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Marrying More Than A Wife. by ademoladeji(m): 4:15pm On Jan 06, 2017
IS IT A SIN FOR A CHRISTIAN TO MARRY MORE THAN A WIFE?
Please support your response with reference to Jesus' commands and not from any biased point of view.
Re: Marrying More Than A Wife. by Nobody: 4:17pm On Jan 06, 2017
No..

Technically,
Paul clarified that while writing Timothy on how Christianity should be run.

It simply says to hold Christian office you must have one wife meaning lots of the early Christians with Timothy had more than one wife!

Read 1 Timothy 3:1-3

So if you have no intention of holding office then you can be polygamous.
Re: Marrying More Than A Wife. by Nobody: 5:04pm On Jan 06, 2017
NwamaziNwaAro:
No..

Paul clarified that while writing Timothy on how Christianity should be run.

It simply says to hold Christian office you must have one wife meaning lors of th early Christians with Timothy had more than one wife!

Read 1 Timothy 3:1-3

So if you have no intention of holding office then you can be polygamous.


Our forefathers in Ekiti were devout Christians and predominantly farmers. They'd never take a yes for a no, and vice versa. They were nice, kind-hearted and loving. They were not covetous about anything. Their wives were caring and not arrogant. They would be on their kneels whenever they served them husband pounded yam. Many even died at a very old age and their children were highly placed , many of whom were professors of various disciplines . The reverse is the case these days. A man will marry a wife and the wife will make life miserably for him, especially once she knows she's the only one. You see a man of 35 years old looking 10 years older, due to the stress faced at home and as a Christian, you must not divorce her because our faith frowns at it. HBP case (caused by wives) amongst our men nowadays is worrisome. All these were never a commonplace in the olden days. Women would respect their husbands and even call them, 'my lord'. Reverse is the case nowadays. Before a man would say A, the wife has said A,B and C. Could this be our exposure to the westlife or education?... because many don't seem to live by the instructions laid down in the bible to be followed as a wife....just asking.

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Re: Marrying More Than A Wife. by TheOtherRoom: 5:06pm On Jan 06, 2017
Anas09 butterflylion what sayet thou
Re: Marrying More Than A Wife. by Scholar8200(m): 5:52pm On Jan 06, 2017
ademoladeji:
IS IT A SIN FOR A CHRISTIAN TO MARRY MORE THAN A WIFE?
Please support your response with reference to Jesus' commands and not from any biased point of view.

1.And said, For this cause shall a man leave father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they twain shall be one flesh?
Matthew 19:5

Marriage is between two (not 3 or more) who would become one till death separates them. What do we call the second wife?




2.
2 For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.

3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Romans 7:2,3
The highlighted also applies to the man, he shall be an adulterer if he marries another while his wife is still alive.

And adultery is:

19 Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, ... and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God.

Galatians 5:19,21b

And/or

Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

Hebrews 13:4

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