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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dealslip(f): 1:45pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Gassa007: I hope you aren't a woman. You seems not to understand. There is a common denominator in all the cases. The men would not allow their wives to fly because they are insecured about their wives higher earning power. You can not control another being, you can only control yourself. Most of you think that because you facilitated that your family leave together in the same location abroad with you, then your wives must submit their dreams and aspirations to you. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Gassa007: 1:54pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
dealslip:Submit dreams as how All we need is respect but when you are willingly to give us that in the name of US law then you should also be to withstand the beast side.Are you trying to say those men(mentioned in the article) don't know that their wives will earn than them after paying and labouring to see them through Nursing school they develop wings.Just imagine someone's labour all his years in US will be given to one ungrateful big*atch |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Gassa007: 1:54pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
dealslip:Submit dreams as how All we need is respect but when you are willingly to give us that in the name of US law then you should also be to withstand the beast side.Are you trying to say those men(mentioned in the article) don't know that their wives will earn than them after paying and labouring to see them through Nursing school they develop wings.Just imagine someone's labour all his years in US will be given to one ungrateful bi*atch. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dealslip(f): 2:03pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Gassa007: Why do you act as if the women give their husband's nothing in return. Why are our parent not insisting that we must take care of them or submit orur salaries to them because they laboured and sponsored our education. The dichotomy between men and women is biology and physiology. Stop thinking, women must respect you. Respect is earned not forced. If a man is in control of himself, he won't need anybody to respect him to make himself look in control. Women are human beings too with emotions, feelings and dreams. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 2:23pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
sonnie10: You have made my point. You want a woman to be remain "submissive" which means giving a man all of her earnings. Most Nigerian men making $31/hr will not give their wife unrestricted access to their earnings. When the tables are turned and a woman is placed in her new role, you should expect that she will act as a human being in her new role. No one is saying they won't share money. However the high earner is already paying the majority of the bills and family expenses. The high earner is going to expect the low earner to use a portion of their own earnings for things they would like to do. When a Nigerian man builds a house, it is his house and not his wife's home. Now do you expect a Nigerian woman to give a man all of her money without building a home or providing something for her family? Do you expect her to have nothing if the man leaves or becomes unbearable? I'm sure you do because it is the Naija way. For people with an unyielding Nigerian mindset, it's best they remain in Nigeria. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by sonnie10: 3:10pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
FortuneTeller: The type of women I am concerned with here are those that, once they start making money in their matrimonial home, right away they remember that they have a 40 something years brother who needs to buy jamb form and also have his college tuition paid. And you won't be surprised that her husband is struggling to buy new pairs of boxers or change his worn out car tires. Now you expect him to continue as if all is well, or better still work for "his own money" right? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Excuzeme: 3:32pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
kid7soccer: Hmmmm...... Unfortunately, once that opportunity is lost on a child, it can never be regained again! I hope "wives" will put this into consideration, but who-sai? I have read a lot of women thrash the Bible, just because they want to be "independent" of their husband's influence over them. I have read some have debased and insulted the Nigerian/African culture, just because they think it is inline with Bible principles on the marriage I then beg the question: if you cherish independence so much, why not consider to remain unmarried to a man? Trying to eat your Cake and still wanting to have it, is the epitome of GREED and AVARICE, which is what this women are trying to do.\ 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Excuzeme: 3:42pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
vineyardfarms: If it is just this, it would have been okay but you need to understand WHY some men can "start all over again"! Despite over-working himself to death, the woman collects his income (the more work he does to earn more money, the more money the woman demands and get! ). So, how is he expected to let-go and start all over again when their is a monster sucking him to death? Nigerian Women especially, take delight is seeing their ex-husband destroyed completely! While l dont condone murder, we must understand and agree that ANYONE LEFT WITHOUT HOPE, IS A TIME BOMB WAITING TO EXPLODE..... and explode it will, one day! Look at suicide bombers, armed robber, e.t.c.... these are "humans" without hope hence their one life has become valueless to them! You wonder why rich and successful people are so afraid to die? Its because their life (and they place a lot of value) has a lot of value to them! 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobleking2000(m): 7:19pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
