compassion). For instance, it takes humility and wisdom to even consider this online advert.
Life's ambition: She must be someone who really wants to make heaven and whose life's ambitions are subject to their alignment with that goal.
Ethnic: I am sorry, but I really will prefer a Yoruba Lady ( preferably an Ijesha ( or any other town in OSUN, Oyo or Ekiti)
Age: 24-27[/b]
Physique: Slim with nothing particularly conspicuous
Complexion : Dark ( chocolate)
Eyes: Big or moderate eyeballs with heavy eyelids ( the physical attributes are desirable but not compulsory)
Height: I am 5:8, so that is the maximum height.
Interests (movies, road trips, hosting guests, cooking and fashion)
Dressing: I need it to be obvious from your dressing that you are a Christian ( No rainbow colours on the face, no heavy jewelries and definitely no skimpy dresses outside of the house)
I am sorry, you will also need to still be a VIRGIN. I respect every woman regardless of their sexual history but for this position, a Virgin will be more appropriate.
Location: Preferably Lagos but if you have access to the social media ( location should not be an immediate barrier).

MY CREDENTIALS

I am a christian, male, professional in his early 30s. The qualities I want in my woman ( as stated above) sufficiently defines who I am. If you are interested PM me and you will be free to conduct your due diligence.
[b][/b]

Hian examining women like they are stock fish for sale in the market.

I'm already feeling bad for any woman who applies for this ROLE.

You seem to have an opinion for everything. Her state, her village, her result, her occupation, her hymen.

Goodluck in finding the future employee tho, or better still, ask God to reveal her to you in the dream, I thought that's how you people do it.

Wheww. We have suffered

Giddyperson:
Hian examining women like they are stock fish for sale in the market.

I'm already feeling bad for any woman who applies for this ROLE.

You seem to have an opinion for everything. Her state, her village, her result, her occupation, her hymen.

Goodluck in finding the future employee tho, or better still, ask God to reveal her to you in the dream, I thought that's how you people do it.

Wicked

@ baldman, na wa 4 u oh.

What do you have to offer a woman, apart from your bald head, what degree do you possess, most importantly are you are virgin

Hi baldman,
You are most likely writing online because you've not been able to find what you seek in reality.I applaud you though for being bold enough to write.

Maybe you should list what is non-compromisable for you.Dont be rigid eg the height thing..you may see all these in a taller or not so slim person.Just know what is extremely important to you cos frankly your list may be really hard for any human to fulfill.You should also list more about yourself.Which one is big baby?

I hope females follow your suit who knows the possibilities.


Good luck.P lease come back to tell us the good news

You didn't say anything about knowing how to cook or praying for an hour?

kikikikikiki @ "for this position a virgin will be more appropriate" you gat to be kidding right @op are you recruiting for the position of a wife or you are looking for a wife cuz it seems to me that you are recruiting. What about all the women in your church? if they do not meet up with this your requirements, you need not to be in that church.

Na wah ooo

I don't see anything wrong with this list. Don't feel bad if you don't qualify, your own miracle is around the corner.

Baldman, your head is correct. Don't mind people flaying your preferences, they've judged themselves inferior already.

Giddyperson:
Hian examining women like they are stock fish for sale in the market.

I'm already feeling bad for any woman who applies for this ROLE.

You seem to have an opinion for everything. Her state, her village, her result, her occupation, her hymen.

Goodluck in finding the future employee tho, or better still, ask God to reveal her to you in the dream, I thought that's how you people do it.

ROTFLMAO

@ Rebella, good question, I am just an average guy ... of course with a good bald head and a very good heart ( I hope that counts for something). As you can see, I am not asking for anything above average here.

@Giddyperson: Perhaps, you should look at my post more carefully, I highlighted the basics that I feel very strong about and other desirable features. It doesn't look rigid to me and if it does, trust me, we all have our preference and that is not a crime. Besides, stating features of people I think I may be able to relate well with ( Background and values) does not amount to objectifying them.
@Jahbless me: I posted this on here because the internet/social media is becoming the major meeting point, we spend more time online than we do in church, at home or anywhere else.

Been in your shoes before. Even if you find her there is no guarantee of chemistry, love or even likeness. Spend your time looking for a compatible, God fearing and decent woman instead. She may not come in your dream package but life doesn't always work that way.
Or the alternative, take clay and mould her.

thorpido:
You didn't say anything about knowing how to cook or praying for an hour?

The truth is can you never have a list that covers every single area and even if you did, what is the likelihood of getting a partner that fits all the boxes.
Some things you dont even think about until you are married and going through it
He has made no mention of some family illnesses which are common in their families, whereas it is important.
He has mentioned nothing about blood genotype
He has mentioned nothing about how flexible and broad-minded her wants his wife to be


In short he can get a woman who satisfies all the points on his list but still have a very unhappy marriage.

Its one thing him marrying Miss Right, but if he is not the Mr Right to his Miss Right (am I making sense) then they both wont be very happy.
He needs to be the right man for the right woman
It all needs to flow or all the qualities will be useless.

Leaving the toilet seat up or leaving wet towels on the bed is super annoying and its not on the list

Timbuktou:
I don't see anything wrong with this list. Don't feel bad if you don't qualify, your own miracle is around the corner.

Baldman, your head is correct. Don't mind people flaying your preferences, they've judged themselves inferior already.

She mi o qualify ni?

I can't bliv u said position, but i read it myself so I can bliv it. Ur list is too restrictive and FYI none of the things u mentioned guarantee a fulfilling marriage. For instance if the lady meets all ur above listed criteria but isn't a virgin cos she was sexually abused nko? Or was sexually active but since she gave her life to Christ as an 18 year old undergrad has been celibate for 9 years/ so she's still within ur preferred age bracket but is already disqualified.

