Ladyboobae:
Married with a beautiful daughter of 4yrs,graduated from a federal university in year 2016 with a 2:1 in Accounting...from Bayelsa state,got married year 2016 dec..applied for jobs non called..teaching in a private school where am paid 12k per month..applied for federal and state jobs gotten none..my hubby works offshore but always complaining his broke..he get paid #250,000 to #450,000 per month depending on how many times he works in a month...my daughter goes to the best school but I can't boost of an ICAN certification or any tangible thing for myself...always alone with my daughter..he is always at work....I used to day dream that some one from no where would wipe my tears and help me get a good job to at least take care of myself and my sick mum in the village after all her sacrifices to make me graduate...why me..I ask my self.. my friends laughs at me ,that with my 2:1 av gat no good jobs,wear rags and don't even look like a married woman..they see me as a failure...but I dont see myself as one..not now not ever...they say Success is when opportunity meet preparedness .I have been prepared from little for success....I put in my 100%in every thing I do and it comes out the best...what is happening to me...all my CV's I have submitted not even a call....when will my samaritan locate me....yours faithfully a faithful wife...

greatnaija01:


Madam, start a business.
Your daughter can be enrolled in another school for now.

you can NOT be working and taking care of family in BAYELSA... pls consider a business.

You are blessed with a wonderful husband, so simply save some cash he sends home and use it to do something for yourself

madridguy:
My daughter goes to the best school but I can't boost of an ICAN certification or any tangible thing for myself...

The bold quote above shows her husband is only after the affair of the kids and not the mother. So where do you expect her to get money for business?

greatnaija01:


she can get the kids school fees and delay payment while she INVESTS or STARTS A BUSINESS. or she can send the child to another school without the husband knowing yet until she has her own money ....

MANY WOMEN DO IT.


she is not desperate yet.

Jmk9292:
Your husband should assist you start up something unless he is under a spell......

greatnaija01:


she can get the kids school fees and delay payment while she INVESTS or STARTS A BUSINESS. or she can send the child to another school without the husband knowing yet until she has her own money ....

MANY WOMEN DO IT.


she is not desperate yet.

Ladyboobae:
Married with a beautiful daughter of 4yrs,graduated from a federal university in year 2016 with a 2:1 in Accounting...from Bayelsa state,got married year 2016 dec..applied for jobs non called..teaching in a private school where am paid 12k per month..applied for federal and state jobs gotten none..my hubby works offshore but always complaining his broke..he get paid #250,000 to #450,000 per month depending on how many times he works in a month...my daughter goes to the best school but I can't boost of an ICAN certification or any tangible thing for myself...always alone with my daughter..he is always at work....I used to day dream that some one from no where would wipe my tears and help me get a good job to at least take care of myself and my sick mum in the village after all her sacrifices to make me graduate...why me..I ask my self.. my friends laughs at me ,that with my 2:1 av gat no good jobs,wear rags and don't even look like a married woman..they see me as a failure...but I dont see myself as one..not now not ever...they say Success is when opportunity meet preparedness .I have been prepared from little for success....I put in my 100%in every thing I do and it comes out the best...what is happening to me...all my CV's I have submitted not even a call....when will my samaritan locate me....yours faithfully a faithful wife...

Ladyboobae:
I have thought this same way too

midnighter:
So have you broached this topic with him...like what's his excuse for allowing you to go about in rags while he's earning 500k

greatnaija01:


she can get the kids school fees and delay payment while she INVESTS or STARTS A BUSINESS. or she can send the child to another school without the husband knowing yet until she has her own money ....

MANY WOMEN DO IT.


she is not desperate yet.

bukatyne:


From this, your husband cares about your daughter's education and welfare (I am judging best school is expensive a d you have not said anything about fending for your daughter yourself).

So he doesn't care about your welfare and education. As in he doesn't care about you.

The question is why? I have been asking myself that question for the past 4 years....

Ladyboobae:
I have countless times ....he tells me there's no money

internationalman:
If you slept with the employers the job would have been your by now.

May God reward your faithfulness with a more suiting and paying job than your husband's..


That's the best revenge you could ever hope for.. He will feel inferior and his self esteem will drop and climb down dat high horse if when he learns that you now not just earn but earn better than him.

That's if what you say about him is true.

Jmk9292:


I wonder o. Why would a man that earns up-to 300k neglect his own wife to her fate? ..
Unless the wife in question has some dubious aspects of hers' she has not told us..... If the man is free of spell and the woman as good as she states then, she deserves every assistance from the husband... ....
Unless the man has an offshore concubine....

Ladyboobae:
if God can only pity me and give me a job...I will forever be grateful

Ladyboobae:
in my daughters school ,you pay your ward school fees before your child is granted access into the school premises

roseboma:
Mine is worst than yours dear, the difference is I work and take care if myself and my kids

midnighter:


Sorry about it dear...

Do you have any kind of skill? Like can you make hair? Maybe you'd start inviting clients to your home

I have only heard of the man refusing to help train his kids...this one is strange

Sorry to ask this question but has he ever told you that you've offended him for any reason? I don't understand

greatnaija01:
HIKE THE FEES

OR GET A LOAN

bukatyne:


It is not enough to ask yourself for 4 years.

You have painted your husband as a good father.

Let's assume he earns N350k per month, how is your daughters fees per term/year? How much is your rent? Does he have dependents? How much do you spend on feeding? Is he doing any special project like building a house?

Do you really know how the money go every month?

What do you use your salary for?

Ladyboobae:
Married with a beautiful daughter of 4yrs,graduated from a federal university in year 2016 with a 2:1 in Accounting...from Bayelsa state,got married year 2016 dec..applied for jobs non called..teaching in a private school where am paid 12k per month..applied for federal and state jobs gotten none..my hubby works offshore but always complaining his broke..he get paid #250,000 to #450,000 per month depending on how many times he works in a month...my daughter goes to the best school but I can't boost of an ICAN certification or any tangible thing for myself...always alone with my daughter..he is always at work....I used to day dream that some one from no where would wipe my tears and help me get a good job to at least take care of myself and my sick mum in the village after all her sacrifices to make me graduate...why me..I ask my self.. my friends laughs at me ,that with my 2:1 av gat no good jobs,wear rags and don't even look like a married woman..they see me as a failure...but I dont see myself as one..not now not ever...they say Success is when opportunity meet preparedness .I have been prepared from little for success....I put in my 100%in every thing I do and it comes out the best...what is happening to me...all my CV's I have submitted not even a call....when will my samaritan locate me....yours faithfully a faithful wife...

YOUNGELDER1:
What about your family?
Since your husband decides to act this way, reasons best known to him.
Why not ask your family for a soft loan or something?
I mean your siblings or even well to do uncles & aunties?