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The Plight Of A Young Bachelor by azibit: 8:06am On Dec 20, 2016
So you are young and believe you can be anything you want to be. Day by day, you have friends, you have colleagues and life goes on. However, in our deepest of minds, we want to be better day by day, but some things happen naturally that we have no control over. As a young bachelor, the world wants us to focus on becoming successful. However, the world we live in now has a new definition of success in material terms that we feel really unsuccessful even when we do things that make others better, all we think and care about is materialistic success.

Does he have a car, a house or a nice job? All these are nice to have, but as a young person, the youthful age is when you have to work for what it is you really want in your life.

Naturally, youths have sexual desires and urges that can be fulfilled in the right or wrong way. People find it easy to assume the functions of marriage but people do not want to get married. You should be intimate only after marriage but we want to be intimate and not married. Are you simply running away from marriage or the responsibility that it comes with.

The world makes sex available at your bare feet but not advise people to do it the right way. People say you should not rush into marriage, but why not say do not rush into sexual relationships.

Girls all around walking naked all in the name of fashion and bachelors all around trying to shy away from nature. As a youth, I advise us today to take the right step towards becoming successful.

Success is doing what you are doing because that is what you want.

Marriage is hard, so is life. Does that mean we would not come out everyday to try make the world better. Ladies trying to walk around to impress men with sex that I find it difficult if ladies have no understanding between the world love and sex. Sex is what everyone can get, but love is meant to be for special people. Take a bold step today to never imitate people but follow in the path of your success. Make it a decision to never conform because that is what everyone is doing. If you do what everyone is doing, you would get what everyone gets.
Conformity is your greatest enemy.

Work because that is what you want and not because people around you are doing it, be in righteous relationships and never be in wrong relationships because everyone is doing it. It is our life and not the life of others. So you decide how it is going to be. Make a decision to become better today
Thanks for Reading

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Re: The Plight Of A Young Bachelor by Sunnypar(m): 12:30am On Dec 22, 2016
cheesy
azibit:
So you are young and believe you can be anything you want to be. Day by day, you have friends, you have colleagues and life goes on. However, in our deepest of minds, we want to be better day by day, but some things happen naturally that we have no control over. As a young bachelor, the world wants us to focus on becoming successful. However, the world we live in now has a new definition of success in material terms that we feel really unsuccessful even when we do things that make others better, all we think and care about is materialistic success.

Does he have a car, a house or a nice job? All these are nice to have, but as a young person, the youthful age is when you have to work for what it is you really want in your life.

Naturally, youths have sexual desires and urges that can be fulfilled in the right or wrong way. People find it easy to assume the functions of marriage but people do not want to get married. You should be intimate only after marriage but we want to be intimate and not married. Are you simply running away from marriage or the responsibility that it comes with.

The world makes sex available at your bare feet but not advise people to do it the right way. People say you should not rush into marriage, but why not say do not rush into sexual relationships.

Girls all around walking naked all in the name of fashion and bachelors all around trying to shy away from nature. As a youth, I advise us today to take the right step towards becoming successful.

Success is doing what you are doing because that is what you want.

Marriage is hard, so is life. Does that mean we would not come out everyday to try make the world better. Ladies trying to walk around to impress men with sex that I find it difficult if ladies have no understanding between the world love and sex. Sex is what everyone can get, but love is meant to be for special people. Take a bold step today to never imitate people but follow in the path of your success. Make it a decision to never conform because that is what everyone is doing. If you do what everyone is doing, you would get what everyone gets.
Conformity is your greatest enemy.

Work because that is what you want and not because people around you are doing it, be in righteous relationships and never be in wrong relationships because everyone is doing it. It is our life and not the life of others. So you decide how it is going to be. Make a decision to become better today
Thanks for Reading
Re: The Plight Of A Young Bachelor by amicable09(f): 12:54am On Dec 22, 2016
Thanks for writing bachelor OP grin

But I really don't understand, is somebody seducing you? How you moved from success measured not by materialist possession to sex to love to marriage and then back to success is a little confusing.

Are you saying the greatest challenge for bachelors in the world is ladies walking about na.ked? Is that why some men aren't successful?

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