ttmacoy: Do you have any proof that they never loved each other that the girl was just pretending, do you? Dat he went to the village to marry her does not necessarily mean that they never knew each other very well. Knowing each other very well does not necessarily translate to a long lasting and happy marriage. We have heard of people who have dated for five to eight years but later divorced. also couples that once loved and cared for each other divorcing. What do you mean dat DE man lacked the maturity to handle the fact that her husband now earns more than him whereas he was the person brought her to the United States trained her. Do you mean dat he was not aware that if he trains his wife to become a registered nurse that she will earn more than him |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by kid7soccer(m): 7:50pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Excuzeme:good responds and good question if you don't want to marry y not remain single. women must think about this before anything |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by kid7soccer(m): 8:01pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
FortuneTeller:for you to talk of income means u dont understand what a family is. A man and woman will leave their parent and become one, it means they have to share everything and do everything together and create a family based on understanding of each other dat is y it called a home. A woman must be respected same too with the man, be a man must be given some benefit of respect as he is d head of the home. Look at any godly home u will see a submitive wife even if the husband is a lion it is the woman that keeps the home. Women must no dis. As a woman marry a man u can live with not a man that can satify ur needs, cause anyman can satify ur need but only 1 man can live with u in peace. 1 man, 1wife that wat the bible said. If i get married tomorrow i expect my wife to no how much i earn and i, the kids d same, so that we can build our home together marraige is not a bed of roses but it take two people to make it special dat wat a home is 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by MarilynNash(f): 9:07pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
shuggah:you are the stupid one for encouraging these despicable acts of violence. You and everyother person who condones this and deem it justifiable have a special place in hell my God, I am disgusted by these comments God save African women 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 1:21am On Oct 15, 2016 |
kid7soccer: The difference between you and I, is that I am married. You can write a dissertation, but until you are married, you will not understand. Until you leave Nigeria as a married person, you will not understand. Until you live in a developed society as a man, you will not understand what I am trying to say. I hope you get that opportunity. When the adjustment period comes, please make the adjustment so you do not murder your wife. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 1:23am On Oct 15, 2016 |
sonnie10: I understand your concern. If that should occur, that is definitely disrespectful. Yes those things do happen unfortunately. I do not agree with such acts. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by cococandy(f): 2:04am On Oct 15, 2016 |
You have time. Really. With these teeming hordes of mor0ns who are all but justifying the highest level of violence there is out there (murder) the best thing is to ignore. How many are you going to educate? FortuneTeller: 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by cococandy(f): 2:05am On Oct 15, 2016 |
What is the cause of the many broken homes in Nigeria? cyrilamx: 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by cococandy(f): 2:08am On Oct 15, 2016 |
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Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by vineyardfarms: 2:17am On Oct 15, 2016 |
[quote author=Excuzeme post=50196861] If it is just this, it would have been okay but you need to understand WHY some men can "start all over again"! Despite over-working himself to death, the woman collects his income (the more work he does to earn more money, the more money the woman demands and get! ). [b]So, how is he expected to let-go and start all over again when their is a monster sucking him to death? Nigerian Women especially, take delight is seeing their ex-husband destroyed completely! While l dont condone murder, we must understand and agree that ANYONE LEFT WITHOUT HOPE, IS A TIME BOMB WAITING TO EXPLODE..... and explode it will, one day! Look at suicide bombers, armed WITH GOD ON YOUR SIDE, BROTHER, YOU ARE A WINNER. THERE IS ALWAYS A REWARD TO ANY ILL GOTEN WEALTH. LIFE FOR LIFE WILL NOT SOLVE THE ISSUE. WALK AWAY TO SAFTY. OUR GOD NEVER FAILS. THOSE THAT KNOWS HIM WILL DO EXPLOIT. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by cococandy(f): 2:24am On Oct 15, 2016 |
