Parents! There are some things you shouldn’t allow your sons to do, while you might think it won’t have a long term effect on them, you are wrong! We all should endeavour to bring up thoughtful, helpful and sweet boys that’ll become gentlemen,and to achieve that, below are some things we should never allow them to do.

Never allow your son do these things;



1. Run away from household Chores

The reason why so many men find it hard to help their wives with chores at home is because they’ve been brought up to believe that house chores is for girls only. Encourage your boys to do chores, when you’re cooking let them be in the kitchen with you, let them sweep the floor and wash plates. That way they won’t grow up to see women as inferior.

2. Hide their emotions

It’s common to believe that men shouldn’t show emotions “boys don’t cry” and such comments are thrown at boys. Encourage your boys to show their emotions but teach them how to control their anger.

3. Quit having interest in non-boyish activities

Some activities are considered girly and as such parents often discourage their boys from doing them, this is wrong. If your boy prefers to attend a dance class instead of playing soccer so be it. Let your child follow his passion.

4. Avoid being friends with the opposite sex

If your child wants to be friends with a girl, what’s wrong with that?It’s okay for them to want to be friends with girls, it shows they are normal don’t plant negative seeds in their head by rejecting.


5. Stay away from dangerous sports

If you are the protective parent that wants your child to play safe all the time, you’re killing his spirit. If your child wants to do something fun as long as it’s suitable for his age, let him. It will both strengthen him and make him discover his strength and weakness.

6. Disrespect the opposite sex

Boys when they are in groups often find making fun of girls very funny, if you encounter boys doing such tell your child never to engage in such, teach your child to respect every one, including girls.

Never let your child do the above things, they will grow up to become men tomorrow, what kind of men will they become? A source of happiness to their parents and wife? or a menace to the society, their parents and wife (God forbid!)?

You have the power to bring them up into either, pick wisely!

Never Allow Your Son To Do These Things

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1. Run away from household Chores

The reason why so many men find it hard to help their wives with chores at home is because they’ve been brought up to believe that house chores is for girls only. Encourage your boys to do chores, when you’re cooking let them be in the kitchen with you, let them sweep the floor and wash plates. That way they won’t grow up to see women as inferior.

If you have only male children, then this would make sense.

2. Hide their emotions

It’s common to believe that men shouldn’t show emotions “boys don’t cry” and such comments are thrown at boys. Encourage your boys to show their emotions but teach them how to control their anger.

Showing emotion does not mean a boy should cry over every little thing.
Stubbornness and anger are expressions of emotions, show that.

3. Quit having interest in non-boyish activities

Some activities are considered girly and as such parents often discourage their boys from doing them, this is wrong. If your boy prefers to attend a dance class instead of playing soccer so be it. Let your child follow his passion.

Dance classes aren't completely girly, unless you're referring to ballerinas...and if that's the case, then fvck it. No son of mine will attend ballet classes.

I would'nt let him play with toy dolls either, HELL NO.

4. Avoid being friends with the opposite sex

If your child wants to be friends with a girl, what’s wrong with that?It’s okay for them to want to be friends with girls, it shows they are normal don’t plant negative seeds in their head by rejecting.

I agree with this, how else will he learn how to be a hunter and professional sniper?

5. Stay away from dangerous sports

If you are the protective parent that wants your child to play safe all the time, you’re killing his spirit. If your child wants to do something fun as long as it’s suitable for his age, let him. It will both strengthen him and make him discover his strength and weakness.

Dangerous sports are to be stayed away from or at least completely supervised.
It's not about killing his spirit, but about preventing injury.

6. Disrespect the opposite sex

Boys when they are in groups often find making fun of girls very funny, if you encounter boys doing such tell your child never to engage in such, teach your child to respect every one, including girls.

I doubt any sensible parent lets their child disrespect anyone irrespective of sex.

I totally disagree with #2 and #3. Boys should not do girly things, and they must learn to keep a stiff upper lip. That makes them MEN.