I dare say, u already have set up an idol in ur heart ( Ezek 14) which makes me question if ur 'spirikoko ness' matches the advertised level of spirituality. Determine ur core values as the requirements u can't live without and compromise on the not so essentials. Also, it doesn't take humility to consider online advert for marriage. Otherwise, ppl on 2go and baddoo must be swimming in humility.

Very funny comments

But atleast, the op knows what he wants in a woman... some don't. .

Wish you the best in your search. . Remember to invite us to come chop party jellof rice

baldman:
@ Rebella, good question, I am just an average guy ... of course with a good bald head and a very good heart ( I hope that counts for something). As you can see, I am not asking for anything above average here.

Yes, we can see that. More grace my brother.

pls ooo I am everything you are looking for and I wish to apply for the post. N/B: the pay MUST be something really really big.... when can I come for the interview......

rebella:
@ baldman, na wa 4 u oh.

What do you have to offer a woman, apart from your bald head, what degree do you possess, most importantly are you are virgin

beht why?

zed7:
Been in your shoes before. Even if you find her there is no guarantee of chemistry, love or even likeness. Spend your time looking for a compatible, God fearing and decent woman instead. She may not come in your dream package but life doesn't always work that way.
Or the alternative, take clay and mould her.

There is a lot to consider really, but I can't have them all outline. That is the essence of the friendship. There will definitely be a bit of moulding on both sides but there should not be need for pulling apart the frame. The features I have mentioned above are some of the frames. Like I said, I am quite flexible on some of the physical features.

Gloriagee:
I can't bliv u said position, but i read it myself so I can bliv it. Ur list is too restrictive and FYI none of the things u mentioned guarantee a fulfilling marriage. For instance if the lady meets all ur above listed criteria but isn't a virgin cos she was sexually abused nko? Or was sexually active but since she gave her life to Christ as an 18 year old undergrad has been celibate for 9 years/ so she's still within ur preferred age bracket but is already disqualified.

I dare say, u already have set up an idol in ur heart ( Ezek 14) which makes me question if ur 'spirikoko ness' matches the advertised level of spirituality. Determine ur core values as the requirements u can't live without and compromise on the not so essentials. Also, it doesn't take humility to consider online advert for marriage. Otherwise, ppl on 2go and baddoo must be swimming in humility.

Gloriagee, you have made good observations. I have come a long way and trust me.... I have good reasons for my preference and I judge no one. My sensible argument has always been that 'no one should marry a woman because of any virtue that may not survive the wedding night'. As I said, that is my preference.

tearoses:




The truth is can you never have a list that covers every single area and even if you did, what is the likelihood of getting a partner that fits all the boxes.
Some things you dont even think about until you are married and going through it
He has made no mention of some family illnesses which are common in their families, whereas it is important.
He has mentioned nothing about blood genotype
He has mentioned nothing about how playful he wants a wife to be.
He has mentioned nothing about how flexible and broad-minded her wants his wife to be


In short he can get a woman who satisfies all the points on his list but still have a very unhappy marriage.

Its one thing him marrying Miss Right, but if he is not the Mr Right to his Miss Right (am I making sense) then they both wont be very happy.
He needs to be the right man for the right woman
It all needs to flow or all the qualities will be useless.

Leaving the toilet seat up or leaving wet towels on the bed is super annoying and its not on the list

You have made good observation Sir, I do not intend to figure everything out here and I am definitely not making such a huge decision without due considerations. I am here just looking for someone who has these qualities and wants to check things out. Plus, God will be absolutely involved.

tearoses:




The truth is can you never have a list that covers every single area and even if you did, what is the likelihood of getting a partner that fits all the boxes.
Some things you dont even think about until you are married and going through it
He has made no mention of some family illnesses which are common in their families, whereas it is important.
He has mentioned nothing about blood genotype
He has mentioned nothing about how playful he wants a wife to be.
He has mentioned nothing about how flexible and broad-minded her wants his wife to be


In short he can get a woman who satisfies all the points on his list but still have a very unhappy marriage.

Its one thing him marrying Miss Right, but if he is not the Mr Right to his Miss Right (am I making sense) then they both wont be very happy.
He needs to be the right man for the right woman
It all needs to flow or all the qualities will be useless.

Leaving the toilet seat up or leaving wet towels on the bed is super annoying and its not on the list

Hehehe
I guess for him this is just the skeleton.He needs to know there a lot of 'meat' to put on that skeleton.One think that will work well for him is flexibility.The right woman for him may not meet all the requirements yet have good qualities that will make a good wife.

zed7:
Been in your shoes before. Even if you find her there is no guarantee of chemistry, love or even likeness. Spend your time looking for a compatible, God fearing and decent woman instead. She may not come in your dream package but life doesn't always work that way.
Or the alternative, take clay and mould her.

The criteria stated above are just the frames. there will definitely be a lot of moulding on both sides, but pulling apart frames is what creates crisis in marriage. Thanks for your words of wisdom.

U never see anything yet by the time old age overtake you na dat time u go no say abram is different abraham.

You could still look for clay to mould this your "woman".

abeg make una leave am.everyone has a right to fantasise and hope.
We all know what reality usually turns out but nothing is impossible

tearoses:


She mi o qualify ni?

Eyin ke!!! Mama agbalagba. Owo meji loke f'eyin nikan. E over-qualify gan sef.

Timbuktou:


Eyin me!!! Mama agbalagba. Owo me hi like f'eyin nikan. E over-qualify gan sef.

Good boy

tearoses:

Good boy

Yes, mummy.