Hello fam,

I have this issue bothering me for over a year now.

Have been in a few relationships but i keep loosing interest in them easily.

Its either i find flaws and i cant just see myself with the person again or i dont find them attractive anymore.

I have been in serious relationships in the past but since my last one, its been hard finding someone i genuinely like. Im surely over my ex since last year trust me.


But dunno whats wrong with me.
Finding someone im compatible with in all aspects is an uphill task.

Epp me edakun

The 3 witches are strongly behind ur back

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Teniolasmart:
The 3 witches are strongly behind ur back

seizethaBae:
Dear ADEROHUNMU TENIOLA MICHEAL why not face your school registration/admission process and leave this thread for adults to comment.

Teniolasmart:
The 3 witches are strongly behind ur back

Lol

You see why u shouldnt put your nose where it doesnt belong?

Well for me I think.. the first relationship is relationship with yourself, try and understand yourself perfectly, sit down and write out your goals and objectives in life... what is your philosophy of life? I don't kkno..... but you must love and appreciate yourself just the way you are....because if you don't it will very hard to love, appreciate and tolerate another.




Be that as it may, when that has been established, then you ask yourself, these questions :
(a) why do I need a spouse? If yes then

(b) what kind of spouse do I need? Here you define what you want in your spouse, e.g education background, financial state, height, handsome or not, complexion and so on.... all depending on what you want.......

Never you allow anybody to make this choice for you, they may recommend as well as advice, the final decision lies with you.


Also you may change present location if you can, .... it may spark up something, I mean new environment, new faces, new things, I mean you can take some time off your busy schedule and relax.


And lastly pray to the almighty GOD for direction and help........... he sees the end from the beginning.

Good luck.

https://www.nairaland.com/3476612/having-manhood-challenges-come-see

Can I ask you the following question.

1. Have you discover yourself? What's your life purpose? What interest you?
this always calls for our strongest attention.

2. Do you have a relationship with God?
3. Do you pray?
4. Do you know the meaning and purpose of relation? Everything has a purpose and it's out duty has human to discovery it.
5. Do you know when you spirit is communicating to you.
6. What religion do you belong to?

I believe when you are able to answer this questions since and honest you will have answers to you relationship affairs

omotohdarajugbogbolo:




Lol
You see why u shouldnt put your nose where it doesnt belong?

i wont say anything to someone whose moniker is.............dat

OP, finding the one is a darn herculean task! This is applicable to both sexes. Keep trying...u just might find.

My advise...look for good intelligent peeps, the good looks and other addendums should be added advantage. Trust me, if u find a partner you can actually have a decent convo with, enjoy the same kind of music and be in agreement about what fair dealings are...you are on the way! Just look for those whose inner beauty excite you...get lit like a bulb buddy Good luck.

E be like say i go learn... make I sit down well .

u'r the real problem here. u need to frst discover ursef, who am I. what do I love most. what type of man am I lookin for..?

why do I need a man new?

Don't bother ursef toooo much the right man will surely finds u.

I was once like that b4 then I was thinking it is d witches n wizards association of Nigeria who Are @ work.

now I know there's nthg wrong with me.
it's like u'r an introvert?

I really appreciate your inputs so far

@Richy4 my list is a very short one
i know we all aint perfect but finding someone that i have a strong connection with is hard to find.

@sisisioge The last time i felt love was over a year. I have met intelligent/handsome peeps but i dont love them...that deep connection isnt there. Do u think something is wrong with me?
If i go ahead because they love me, i think i might be miserable because the love isnt mutual

austine4real:
u'r the real problem here. u need to frst discover ursef, who am I. what do I love most. what type of man am I lookin for..?

why do I need a man new?

Don't bother ursef toooo much the right man will surely finds u.

I was once like that b4 then I was thinking it is d witches n wizards association of Nigeria who Are @ work.

now I know there's nthg wrong with me.
it's like u'r an introvert?

Lol im not an introvert but i could be reserved sometimes

omotohdarajugbogbolo:


Lol im not an introvert but i could be reserved sometimes

OK na. try n be ursef go for what u want

omotohdarajugbogbolo:
I really appreciate your inputs so far

@Richy4 my list is a very short one
i know we all aint perfect but finding someone that i have a strong connection with is hard to find.

@sisisioge The last time i felt love was over a year. I have met intelligent/handsome peeps but i dont love them...that deep connection isnt there. Do u think something is wrong with me?
If i go ahead because they love me, i think i might be miserable because the love isnt mutual

Hmmmm...it is well o. Anyways, a time will come when the unexpected will happen...it will seem like train hit you when someone somewhere will carry chair go sit for the peak of your to-do list I just hope the person turns out to be worth it. Abi what sha it profit a person that ends of falling in love with scheming scoundrels? Olorun maje! Good luck.

sisisioge:


Hmmmm...it is well o. Anyways, a time will come when the unexpected will happen...it will seem like train hit you when someone somewhere will carry chair go sit for the peak of your to-do list I just hope the person turns out to be worth it. Abi what sha it profit a person that ends of falling in love with scheming scoundrels? Olorun maje! Good luck.

Lol...tnx

omotohdarajugbogbolo:

But dunno whats wrong with me.
Finding someone im compatible with in all aspects is an uphill task.

Epp me edakun cry

Calm down... there's nothing wrong with you! The thing is, you've simply not met an appealing partner yet, it doesn't mean you wouldn't...

And yes, this thing isn't peculiar to you alone... So cheers...