Wonders shall never seez to happen! due to some circumstances surrounding her background,she was married to this man at the age of eighteen within six years the union was blessed with four kids.before then when she gave birth to her first son,her mother visited her along with her little sister who was about nine years old to live with her and help her with some home chores so in the run her husband said that the girl was too small and can't do anything so her mother took her back and brought the one that was thirteen years , unknown to the lady every night her hubby will leave the room and sneak to her sister's room to molest her this continued till she caught him in the act well the man begged her promising not to repeat again so she had to sent her sister back and came back with the one that was nine thinking that he will not try that since she is still a child.what she needs was who will stay with the kids when she's out .now she is 27 with four kids and husband is still molesting her little sister that in now 14 she have sent her home but still can't forgive her husband who still sleeps around,she is tired and wants to leave but don't know whether to go with the kids or leave them with their father. Please she needs our advice

Op,is this your case?
In what way have you developed yourself all these years?Do you have a source of income?Can you be financially independent?
If you say you want to take the kids,can you meet their needs financially?

Very bad. What of the little girl? She is the major victim in all this. Did they just send her away to control the wandering dick or she was given proper medical attention and counselling?

This man is a child molester and should be handled as such, this isn't a case of cheating. It's not her fault that the useless man took advantage of her. This is why we should teach self-control, not men are polygamous.

Doesn't the lady have a job? Women shouldn't just go about reproducing because they can. I personally think it's ideal to birth the number you can cater for alone if things go 'bad'. Her decision to take the kids is a whole lot dependent on her financial capability, the man should be very involved but we can't rely on him 100%.

Op if you are not financial independent meaning you can't be able to shoulder the children's responsibility


Sorry, there's nothing you can do about it
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hmmm

lienus lawon eleyi oo

pocohantas:
Very bad. What of the little girl? She is the major victim in all this. Did they just send her away to control the wandering dick or she was given proper medical attention and counselling?

This man is a child molester and should be handled as such, this isn't a case of cheating. It's not her fault that the useless man took advantage of her. This is why we should teach self-control, not men are polygamous.

Doesn't the lady have a job? Women shouldn't just go about reproducing because they can. I personally think it's ideal to birth the number you can cater for alone if things go 'bad'. Her decision to take the kids is a whole lot dependent on her financial capability, the man should be very involved but we can't rely on him 100%.

Sweetie pie...U have said it all. Two of her sisters and she's wondering what to do! It is well... Really well. I honestly think every girl child should be given the chance to develop mentally and physically before being given out in marriage. This woman here is spent at 27yrs! No nothing of her own to show for those year...In fact, no proper thought line to showcase an adult. He caught her young, used her to drive his kids into the world, used two of her sisters as jaara...Whew! That man is a scummbagg!

this one is strong oo!
leemme hear what people gotto say first....

chai that ur husbby na

sasko:
Op if you are not financial independent meaning you can't be able to shoulder the children's responsibility


Sorry, there's nothing you can do about it
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Am surprised why you are silent about the man molesting the 14 year old girl, this is an issue that should raised with the police, this is rape.

Someone took advantage of your two kid sisters and you still don't know what to do? PATHETIC!

OP . I must confess , you are very beautiful. you have emerald eyes.

sisisioge:


Sweetie pie...U have said it all. Two of her sisters and she's wondering what to do! It is well... Really well. I honestly think every girl child should be given the chance to develop mentally and physically before being given out in marriage. This woman here is spent at 27yrs! No nothing of her own to show for those year...In fact, no proper thought line to showcase an adult. He caught her young, used her to drive his kids into the world, used two of her sisters as jaara...Whew! That man is a scummbagg!

This is a serious issue... but I find your jaara comment funny...LOL.

The man lacks self control. Really bad of him. Such Pple can never change

The wife should divorce her husband sharply! No time for nonsense. Mstcheeww....

She shouldn't leave them with the father cos it's likely he will abuse them too....Yeye man

God will first and foremost punish the wife before the husband.

She's completely ignorant, slow and dull.

I did not read where the matter was reported to law enforcement agencies!


The husband slept with her sister, instead of her to report to the appropriate authorities, she sent her sister home and brought another for him to molest again. Now she's asking what to do!

Well, let her send the girl home and bring in another.

Hmm...when you thought you've heard it all, madam Sorry to say oh you don't love your siblings infact you and ur husband suppose to be arrested cos both of you are child molesters. So u mean u don't have anybody to report him to, u first caught him molesting d elder one and u kept quite and brought anoda one for him....
I doff my hat for ur stupidity

After molesting one sister, she still brought in another. How very foolish. Why would she even wana contemplate leaving her kids with that kind of man? Isn't it obvious that, that man could molest even his own children?

The math does not add up. Married at 18, 4 kids within 6 years, puts her at 24. After first child, youngest sister 9 years. Assuming no twins the rest should be 1.5 years apart...add another 3 years..youngest sister can't still be 14.

But just incase it's a real event . This can only happen in situations where the lady is 110% dependent on the man. Rather than chastise him and make him pay for the abuse to the underaged sister, she sends her packing and bring a fresh one for him to abuse.

Ladies must hustle to be at least financially independent to an extent even after marriage to avoid this kind of situation.

The woman and her husband should be jailed for molestation.
I don't think people fully understand the psychological impact on the victims.These are young girls who don't know their right from left and you are sacrificing their wellbeing for what To stay married to an animal
Those girls have been destroyed for life!
Taking them back is not enough because that man must be stopped! He is a danger to everyone around him including his own daughters.

What he has done is unforgivable and she is colluding with him and even bringing another person for him to molest!
It cannot be well with such a person.Redeem yourself by reporting him to the authorities,take the children away.

