Acidosis:
I've never given this kind of advice here, but madam, you need to continually CHEAT on him.


If you continue to play the virgin Mary mother Mavrodi on your HORSE-band, you will loose it completely.


There is no better way to correct a seemingly useless spouse than reckless cheating, albeit sensibly. Take your love and your body elsewhere.

Bro you forgot that there are foreign diseases out there....
You equally forgot that the naives are the ones that got it really quick.....The experts on it knows what to do all the time....she might be unlucky if she goes through that lane......

Ishilove:

So you're Jesus Christ?

Ishilove:

Oga Acid, which kain iranu advice be this ke?

Richy4:


Bro you forgot that there are foreign diseases out there....
You equally forgot that the naives are the ones that got it really quick.....The experts on it knows what to do all the time....she might be unlucky if she goes through that lane......

Acidosis:
I've never given this kind of advice here, but madam, you need to continually CHEAT on him.


If you continue to play the virgin Mary mother Mavrodi on your HORSE-band, you will loose it completely.


There is no better way to correct a seemingly useless spouse than reckless cheating, albeit sensibly. Take your love and your body elsewhere.

Ishilove:
Spicysimple, I'm not married so I don't know exactly what advice to give you.

The advice i'd give my sister is this: When a boil is filled with pus, do you wait for it to dry up or you lance it? Perhaps you're the kind who take meds to dry it from inside?

The boil won't go away on its own so instead of leaving it to fester and cause you pain, lance it! Let the whole stinking, vile secretion flow out so that you'll have some relief. The pain will come first, followed by healing.

One weapon which you can use to bleed that painful, pus filled boil is his phone. Snoop through it, find out what you're up against. That thing that is not allowing him to gist with you the way a husband should is an enemy. You must start with that enemy.

My sister, SNOOP through his chats and text messages! Know your enemy!! Take your home back by force! Burst the boil so that everything will come to the surface because ignoring a problem won't make it go away.

And then go War Room on his ass

This is the advice i'd give my own sister.

Acidosis:
I've never given this kind of advice here, but madam, you need to continually CHEAT on him.


If you continue to play the virgin Mary mother Mavrodi on your HORSE-band, you will loose it completely.


There is no better way to correct a seemingly useless spouse than reckless cheating, albeit sensibly. Take your love and your body elsewhere.

Spicysimple:
@baby124 when i try to talk to him- he says thats my business. One day i sent him a mail and i was surprised he replied me saying is he that bad? im tired of trying to talk- i have talked and emailed him, - nothing has changed.
People keep telling me "you look really nice- your husband is really taking care of you" - he gets all the glory for my care of myself n my kids.
He knows my heart cant take all these but he doesnt care. I cant believe he is ok knowing im hurting - Its past 11pm n not yet home- the kids saw him last sunday morning.
tears are dropping down my eyes as i type.
I have gotten some good advices here - i have to be strong n happy. Ill keep focusing on my kids.
Thank you sirs n mas. God bless you all

Spicysimple:
@baby124 when i try to talk to him- he says thats my business. One day i sent him a mail and i was surprised he replied me saying is he that bad? im tired of trying to talk- i have talked and emailed him, - nothing has changed.
People keep telling me "you look really nice- your husband is really taking care of you" - he gets all the glory for my care of myself n my kids.
He knows my heart cant take all these but he doesnt care. I cant believe he is ok knowing im hurting - Its past 11pm n not yet home- the kids saw him last sunday morning.
tears are dropping down my eyes as i type.
I have gotten some good advices here - i have to be strong n happy. Ill keep focusing on my kids.
Thank you sirs n mas. God bless you all

Richy4:
Do you have a job madam? If you do..., then i suggest you look for a decent accommodation and separate with him for a while.....That will help you clear your head from the cobwebs....It will also give you room to think about what next to do....

I believe you are an introvert...and he was taking an undue advantage of that....get an emergency accommodation for some months...if you are not scarce from him for a while, he will not know your worth....Even if he pleads for you to stay, insist that you are not going away permanently... but you want some time out....you really want to think where the marriage was heading.. And in this situation, you really have to be strong ok...

pocohantas:
Madam better end that marriage. If you decide not to remarry, fine...but get a bobo on the lowkey.
Don't mind people telling you to pray o...

