cococandy:
Because it's not often that little baby girls are admitted into the emergency room bleeding and injured because they have been sexually molested by other older females. But go to front page and on a daily basis you will see little girls being molested by older men. It's not rocket science now. Hence you have to be very careful from now on. (But you already know that)

Besides you guys won't let us hear word about how sex is so important to your existence and how you think about it all the time. We know not all men are rapists or sympathize with them but Nobody wants to play Russian roulette with their babies. Since one can't tell which dude is capable of such at first glance, you teach boundaries to begin with.

discoprophet:


Didn't you read right? I was in the room with the little girl, my brother and my sister. Why calling me a pedo? What act did I pull to be associated with such term? I want you to realize that if you don't have a son now, you would probably have one someday. And if he should be faced with this kind of situation, be quick to call him a pedo too because he tried to share it with you. And also if the world shares your mindset, they should call him a pedo too?

I had an uncle I spend some weeks or months with when I visit on holidays. He was a bachelor then. He recently got married. I wouldn't be spending two days if I visit him again. Another uncle has female children and expects me to always visit him. So I get to watch how I look around the room, always knock before I enter, shouldn't enter the room when they are sleeping. I might forget to knock and just barge in when they are changing clothes, trouble. Embarassment! They may forget to knock and barge in when i'm changing mine, I should have locked the door! Guys would understand this well.

Have you asked yourself why it would seem normal if a lady carry another's 2 or 3years child up and peck his cheek, but if a guy does so, it would seem awkward to people around? The reason defy me. I wrote this especially for guys, just few ladies would understand it.

EfemenaXY:
@op: why was the little girl in your flat in the first place when the friend she was searching for obviously wasn't at your place?

And to think you let her eat at your place without her family knowing where she was or with what was going on there?

I'm sorry but your narration of what happened in your place between you and that child makes for a very uncomfortable read.

discoprophet:


Have you asked yourself why it would seem normal if a lady carry another's 2 or 3years child up and peck his cheek, but if a guy does so, it would seem awkward to people around? The reason defy me. I wrote this especially for guys, just few ladies would understand it.

sosa993:






bro you need to be careful with children ohh, I remembered when I was still a 13year old teenage girl, there was this woman who use to bring her child to me for babysitting the child was 6 then. so that very day she was still at our place as at 9pm waiting for her mum.

I could remember vividly that day, NEPA took light so it was dark, and I felt a kiss on my lips, hmmm the kind slap I gave that girl that day, she would never forget,in fact it wasn't one slap sef nah two.Am sure the girl knew what she did was wrong, cos she should have reported me to her mum normally for slapping her,but she didn't, imagine if she had tried that with a boy of 13 instead, he could have taken advantage of her.....parents have a lot of work to do sha

fellis:


You dey mind am?

Look at how he is describing wrestling with a 6yr old as if na him age mate. The minute she threw the first punch you shout at her and warn her severely to stop. Children are easily intimidated.
If that doesn't work then push her our of your house. Simple. No need to start wrestling that will lead to your lips touching each other

Ishilove:
I don't quite understand why the op is being attacked. I have read his narration and I perfectly get his point. We're living in very perverse times and pedophilia is at an all time rise. No day passes without us being inundated with sickening stories of molestation, so what op is preaching is in order not to be accused of unclean actions, be mindful how you play with little children. What you think is innocent play may be misconstrued because of the era we live in.

I really don't understand why folks left the message and attacked the messenger. Jeez

Our minds have been polluted by the kind of society, to the extent that we have become paranoid. The reactions I'm seeing here clearly underlines the theme of the thread. One wrong move and you're labeled a pedo, so be very careful how you play with kids, especially females. Kids too should be taught boundaries and made to recognise inappropriate attentions

5minsmadness:


Na thier specialty be dat.
They take simple innocuous messages and turn them upside down on thier head so they can have a bashing spree.
They analyse and analyse innocent stories trying thier best to see the devil in the details so they can feast on thier self roghteousness.

It is very annoying because this here was a very important message (i.e be careful with the way you play with kids, set boundries, etc) but now the thread is going to fall flat on its face cos of a priviledged few.

Anyway. Na free forum. None of my bidness

SAMBARRY:
@efemena and kanwuliaextra I don't know and can't place my fingers on it But this tale is very nauseating to say the least. As if he's trying to justify his act by using guilt trip.

Op you're lucky the mother didn't walk IN during the act because you're saying one thing to defend your closet pedophililia the mother is seeing some other things.

You better stop all those kind rough play because it's disgusting.no parent will excuse such behaviour even if you're a friend or relative of the parent.pray and Ask God to remove such unclean habit from you before you get the disgrace of your life and please stop defending what is wrong. A wrong can never be right.

Do you know what will have happened to you if you performed such nonsense in America OR uk ?

Justifying your act will BE annoying and provoking any parents the more


because you're not typing as if you're embarassed.you're typing as if you enjoyed it and you're happy about it for you to be analysing your tale with figures of speech

KanwuliaExtra:


You still get time for this OP?
I don wash my fingers and toes off this thread o.
Nothing to offer e jor.

* jokingly . . . Jokingly. . . . . disu wan way you juss h-appia like professor Chandus so. i hope nor be you use anoda HI-DEE H-OPIN this thread o? *

Ishilove:
I don't quite understand why the op is being attacked. I have read his narration and I perfectly get his point. We're living in very perverse times and pedophilia is at an all time rise. No day passes without us being inundated with sickening stories of molestation, so what op is preaching is in order not to be accused of unclean actions, be mindful how you play with little children. What you think is innocent play may be misconstrued because of the era we live in.

I really don't understand why folks left the message and attacked the messenger. Jeez

Our minds have been polluted by the kind of society we live in, to the extent that we have become paranoid. The reactions I'm seeing here clearly underlines the theme of the thread. One wrong move and you're labeled a pedo, so be very careful how you play with kids, especially females. Kids too should be taught boundaries and made to recognise inappropriate attentions

CuteMorriz:
Oh my God!..This is intelligence at its peak...you have just saved me the stress of blasting those senseless monickers up there kanwuliaextra et al...simple understanding...At least you gave me hope that there are intelligent ladies who can read, think and understand before they type not those mofos ....kudos

CuteMorriz:
Oh my God!..This is intelligence at its peak...you have just saved me the stress of blasting those senseless monickers up there kanwuliaextra et al...simple understanding...At least you gave me hope that there are intelligent ladies who can read, think and understand before they type not those mofos ....kudos

SAMBARRY:
LMao


K baby nawa for you o

So after all this years you don't still recognise ot know my writing pattern or style

CuteMorriz:
Oh my God!..This is intelligence at its peak...you have just saved me the stress of blasting those senseless monickers up there kanwuliaextra et al...simple understanding...At least you gave me hope that there are intelligent ladies who can read, think and understand before they type not those mofos ....kudos

LadyMercedes:


Everyone is entitled to their opinion. We can't all share the same views. No need for insults. Quit being a tool.

Mutaino7:
there are foolish opinions and there is what we call wise counsel...which was what Ishilove gave.. And the tool here is you not him.