For those who say they "fell" in love, you should know that "falling" is never a deliberate, voluntary decision, or is it?
You can't "fall" in love because love is a decision, not that "butterflies in the belly" sensation you are having...
If you can't "fall" in love, why not "fall" in hate as well? They are opposites, right? If you're capable of "falling" in one, you should be able to "fall" in the other... (read more)... www.stillsmallvoiceblog..com/2016/09/if-you-can-fall-in-love-why-not-fall-in.html?utm_source=&utm_medium=twitter&m=1

This is an outright confusion on your part @OP.

Sveen:
This is an outright confusion on your path @OP.

How do you mean? The point of the piece is that love is not something you "fall" into (falling is not a deliberate, voluntary decision), but rather something you decide to do.
It's not about emotions...how about you read the full article, then have your say?