Acidosis:


I'm aware men have bigger roles to play, and some were rightly stated in my post. Chill babe...

Bigger roles like setting the rules for the women

some even act like pigs because they've got a maid,eg not wash their cloths,boxers or even clear the table when they are done eating.
Some can't even cook to save their lives, if wife no dey they children will starve to death
wait who even born wife not to dey sef,its her duty to always be around to care for the house and kids nah

Glory12345:
Pls just leave all dis ladies/girls oooo doing boss lady they want to feel like a boss too.. I pity all of u.. Am also a lady and I know what am talking about, I work but I believe what is right is right that's Y many don't stay long in there marriages coz they lack it they believe that can't be slaves to any guy but I believe Dats not true.. *i rest my case *

Glory12345:
Yes I do, tho am not in a relationship at the moment but am certain I do..

And as you have done all you've listed as the good woman that you is now,has it stopped your last relationship from ending? or has it made your ex boyfriend marry you?

Aunty just say you are searching for husband ,let is put a word out for you.

NB : you made reasonable points but making it all about women is totally off,experience has shown that all these are not the ultimate,I've see really rude ladies,dirty and bad cooks get married and stay married,my last roommate is a testimony,oya talk another one,madam stay long in marriages

Berbierklaus:
Then the husband takes over
that's what marriage is about,help yourselves

Berbierklaus:

Bigger roles like setting the rules for the women

some even act like pigs because they've got a maid,eg not wash their cloths,boxers or even clear the table when they are done eating.
Some can't even cook to save their lives, if wife no dey they children will starve to death
wait who even born wife not to dey sef,its her duty to always be around to care for the house and kids nah

Acidosis:


Bigger roles like meeting the needs of the family.. Representing the family outside the home... Taking care of the family and assisting with chores

Berbierklaus:

Most women do all these in present day Nigeria.

Acidosis:


Sure, it doesn't mean roles should be substituted.

I don't think men are complaining or tired of providing.

Acidosis:


Sure, it doesn't mean roles should be substituted.

I don't think men are complaining or tired of providing.

Let me give you an illustration: trouser was originally made for men.. along the line, women stole the idea, and they began to wear trousers. Should men now wear skirt and gown because women love the idea of trousers?

Who send una message?

That my wife works, and own companies all over Africa will not erase the constituted family roles my dear.

Yes it should,but some men want super woman,who will face the whole stress of the companies and still come home to slave for them in the name of her roles
Then they hail and praise her as the ideal woman,then she can't complain but bear the stress as the super woman that she is, then she develops illness because body no be wood,and go through health challenges as the super woman that she is,some women even die sef,then the man marries another super woman

tiri gbosa for men

Berbierklaus:

Then the husband takes over

that's what marriage is about,help yourselves

Berbierklaus:

Yes they are.
Most men don't want to marry a liability no more,they want a woman who can support the house with her earnings.
They want help,its rare to find a man present day Nigeria that want a woman who will keep gulping his money and food and not bring in anything

Acidosis:


Same applies to women; they all want a man that will help and assist with the chores.


Would you want your man to stay home all day to wash, clean, babysit, mop, wash poo and panties?

We are getting somewhere

Since women are adapting,getting jobs,handworks to assist the men in providing for the family,why is it now hard for men to do same for women by doing the chores and other things women require of them?

oh they are men,they need help but shouldn't help or be raised like that

Glory12345:
Pls just leave all dis ladies/girls oooo doing boss lady they want to feel like a boss too.. I pity all of u.. Am also a lady and I know what am talking about, I work but I believe what is right is right that's Y many don't stay long in there marriages coz they lack it they believe that can't be slaves to any guy but I believe Dats not true.. *i rest my case *

Berbierklaus:

Yes it should,but some men want super woman,who will face the whole stress of the companies and still come home to slave for them in the name of her roles
Then they hail and praise her as the ideal woman,then she can't complain but bear the stress as the super woman that she is, then she develops illness because body no be wood,and go through health challenges as the super woman that she is,some women even die sef,then the man marries another super woman

tiri gbosa for men

Berbierklaus:

We are getting somewhere

Since women are adapting,getting jobs,handworks to assist the men in providing for the family,why is it now hard for men to do same for women by doing the chores and other things women require of them?

oh they are men,they need help but shouldn't help or be raised like that

LaylaAli:
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