The little girls need some help from mental health experts because their childhood has been ripped away from them very cruelly and they can never be the same.

There is no excuse for this.It is utterly repugnant.
Shame

thorpido:
Op,is this your case?
In what way have you developed yourself all these years?Do you have a source of income?Can you be financially independent?
If you say you want to take the kids,can you meet their needs financially?

No I Cant

firstladyp4:
No I Cant

Op, do you mean the case has died down without any action against your husband? Please don't tell me nothing had been done. What about your sisters?

You are a very wicked woman.

Most animals protect their own.

You know your husband is a child molester, but because of your selfishness (looking for a free baby sitter), you exposed your flesh and blood to the monster you call a husband.

And you have your own children. Don't worry, he will soon descend on your children, its inevitable. Only karma working.

Evil prevails when good men do nothing...Edmund Burke.
Nigerians stop aiding and abetting evil.

Op, you're a co conspirator and complicit in your husband's evil. You should rot in jail with your husband. You don't deserve to have children under your care, and your children will be better off without you and your husband as parents.
Destiny destroyers oshi...

firstladyp4:
No I Cant

I'm sure God must be regretting giving u kids .u can tell ur sorry excuse of a man he goat husband to start sleeping with his kids already and send that girl back .You are a weak,dull ,blood sucking animal .I wish you die already with that dog u call husband.

Acidosis:
God will first and foremost punish the wife before the husband.


She's completely ignorant, slow and dull.

Lol!

If it were a grown sister, then you wonder if it was consensual

13yrs and 14yrs?

eyinjuege:
You are a very wicked woman.

Most animals protect their own.

You know your husband is a child molester, but because of your selfishness (looking for a free baby sitter), you exposed your flesh and blood to the monster you call a husband.

And you have your own children. Don't worry, he will soon descend on your children, its inevitable. Only karma working.

Evil prevails when good men do nothing...Edmund Burke.
Nigerians stop aiding and abetting evil.

Op, you're a co conspirator and complicit in your husband's evil. You should rot in jail with your husband. You don't deserve to have children under your care, and your children will be better off without you and your husband as parents.
Destiny destroyers oshi...

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I agree

eyinjuege:
You are a very wicked woman.

Most animals protect their own.

You know your husband is a child molester, but because of your selfishness (looking for a free baby sitter), you exposed your flesh and blood to the monster you call a husband.

And you have your own children. Don't worry, he will soon descend on your children, its inevitable. Only karma working.


Evil prevails when good men do nothing...Edmund Burke.
Nigerians stop aiding and abetting evil.

Op, you're a co conspirator and complicit in your husband's evil. You should rot in jail with your husband. You don't deserve to have children under your care, and your children will be better off without you and your husband as parents.
Destiny destroyers oshi...

Myfreind Keep Quiet If U Dont Know What To Say.

eyinjuege:
You are a very wicked woman.

Most animals protect their own.

You know your husband is a child molester, but because of your selfishness (looking for a free baby sitter), you exposed your flesh and blood to the monster you call a husband.

And you have your own children. Don't worry, he will soon descend on your children, its inevitable. Only karma working.


Evil prevails when good men do nothing...Edmund Burke.
Nigerians stop aiding and abetting evil.

Op, you're a co conspirator and complicit in your husband's evil. You should rot in jail with your husband. You don't deserve to have children under your care, and your children will be better off without you and your husband as parents.
Destiny destroyers oshi...

Myfreind Keep Quiet If U Dont Know What To Say.

firstladyp4:
Myfreind Keep Quiet If U Dont Know What To Say. Myfreind Keep Quiet If U Dont Know What To Say.

You should be in jail.

Wickedness in high places.

Matt 10:36- A man's enemies will be the members of his own household.

You are the main enemy in the lives of your family members. No one is deceived by you playing the victim here

Wow...e don turn fight

firstladyp4:
No I Cant

So what are you doing now,Op?Are things just the same way it has always been with your husband still living his shameful life?

Please don't let him molest your family members again.He should go to jail for it.

sisisioge:
Wow...e don turn fight

No be fight o.
The truth is bitter, but humans always like to hear sweet talks, and have refused to face the darkness in themselves.
Whenever children are involved especially in cases of sexual assault, as a parent your heart just cannot take it, because animals like the couple in question live amongst us, work in the same environment as we do, go to the same places of worship, are in the same associations we are, yet have such darkness in them.
If they can do this to family members, you can imagine what they will do to the children of acquaintances and strangers like you and I.

The Op has admitted in response to other people's post that the person in question is her.

Its either the story is fabricated so she/he can evoke public sympathy and get people to donate money for her (scammer), or she's truly really her husband's p.imp supplying young children for his pedophillic desires. She don kukuma born an extra four as supply to meet up with his demands.

It is well.

eyinjuege:


No be fight o.
The truth is bitter, but humans always like to hear sweet talks, and have refused to face the darkness in themselves.
Whenever children are involved especially in cases of sexual assault, as a parent your heart just cannot take it, because animals like the couple in question live amongst us, work in the same environment as we do, go to the same places of worship, are in the same associations we are, yet have such darkness in them.
If they can do this to family members, you can imagine what they will do to the children of acquaintances and strangers like you and I.

The Op has admitted in response to other people's post that the person in question is her.

Its either the story is fabricated so she/he can evoke public sympathy and get people to donate money for her (scammer), or she's truly really her husband's love-vendor supplying young children for his pedophillic desires. She don kukuma born an extra four as supply to meet up with his demands.

Well, I agree with you. I find it odd too that she wonders what to do after the said husband had used two of her lil sis as jara. However, she was caught young with a feeble mind. I won't be entirely shocked if her mind still remains feeble and thus couldn't think about life without that SOB for bread's sakes! It is well.