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"TEN (10) GOLDEN SECRETS OF
MARRIAGE:
TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND/OR
ARE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON
1. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A
WEAKNESS
Only God has no weakness. Every rose
flower has its own thorn. If you focus too
much on your spouse's weakness, you
can't get the best out of his/her strength.
2. EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK
HISTORY
No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid
digging one's past. What matters is the
present life of your partner. Old things
are passed away. try to forgive and forget.
The past can't be change. So Focus on the
present and the future!
3. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN
CHALLENGES
Marriage is not bed of roses. Every
shinning marriage has gone through its
own test of hot and excruciating fire. True
love is proved in time of challenge. Fight
for your marriage! Make up your mind to
stay with your spouse in time of needs.
Remember this is the vow you made on
your wedding day!
4. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT
LEVELS OF SUCCESS
Don't compare your marriage with
anyone! We can never be equal, some will
be far in front and others far behind. To
avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work
hard and with time, your marriage
dreams shall come true.
5. TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR
When you marry, you must declare a war
against enemies of marriage. Some of the
enemies of marriage are: Ignorance,
Prayerlessness, Unforgiveness, Adultery,
Third Party Influence, Stinginess,
Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness,
Wife battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be
ready to fight to maintain your marriage
zone.
6. THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE
There is no ready made marriage
anywhere. Marriage is hard work,
volunteer yourself and perfect it daily.
Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear
box, back hassles and If this parts are not
properly maintained, the car will brake
down somewhere along the road and
exposing the occupant to unhealthy
circumstances. - Many of us are careless
about our marriage... Are you? If you are,
pls pay attention to your marriage.
7. GOD CANNOT GIVE YOU THE
COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE
He (God) gives you, him or her in the form
of raw materials in order for you to
mould what you desire. You may desire a
woman who can pray for 1 hours but your
wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With
your love, prayer and encouragement,
she can improve.
8. TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK
You cannot predict what will happen after
marriage, as situation may change, so,
leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy
may not come in the next 4 years. You
may get marry to her because she's slim
but she becomes 100% fatter after a child.
He may lose his beautiful job for years
that you have to take the financial
responsibility of the family until he gets a
new job. But with God by your side, you
will smile at last.
9. MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS
PERMANENT
Marriage needs total commitment, love is
the glue that makes a couple stick
together. Divorce starts in the mind.
Never think of divorce! Never threaten
your spouse with divorce. Choose to
remain married! God hates divorce
10. EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY
Marriage is like a bank account. It is the
money you deposit into your bank
account that you can withdrawn. If you
don't deposit love, peace and care into
your marriage, you are not a candidate of
a blissful home. There is no free love in
marriage, You cannot love without giving
and sacrificing.
May God Give us The Grace And Wisdom To
Build A Blissful Home