Not all cases.Some men take their kids with them.

More often than not, child custody favours the woman...

Benita27:
There's an aura that comes with having a "father figure" in a home, more especially when daughters are involved, most broken homes have seen on the grounds that the woman was caught cheating... "Divorce" was inevitable.

Base on a clear observation, these fathers left their cheating wives with their girl-child and these women tend to be bad influence on their daughters who end up being very wayward future prostitutes in the making. As for the boys we're told they have a survival instinct, i really can't relate to though!. This thread is prompted by one among many have seen, her father isn't aware of the kind of life she live as i know he loves her but, she fools him a lot and i know she would have been better off with her dad.

Why Do These Men Leave Their Daughters In The Hands Of A Promiscous Wife They Divorced?.

Women have really suffered! They get insults from the menfolk and even from their own gender. So because you grew up with a father figure, you think you are better than others who didn't? So the majority of promiscuous ladies out there were brought up in fatherless homes? Wonders! What about the numerous girls who due to greed prostitute themselves. Their parents cater to their every need but they still go out to prostitute themselves. You take a few examples of the cases in your life and decide to make a sweeping statement. What kind of research did you carry out to come to this conclusion?

Benita27:
There's an aura that comes with having a "father figure" in a home, more especially when daughters are involved, most broken homes have seen on the grounds that the woman was caught cheating... "Divorce" was inevitable.

Base on a clear observation, these fathers left their cheating wives with their girl-child and these women tend to be bad influence on their daughters who end up being very wayward future prostitutes in the making. As for the boys we're told they have a survival instinct, i really can't relate to though!. This thread is prompted by one among many have seen, her father isn't aware of the kind of life she live as i know he loves her but, she fools him a lot and i know she would have been better off with her dad.

Why Do These Men Leave Their Daughters In The Hands Of A Promiscous Wife They Divorced?.

Divorce prone peeps will come for your head. Ignore them though. Marriage should be for life andwhere cases of brutality comes in, separation not divorce is best.

Dont leave a legacy of broken homes for your children to carry and transfer to successive generations. If you know you can tolerate divorce then don't get married... get pregnant and cohabit

don't mind it.too much nollywood is worrying it

Nancy2016:


Women have really suffered! They get insults from the menfolk and even from their own gender. So because you grew up with a father figure, you think you are better than others who didn't? So the majority of promiscuous ladies out there were brought up in fatherless homes? Wonders! What about the numerous girls who due to greed prostitute themselves. Their parents cater to their every need but they still go out to prostitute themselves. You take a few examples of the cases in your life and decide to make a sweeping statement. What kind of research did you carry out to come to this conclusion?

Hope you know you can't judge the many by the actions of the few.
What do you suggest? That the fathers take the children with them after divorce?!
You think single fathers can provide better care for the female child(ren)??

Nancy2016:


Women have really suffered! They get insults from the menfolk and even from their own gender. So because you grew up with a father figure, you think you are better than others who didn't? So the majority of promiscuous ladies out there were brought up in fatherless homes? Wonders! What about the numerous girls who due to greed prostitute themselves. Their parents cater to their every need but they still go out to prostitute themselves. You take a few examples of the cases in your life and decide to make a sweeping statement. What kind of research did you carry out to come to this conclusion?

No one is thinking he/she is better off because there's a father figure in the home, and i didn't generalize because i used "most" which is true...i haven't seen any who's daughter act or behave differently...with at least four cases around me...can't go into details and they're disturbing... but, the only one who the dad has with him is doing perfectly well so i think such women are bad influence.

I am not against women as you claim, i was very specific about the kind of women this thread was referring to.

Suprnov3r:



Divorce prone peeps will come for your head. Ignore them though. Marriage should be for life andwhere cases of brutality comes in, separation not divorce is best.

Dont leave a legacy of broken homes for your children to carry and transfer to successive generations. If you know you can tolerate divorce then don't get married... get pregnant and cohabit

@ the embolden, it's always expected.

southernbelle:
Hope you know you can't judge the many by the actions of the few.
What do you suggest? That the fathers take the children with them after divorce?!
You think single fathers can provide better care for the female child(ren)??