1500 dollars a month for five children. That's 300 per child. Is that school fees or feeding/clothing or hospital or general maintenance money etc? I have one child and I know how much it cost to keep her even though she's still a baby. Imagine how much it cost for one school age child how much more five. Five o. So he's complaining about child support money that really goes nowhere when it comes to what his kids need. Does he realize his wife is carrying the brunt of the financial load of those kids? Figures. We only always hear about what the man did. Sensationalism won't get you liars anywhere. MattFreeman007: 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by naijafeminist: 6:54am On Oct 15, 2016 |
Gassa007: Are we now resorting to insults? You are an adult, learn to engage in arguments without throwing tantrums. |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by cyrilamx(m): 7:46am On Oct 15, 2016 |
cococandy:the greatest threat to family harmony in Nigeria and the world at large are these twin evils: hedonism and erosion of moral values. You see our society is gradually falling apart because of undue regards to god of mammon. Men and women no longer contented with what they have. There is nothing wrong in pursuing wealth, but this shouldn't be done at the detriment of values. Many ladies even at relationship level do dump their man because he is struggling or those ones who remain tend to hop into another bed for silver. Some marry for financial security even when it is obvious they don't love the man...while the men on the other hand court or marry based on external features of the woman and not necessary due to interior beauty. these really spell doom for the relationship when in the long run the bases for the union become lacking. Another is moral evil pervasive in our society and really fuelled by both print and electronic media. Exhibition of nudity which offend sensibility of any morally disciplined fellow. Mind you the current moral degradation cut across both sexes... The elevation of sex to the status of a god that must be appeased is another reason for total breakdown of homes. Modern women are taught in movies to explore their sexuality...this even go horrible when married women seem not to get these crazy stuff from their hubbys, they tend to look outside to young n virile dude who can give them 69, doggy etc.... most young ladies these days are also on mission to wreck homes...knowing that men are attracted by what they see, they dress to kill...provocative dressings all in the name to entice well to do men caring less if he is married. For me there shouldn't be rivalry in family if your wife earn more than you, that doesn't mean you no longer head of the home or the woman should now sideline her hubby in decision taking because she now has the economic power. I for one believe men and women are equal but only different is the role or office they occupy. There is nothing more special than a woman to be the bearer of life in her body. This role God has given them should make them to be shoulder high and not trying to "hijacked" the leadership of the house as seen in cases of the murdered women. May they rip though. Worst still is that the religious houses have abnegated their moral authority to media which now determine what is wrong n right. Sadly our moral compasses which the church and mosques represented is now populated with filthy men with unscrupulous consciences. They are not even spared the evil of divorce and sexual misdemeanours. If these become caught in the web of divorce, to whom shall the society turn? Hence Pope St. John Paul II once warned: "as the family goes, so goes the society and do goes the world in which we live." |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Ngokafor(f): 11:05am On Oct 15, 2016 |
cococandy: ....Nne same to youoo ..i tire for the mentality of some of our men ...besides you don donate ya dollars for 'queen moji26'?? |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 12:51am On Oct 16, 2016 |
DICKtator:did those men cheat on their wives before they sucked the soul out of them |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 1:52am On Oct 16, 2016 |
[quote author=aceblizzle post=50152533][/quote]because she took his money. Why didn't she stay in Nigeria if she couldn't take it. Or was she forced into the marriage? |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 2:39am On Oct 16, 2016 |
buJu234:e be like say na d koko be dis Na to avoid girl wen him family get problem |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 2:56am On Oct 16, 2016 |
FortuneTeller:then why didn't you go to the freedom on your own. Why chop his money and green card and then make him homeless childless and penniless and you think every guy will be looking. He's already dead. Might as well take you with him as a warning to other gold diggers |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 3:06am On Oct 16, 2016 |
FortuneTeller:why didn't they equally pay the ticket and the green card and the nurse training. This is psychological rape to guys. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 3:23am On Oct 16, 2016 |
Amelian: |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 3:29am On Oct 16, 2016 |
FortuneTeller:then why don't they stay in Nigeria Why pretend Why not do contract marriage and buy yourself out of it instead of deceiving the guy Anyway it's the guys I blame for choosing wrong spice |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 3:31am On Oct 16, 2016 |
Amelian:better start freezing your eggs cos you go tey dia |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 3:33am On Oct 16, 2016 |
Amelian:sharp guy chopping free matured pussyy |
Re: Nigerian Men In USA, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mikolo80: 3:35am On Oct 16, 2016 |
Amelian: |
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