Why do women beef up against other women so much? Not talking about NL but in life.
Women do not stand up for other women when they are being cheated, abused or
discriminated against. I try to think about this often and even judge myself on what my
position ought to be or not. Is this rightly observed?

Women are their own worst enemies.

Sisi_Kill:

Women are their own worst enemies.

It is a known fact. Gradually women have to accept that what the sexist society has imposed on them since unmemorable times is true. They are the first to remind you "things are don't that way and not this way" according to social norms.

They have socialized!

But why?

Ever heard of the Stockholm syndrome? We have come to love those who oppressed us and now despise what should be ours.

Men also beef against other men so kini big deal ?

Oh pleaseee! Women kill women because of men. Men would rather agree to Bleep the woman in question and go their separate ways.

Men kill men too!

@ Poster

That's just the way it is!! Where is the sista love? 

posakosa:

Men also beef against other men so kini big deal ?  

michelin89:

Oh pleaseee! Women kill women because of men. Men would rather agree to Bleep the woman in question and go their separate ways.

posakosa:

Men kill men too!  

Stupid gender wars. Before it was about who's got it better. Now it's a competition as to who's got it worse.

Anyway, emiemi, I notice more of what you're talking about (women beefing) on some of the occasions where I see women in groups. On an individual, woman-to-woman level though, the beefing is not as significant. At that level it tends to be more like [unshared] tension. I can though say that from what I've noticed (in regards to your comment about women not standing up for each other), they tend to empathize and suffer along with each other, rather than confront the cheater, abuser, discriminator, etc. But that's just what I've generally noticed.

@topic
Gud question

women against women- it's disgusting and i see it all the time.
it's way different from what guys do. women take it to a whole other level.
like black on black crime.



i think people just like to pick on "their own size"
women take out their frustrations on each other

where men have ego, women have envy. some women are not free minded. . . laugh with you, plan and scheme against you behind your back. those are the women that make men think we're all evil bit*hes. thats why most of my friends are males, i find their company more interesting and they dont hold on to silly grudges.

it is when it became 1man to 2women that women started beefing against each other * silly*

@posakosa
You be really big goat!!!
see d way u just dey open ur mouth dey talk
rubbish 4 here. who send u to represent men for here?

@Poster: I see it a lot too, and it sucks.

I remember a group of co-workers just talking about other ladies like a dog because of their choice of clothing, their size, and hairstyles. We can really be a petty gender.

I think its because women are generally more self-conscious and insecure than men, so its a defense mechanism to stir up beef as a way of trying to vie for social position or status. We are a lot more covert and passive-aggressive when it comes to our pursuit of ALpha-ness.

I wish we did get along better and learn to compete with no one but ourselves.

Most men don't give a damn how another guy is dressed, cuts his hair, or whether he is slim or fat enough to be part of his crew, but women always set such "requirements" and we still have the nerve to firm cliques based on superficial traits even after adulhood.

michelin89: Oh pleaseee! Women kill women because of men. Men would rather agree to Bleep the woman in question and go their separate ways.

Are you o.k in the head? seriously... i wonder what planet you ppl are from with all the a$$ backwards stuff you guys believe on this website.

Who is more likely to kill over a partner, man or women?.... and you think its woman. dafuq is wrong with you That is the complete opposite of the truth. Lol have u ever heard of the Trojan war? like 50% of the time men fight its over a chick, thats evolution, its normal. Women are not supposed to compete with men, men compete with men, get that through your estrogen saturated brains, you are supposed to compete with each other.

And we are supposed to compete with other men, so stay in your gotdang lane.

It just drives me crazy how nairaland females are stuck in these rediculous bubbles so far away from reality. Get a grip and stop whining about everything

Men compete with each other to be the Aplha male women compete with each other to attract the Aplha male..... thats life accept it.

Exactly! A lot of times it has to do with jealousy too.

dominique: where men have ego, women have envy. some women are not free minded. . . laugh with you, plan and scheme against you behind your back. those are the women that make men think we're all evil bit*hes. thats why most of my friends are males, i find their company more interesting and they dont hold on to silly grudges.