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Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Taryur3(m): 11:39pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Go and get a job. Wives has been providing for the family before your existence.ask my mum,she will tell you something's you dnt get right in marriage.Women waiting for husband to provide before going to kitchen suffer most in marriage 6 Likes |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by ghostmist: 11:39pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
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Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by repogirl(f): 11:42pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
Yes o! I am in support of democratic marriages. Division of labour for everyone involved. Nice one OP! 4 Likes |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by ghostmist: 11:43pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
ghostmist:All these just because he stated his opinion about how he wants his home to be?? I for one, I grew up with my mum running the domestic affairs. I never saw her complain or ask my dad to come and help her inside the kitchen. Beans Was The First food I learnt how to cook in my undergraduate days. I had my sis text me the recipe, and I followed it religiously. now, I can rival most women in the kitchen. however, I would still prefer my wife to be handling the domestic affairs without haranguing me for help like as if she's handicapped. what is it with most girls these days and laziness... in the early stages of our romance, I may decide to engage in one of these "supposedly" romantic acts, just so she knows that I can very well take care of my self if she starts acting up. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Thermodynamics(m): 11:50pm On Oct 06, 2016 |
What about single mothers hmmm? I de ask you op, don't they do house chores and still fend for their families? you want make man turn to woman wrapper because e no get work. Chey op, you wicked. 1 Like |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by metallisc(m): 12:00am On Oct 07, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: are you a single mother? |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Nobody: 12:01am On Oct 07, 2016 |
metallisc: 1 Like |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by metallisc(m): 12:04am On Oct 07, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: i need an answer not a an emoji! |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Nobody: 12:05am On Oct 07, 2016 |
metallisc:yes .I have triplet boys |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by metallisc(m): 12:08am On Oct 07, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff:
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Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Nobody: 12:09am On Oct 07, 2016 |
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Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by elektra(f): 12:10am On Oct 07, 2016 |
ghostmist: Was your mother the bread winner in your family? 8 Likes |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by metallisc(m): 12:11am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Nobody: 12:15am On Oct 07, 2016 |
metallisc:in Nigeria while i am in the US |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by ghostmist: 12:18am On Oct 07, 2016 |
elektra:My Dad but, she did her bit....which was a whole lot. |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by elektra(f): 12:24am On Oct 07, 2016 |
ghostmist: Your mum was more efficient in running the home front because your Dad did his part. It is not laziness to not want to bear the financial stress of running a home and then come back home to bear the domestic stress of doing chores when you have a partner. It is not laziness, it is being human. Women are not machines. 10 Likes |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Revolva(m): 12:29am On Oct 07, 2016 |
that man own don finish na remain make dem bury am |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by ghostmist: 12:35am On Oct 07, 2016 |
elektra:I see your point... but, it's still at his discretion. They could get a maid at the very least. at least it solves two problems , and it's like killing two birds with a stone. she isn't stressed after work and the man's pride isn't crushed in the guise of doing domestic chores. Besides, he would also have the time to look for something economically tangible to engage himself with. |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by rosalieene(f): 12:36am On Oct 07, 2016 |
This TOKS guy should rest already. I have said that you apply your principles to your wife when you get married. Don't comman dictate to other guys how to handle their wives. 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by InvertedHammer: 12:44am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Toks2008:/ Women want equality. Why not oblige them? I say 50/50. \ |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by sarahade(f): 12:46am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Toks2008 you try small, But i want to ask who assigned the duties. is it God? Or is it the bible or quran or which religious book o Mtcheeeeew nonsence helpmate ko househelp ni Please donot quote me |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by charmosky(m): 12:54am On Oct 07, 2016 |
I've been married for two and half years now, based in the US, as a couple, we are both in the same medical field, as a nurse and as as an IT engr, from my fresh experience...there's nothing to bargain or agree in this contest....the most important thing is understanding, respect and love....i'll use myself as example....it gives me joy to assist my wife in the kitchen, many at times, she will beg me to stay away from the kitchen and relax, while she make food, but being someone who love to cook...I'll rather trick her and end up giving her a helping hand in the kitchen....this have helped our bonding that when we plan to cook, the level of excitement that comes with that is always amazing....I've always enjoyed every moment I spend with my wife, either helping her or cooking.... 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by blazer234: 1:24am On Oct 07, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: You may want to oppose/argue/object to this. But a child without both parents available can never grow to be a complete adult. Do you know why? Father plays his role and mother plays her role in a child's development. Do not think child development talks only about physical and academic development. No; it talks about emotional, psychological, spiritual, physically and academic development. And for your info, psychological and emotional well being of the child determines how he/he manaages life issues. 2 Likes |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Nobody: 1:29am On Oct 07, 2016 |
blazer234:That's debatable . And what can be donr when the father decides her wants no part of the child |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by blazer234: 1:32am On Oct 07, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Still, such situation doesn't spare the poor child from incomplete mental, emotional and psychological development. |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Nobody: 1:34am On Oct 07, 2016 |
blazer234:so what are you suggesting? I don't get why you quoted me? |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by blazer234: 1:50am On Oct 07, 2016 |
KingCheezyPuff: Watch before you leap into marriage. Get ALL issues sorted before marriage. Read helpful books that will help both of you before marriage. Go into marriage out of conviction and love, not bout of compulsion and convenience. This way, you will be ready to give your all into the marriage to ensure it works. The above affects both the man and the woman. |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Nobody: 1:53am On Oct 07, 2016 |
blazer234:but I didn't say nothin'about marriage |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Nobody: 2:20am On Oct 07, 2016 |
Toks is a such a wonderful writer. He is of sound mind and thinks with logic. I believe our friend is aggressively seeking a wife here on Nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Obason22(m): 3:45am On Oct 07, 2016 |
people like u will forever remain under a woman, God will help u to Know d differences betwwen a man and a woman. |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Laredojohn(m): 4:07am On Oct 07, 2016 |
U have rightly said well, it's Natural for couples to lend an helping hand to each other most especially when these things are needed the most, there isn't any rule that says wives must be the cooks in the house, be the maid that does all the house chores etc, but we have shared responsibility in homes removing the fact that when marriage is involved [/b]both have become one[b] with or without the wife being the bread winner, husbands are also meant to be supportive in their own ways, not until the wife takes up some manly roles such as payment of the kids school fees, fending for the home mayb because she earns far more than the man. I see no reason if a man's job is more flexible than the woman the man picking up the kids @school, making dinner if need be b4 the wife gets home, [/b] off course it's not going to be a daily routine, but once a while[b] just my opinion...we all have right to ours, when there is not division, when you both see yourselves as one..you will never think if one is Doing more because it's still one body. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When The Wife becomes the Husband. by Nobody: 4:41am On Oct 07, 2016 |
rosalieene: Exactly........ advice upandan everywhere |
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