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The Nature Of Women: The society hates me because am a woman by Nobody: 11:32am On Jan 08, 2017 |
I'M WOMAN !! So what? I get into an argument with a man, he slaps me, I feel the pain, yet they tell me I provoked him. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. I get into an argument with a man, I slap him, they tell me I have no respect, no home training. I should have been quiet, I should have been patient. I should apologize to him. Because I am a woman, I don't have a right to be angry. So, the degree of my innocence is directly proportional to the degree of my silence in the face of oppression and brutality..... Because I am a woman, my husband cheats on me, I am told to tolerate it to save my marriage. The barbaric and stupid excuse is that ''it is in their nature to cheat, I should slim down, dress better, cook better, pray harder and be more pleasant to him". I cheat, and I am called a LovePeddler, I have committed an abomination, I have no right to look elsewhere for the love and emotional support I lack at home, I am an irresponsible mother. So I am sent packing, from the home we both built, with all my earthly possessions stuffed into a tiny box on my head. I am henceforth forbidden from seeing my two older children, I'm lucky to be allowed to go with my little one still suckling on my left breast. Three years later, the little one is tagged a bastard. Now, my new name is "after-three", because I am a woman. He is 28 and runs a company. He's tagged wonderful, hardworking, focused, career oriented, successful at a very young age. I am 28 and I run a company " Hmmmm, she is not even married, unserious, can not order her priorities right, a hustler, loves money, let her go and get a husband oh" And I wonder if being successful has anything to do with a person's gender. Because I am a woman, I am not allowed to have wits or be a prodigy, I cannot be financially buoyant, professionally successful or be treated with respect without a man beside me. Then I am tagged a generous leg opener, "a runs girl". They never see the possibility that I actually had to go through ups and downs to get to where I am. Because I am a woman. A man looses his wife to death and remarries a year after, he did the right thing, he's being praised and congratulated for moving on, after all life is for the living. A woman looses her husband to death and remarries after 4yrs, "ahhh! so early? Are u sure she wasn't sleeping with that man even when her husband was alive? That was why she killed her husband. She's a witch! " Because she's a woman. Because I am a woman, this post will be considered controversial, and everyone will try to correct me. But don't forget, that I am a woman and it does not make me less human!!! Written by women 2 Likes |
Re: The Nature Of Women: The society hates me because am a woman by Nobody: 12:08pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Is this why you were sent to school? |
Re: The Nature Of Women: The society hates me because am a woman by marshalcarter: 12:20pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
NwamaziNwaAro:loooolZzzz inu kwa |
Re: The Nature Of Women: The society hates me because am a woman by Ginaz(f): 6:45pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
This is touching, women are suffering oh. |
Re: The Nature Of Women: The society hates me because am a woman by janejive(f): 8:27pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
So True |
Re: The Nature Of Women: The society hates me because am a woman by bukatyne(f): 10:33pm On Jan 08, 2017 |
Does this article have several titles or do the OP pick whatever title he/she deems fit? |
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