This has been a topic I have been looking into for a long time but I haven't summoned the courage to discuss it openly until now, being a victim of such incidence or domestic abuse if I may call it, I find it discouraging how the society laugh at men who come out to say they have been verbally and physically abused by their wives or girlfriends.
Here's a scenario I have been in, I and my girlfriend were involved in a heated quarell and words were exchanged then out of the blues she slapped me across the face, at this point I was dumbfounded and I was mad , but I kept my composure and dared her to try it again and watch the actions I would take next,she kept on nagging and eventually she said some very hurtful things, and I equally laid out by replying and she slapped me again, claiming there's nothing I can do because I would be blamed if anything happens and that She has seen my true colours (as a bad person) ,I was quiet and after some time we apologised to each other for everything. But I can't get over the fact that women claim to be the only victims of domestic violence whereas if a man admits to being abused he would be ridiculed by society but a woman would be taken seriously. So I ask my fellow men what would you do if you were to be hit or beaten by your spouse during any circumstance.

I don't believe in the feminist BS that a man should not lay hands on a woman. What i believe is that no one must lay hands on another, be it a man or woman. Anybody who slaps you deserves the same thing is equal measure. Some of these ladies are using the stigma placed on men that beat ladies to misbehave and go ahead to slap their partners.

Btw, this should be in the Family sectiona and not Crime. Mynd44

Afam4eva:
I don't believe in the feminist BS that a man should not lay hands on a woman. What i believe is that no one must lay hands on another, be it a man or woman. Anybody who slaps you deserves the same thing is equal measure. Some of these ladies are using the stigma placed on men that beat ladies to misbehave and go ahead to slap their partners.

Btw, this should be in the Family sectiona and not Crime. Mynd44

ok ,now you retaliate by hitting her back and at the end you are blamed nd accused a woman beater ,what would you do knowing no one would believe it was self defence

Lol, of course hitting a woman is wrong. But I don't see the level I would bring myself to that my gf would start slapping me.

I blame you, No offense but i feel if you carry yourself with respect your gf won't go about hitting you.

But if I am to speak realistically, At this point of my life I don't know how I would handle it. The last girl that slapped me was when I was in secondary school and I returned it with bonus.

x6blade:
ok ,now you retaliate by hitting her back and at the end you are blamed nd accused a woman beater ,what would you do knowing no one would believe it was self defence

It really doesn't matter what people think because if you walk away people will still call you a weakling. Someone can't slap me and i'll keep quiet. Mba.

pcoolioz:
Lol, of course hitting a woman is wrong. But I don't see the level I would bring myself to that my gf would start slapping me.

I blame you, No offense but i feel if you carry yourself with respect your gf won't go about hitting you.

But if I am to speak realistically, At this point of my life I don't know how I would handle it. The last girl that slapped me was when I was in secondary school and I returned it with bonus.

I believe no matter how much respect you carry on your head if you meet an "entitled" woman who thinks the world should bow at her feet. She would still do what's in her mind because society demands "men should never hit a woman no matter what" hope you get the point I am trying to make

Afam4eva:

It really doesn't matter what people think because if you walk away people will still call you a weakling. Someone can't slap me and i'll keep quiet. Mba.

I read recently on naira land how a man beat his wife after she repeatedly cheated on him (emotional abuse) and got pregnant for another man,and fellow men blamed the man for beating her, am not saying he's right but he's a human being and sometimes we spark,if you get

I punch back...no time

wtfCode:
I punch back...no time

imagine a scenario where you abroad on holiday with her and she hits you,you punch back and she calls the police on you,how do you make them believe you

Afam4eva:


Btw, this should be in the Family sectiona and not Crime. Mynd44

U don dey invite this guy wey dey ban any how bah?

give and it shall be given unto you ...slap and..........





thank you

I will turn the other side for her to slap more
bible talk am nah

just waiting for the day e go happen, blood go flow

x6blade:
imagine a scenario where you abroad on holiday with her and she hits you,you punch back and she calls the police on you,how do you make them believe you

Well, this is Nigeria,I'll do it the Nigerian way
If its abroad,I'll figure out a way to hurt her back that very moment.

wtfCode:

Well, this is Nigeria,I'll do it the Nigerian way
If its abroad,I'll figure out a way to hurt her back that very moment.

hmm you re strict o

It's a pity men are becoming more docile. I'll slap some senses into her.

im just gonna walk away,, and wont return until after 15 wks

so you have created a topic you want nairalanders to bicker about abi.

If she slaps you on the left cheek, turn the right one for her to slap you again. be like Jesus.

Joavid:
so you have created a topic you want nairalanders to bicker about abi.

If she slaps you on the left cheek, turn the right one for her to slap you again. be like Jesus.

ok

It's been a while I shared my experience , Mynd44 please do the needful , I'll like to discuss this fully on front page now that I left that relationship, some guys are going through this and they might need help