That the fathers take the children with them in cases where the woman was found breaking her wedding vows such as "cheating".

Yes!, a single father who's determined to see to the well being of his daughters will take take along, they're likely to do better with them than with their promicous mothers.

Timbuktuo:
Idon't know where you're getting your statistics from. It is a known fact here that children raised by single parents are just as balanced as those raised in a two-parent household.

Case closed. Thread closed

I know sarcasm when I see one.

d OP is rite with d ones surrounding where I live...kai.!!! those girls just dey do "Animasaun" Cheerful giver

Same sex parents will always be a huge influence on their kids... divorced or not.

Even if the man takes the kids, the mother would still be an influence if she comes in contact with her daughters

Benita27:
No one is thinking he/she is better off because there's a father figure in the home, and i didn't generalize because i used "most" which is true...i haven't seen any who's daughter act or behave differently...with at least four cases around me...can't go into details and they're disturbing... but, the only one who the dad has with him is doing perfectly well so i think such women are bad influence.

I am not against women as you claim, i was very specific about the kind of women this thread was referring to.

Still the same thing. You cannot use the cases in your life to make a sweeping statement. You say "most" and I can tell you that you are wrong. Your test population is limited so you can't draw conclusions from the results. This is Statistics 101 I am teaching you.

Are you saying that if the man is promiscuous too, the woman should take the children from him so that he doesn't corrupt them?

Benita27:
There's an aura that comes with having a "father figure" in a home, more especially when daughters are involved, most broken homes have seen on the grounds that the woman was caught cheating... "Divorce" was inevitable.
Base on a clear observation, these fathers left their cheating wives with their girl-child and these women tend to be bad influence on their daughters who end up being very wayward future prostitutes in the making. As for the boys we're told they have a survival instinct, i really can't relate to though!. This thread is prompted by one among many have seen, her father isn't aware of the kind of life she live as i know he loves her but, she fools him a lot and i know she would have been better off with her dad.
Why Do These Men Leave Their Daughters In The Hands Of A Promiscous Wife They Divorced?.

Timbuktuo:
Idon't know where you're getting your statistics from. It is a known fact here that children raised by single parents are just as balanced as those raised in a two-parent household.

Case closed. Thread closed

Yeah right!

op u re very very correct. just wish dat men should not let d action of their wives cheating make them take a hasten decision . Because d effect on d children is not always pleasant
please don't mind those people saying sometime else. Research is there for doubting Thomas. When u probe into dia life u we call to discovered that they are either/ indirectly have a cheating married
lady in dis family

op u re very very correct. just wish dat men should not let d action of their wives cheating make them take a hasten decision . Because d effect on d children is not always pleasant
please don't mind those people saying sometime else. Research is there for doubting Thomas. When u probe into dia life u we call to discovered that they are either/ indirectly have a cheating married
lady in dia family

Fourwinds:
d OP is rite with d ones surrounding where I live...kai.!!! those girls just dey do "Animasaun" Cheerful giver

...and those from a 'unified' home don't do 'cheerful-giving' *rollseyes*

AuroraB:
...and those from a 'unified' home don't do 'cheerful-giving' *rollseyes*

if u like rolleyes......it is more from brken homes...


I did observed dat for a long time

Fourwinds:
if u like rolleyes......it is more from brken homes...


I did observed dat for a long time

Good for you, Mr. Observer

sorry .

It doesn't matter where the child or children grew up. If that fleeting blood runs in them, if you like put them in a convent

AuroraB:
Good for you, Mr. Observer

thanks...good morning

Timbuktuo:
Idon't know where you're getting your statistics from. It is a known fact here that children raised by single parents are just as balanced as those raised in a two-parent household.

Case closed. Thread closed

Kids raised by single parents due to lose of a parent life are different from those raised by single parents from broken marriages. Those raised by embittered mothers are worse off especially the daughters.
They are never balanced if they don't make effort to get personal relationship with the other half.

lilyheaven:
It doesn't matter where the child or children grew up. If that fleeting blood runs in them, if you like put them in a convent

Flirting is not a "blood thing" rather an exposure and bad influence thing.

DeRay98:


Flirting is not a "blood thing" rather an exposure and bad influence thing.

It is o my dear
It runs in the blood