Don't mind Wetin

Madam, pray and fast heavily,
Watch war room
Buy and read Christian books
Pray for him
Love him more
Wear sexy dresses
Cook his meals nicely like he wants it
Wash and iron his cloths
Love him more
Do not disturb his space
He is your husband and head



***runs out of thread***

0neal:
mam...i can only imagine wah you are going through

I feel you need to tackle this matter spiritually by Resisting the devil with prayers your husband is not the primary villian.

From your account i read, he has not physically abuse you, So i believe the situation can still be salvaged.

Have you seen this movie "War Room"?
its a must Watch for Every women married or unmarried.

Communication is very essential ingredient to keep the flame of Love burning in any relationship.

Still Strive to communicate with him tactically!!!
no matter how he snubs you, you have lived with him for years, so you should know what makes him tick!!!

Don't give up on your marriage mam


#GodAnwsersPrayers

I said it

Lolz
Madam buy 'war room in different languages, watch and pray as directed in the movie

ADUKKY:
Hello sis, life has no duplicate. Please stop brooding and live your life to the fullest. There is a Facebook group I will like you to be a part of FIN( Females in Nigeria), though it's a closed group and you have to added by a member but you will see that there is more to life than any man's actions or inactions. If you are interested, let's talk.

FIN LOVE sis
I see you

sisisioge:


You forking shocked the heck outta me dude!


OP, I'm so sorry abt what you are going through. I think you need to get a life for yourself too. Whatever it takes...YOLO.

Mskrisx:
I ain't married but NNE believe me when I say nobody, I mean NOBODY born of a woman will ever the power to keep me on my toes. I can't say I relate perfectly but I sure do know how it feeels.
Let me tell u a story...
I use to have a female boss whose plight was exactly as yours if not worse, she pays the bills, clean and cook and still receive the beating wey dey am. As her PA, I was the only one she could talk to. The pain was so much that she didn't mind how old I was then...she just wanted to let it out! Each time she talks about divorce, he would behave normal for a while and turn worse before one can say Jack...Everything was turning upside down. She lost her job and had to concentrate on her shop and that's where I was heading as of then.
Long story short.
1. She decided to damn what people would say and do right by her ( because it has always been about what people would say).

2. She has a good source of income that could cater for her 2kids.

3. She stood up to it and made him realise she was gon endure whatever shame, pain and depression their separation would cost her.

4. She took it up legally at least to have her kids stay with her.

5. Now he starts begging! But hey pussy-nigger we used to your ol tricks. So, damn u!

Finally I don't care how anybody sees me here but before u talk rubbish, I wish your sister op's situation.

Marriage is a good thing ( according to my pastor) I hear it every Sunday and truss me, its cliché.

No matter what it is...nobody, not u, me or any other lady out there deserves this treatment! Him know say u no go want go anywhere therefore, he sees the world, you and your emotions as his foot stool.

Op, do me a favour... Log on to Facebook and search for this username Olufunke Phillips. Then you will appreciate who you are. Pls try searching that name. Thanks.

PS. In the end, na u wear shoe na you know how e tight reach... Stay safe #yolo#
That's why I keep advising young ladies like me either get a job,learn a skill or have a good certificate laced with no matter how small savings. But them no go gree all dey want is "Marriage."

Cc. Crackhaus

Acidosis:


I cannor come and allow my privates turn to sahara desert because of a useless spouse na...


Even the sexually satisfied seek fun outside sometimes. Honestly and truthfully, she needs a very close friend (preferably the opposite se.x), not necessarily for reckless se.x as I earlier mentioned, but someone she could talk to most of the time (I would personally recommend an online pal to secure her sanity and get her engaged and away from boredom).

There are some online friends that would get you soo engaged that you'd forget every physical happenings around you.

Mimzyy:
What happens when the online friend isn't there for her anymore?

Acidosis:


Very simple: simply get another.

Mimzyy:

Then the bonding process starts all over...