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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by africanusvu(m): 8:42pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Na u de ask dis kan question.just use him\her for money ritual straight.take him to Agbanitoro vilage in Ijebuode.the u ar a rich man |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Apina(m): 8:51pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
nNEOo:My brother, tell that his fiance I said she's not mature. She's there as a helper and to compliment him in areas he's not so strong in. You have no right to go to your brothers house and tell him he's lazy. Stay in ur house if u feel ur brothers decision to live his life the way he feels best in his own house isn't up to ur standard. You are just whinnying about this and that as if its ur life. Gosh! stop being a sissy. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Phunkyposh(f): 9:03pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
korel9: Awwwwwwh..... Take heart |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Zenithpeak(m): 9:34pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
nNEOo: In actual fact, you are just being over - concerned on a problem that is not directly yours. Stop taking PANADOL EXTRA for your brother 's headache. If you can't cope with him glue to your house else you will brew a serious problem in your home front. |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Nukualofa: 9:39pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
My elder brother had that sense of entitlement with me where i had to pay all bills and do every chores. I just woke up one day and became fed up with everything. I told him to leave. He should go and rent his own house that I'm tired of an able bodied guy watching movie from night till morning and later he will be sleeping in d morning. I don't give a damn biko 3 Likes |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Hannysmilez(f): 9:51pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
Let. him. be. He eats nd leaves the plate there,let it remain there-unless you're feeling extra nice nd want to help out. He takes nd hour unwrapping a cube of seasoning,allow him-isn't it his food? The laziness is his problem,don't make it yours |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by mozele(m): 10:43pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
nNEOo: why disturb yourself thinking about things that will continue to keep you in a negative state of mind? If it is just the two of you that are living together, take a one or two months break very far away from where he or she stays. That's my advise for you. The problem is that you've been doing everything all by yourself and he's gotten so used to being dependent on you to do them. Now he just has a clouded mentality because he knows someone is around to take care of the mess. I'll also encourage you to get engaged in an activity far away from your home and also interact with new people because the more you continue to ponder on the bad and negative sides of his actions, the more closer to bein frustrated and depressed you'll become. Remember, do not nag him. Just let him know you dont like what he is gradually turning into. Sometimes he may get infuriated, it's normal. Your duty is not to also get vexed up the same timd. You remember "you don't use fire to quench fire!" Take your time with him. He'll change. But i can't promise you the change will be instantanous. We human learn and unlearn things gradually. Just take your time with him it is well. From a brother that has been there. |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Bluezy13(m): 11:00pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
korel9: I wish I had a brother. |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by MuskElon: 11:11pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
I'm that lazy brother in my house. Working on it though. |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Dexema(m): 11:35pm On Feb 18, 2017 |
He eats and leaves the plate there? He will come and meet it in that same spot after one week. Or you probably fix the room and once he's back he scatters everything that will be the last time I will do such. Had such experience I was so pissed I just locked up and would only fix my space. Best advice is to engage in something that won't make you available all the time so you don't just lose your temper one day and damage things. |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by MrRichmond: 1:54am On Feb 19, 2017 |
Is it that nairalanders are all primary school drop outs?? From the op's write up down to the comments The level of grammatical blunders on this thread can raise Lazarus from the dead! completely APPALLING! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by joshboss(m): 2:09am On Feb 19, 2017 |
@OP. Just end it all, go and drink sniper. Trust me I know how you feel... |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by uju22(f): 8:05am On Feb 19, 2017 |
Gush I so detest lazy guys seriously, my brother is so so studiply lazy and it pisses me of for real |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by Nobody: 8:26am On Feb 19, 2017 |
You are a misogynist prick. The OP referred to a He. Aren't you too lazy to read? Pot calling the kettle black Also, what do you mean by handled properly? How do you handle an adult properly? dingbang: 1 Like |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by dingbang(m): 8:35am On Feb 19, 2017 |
daretodiffer:was referring to my elder sisters.. Thank u.. I know u must be blind to see the part where he wrote elder bro or sister on his topic. . |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by joinnow: 8:47am On Feb 19, 2017 |
Richy4:Saw one like that That state clean after use .. Your mum is not here to clean it for u |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 11:46am On Feb 19, 2017 |
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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by chccho(m): 1:10pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
nNEOo:To be frank with u it's non of your business since its not your house or family house.I suppose this is his own house and so u can't tell him what to do or how to live in a house where he pays the bills.As a matter of fact seems like u who just came to visit is now the liability here.So the earlier u get back to your own base the better for u. |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by chccho(m): 1:12pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
[quote author=nNEOo post=53851828][/quote] bad Advice |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 1:30pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
africanusvu: Like seriously |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:02pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
chccho: Sounds like a lazy dude.....ok noted sha |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:03pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
uju22: Welcome aboard honey.....maybe you should take a sit |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:04pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
joshboss: I'd rather watch him....hate his life style |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:06pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Apina: Thanks but it not limited to his house alone as it is all en comprising |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:08pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
MrRichmond: Thanks for your observations....can you step aside you are blocking my view. |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:10pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
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Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:13pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Hannysmilez: Dearie my elder sis is even complaining about him,so it not just bothering only me |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:22pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
snapscore: His work is not hectic @all shay that 1fit do hectic work, I had tried picking the plate from his legs with hope of him knowing that what he should have done, can you imagine he used the paste en couldn't even close in the bathroom dude could be hopeless |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:23pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
Re: How Do You Deal With A Lazy Elder Brother Or Sister? by nNEOo(m): 2:24pm On Feb 19, 2017 |
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