Please I need your honest answers.. Cooking at home..should a wife ask the husband first what to prepare or she should just prepare any food she feel like and ask husband to come eat.. Which one is right?

Der is ntn bad if she prepare wat she feels her husband will like and der is ntn bad if she ask her husband too bt der a some special day she may just ask wat he feels like eating. Every tyn depend on love jare if d man never get another eyes for outside.

Nt married tho bt feel dat how it shld b

Ask him, cook it...all na food

Both are right.
None is wrong, but I think always asking him what to prepare might get 'annoying' and boring with time.

When I am short of ideas, I ask him _he might have a craving or something new he wants us to try out. When I want to cook bulk soup, I ask him too _ I wouldn't wanna stock something he won't like/get tired of soon. Other times, I go with what I know works for us...

See Kwesion? who drop the money for food? ...if its you, cook anything. If its him pls cook what he likes, If its shared still cook what he likes with missing ingredient.. u know na

you can ask (to spice up the relationship) but do not ask all the time it can bring quarrel when you asked him all the time feel free to cook what you feel like his not going to do you anything rather he will suggests the next food for you to cook if he doesn't like the one you gave him.

Either one is right, it is whatever works for your union. I am the cook and 90% of the time, I decide the menu but I try as much as possible to ensure variety. If I get a request for something in particular, I try to make it at the earliest, convenient, opportunity.

I used to ask all the time and we had countless quarrels on the issue! I felt it was my way of ensuring that whatever I cooked was what he felt like eating at that time especially since my favorite meals to cook were quite different from what he would typically like to eat!

The last time I asked and he shunned me/ started being grouchy I made up my mind never to ask. I just serve whatever pleases me and it's a take it or leave it policy I'm running at the moment....

Shikena

babythug:
I used to ask all the time and we had countless quarrels on the issue! I felt it was my way of ensuring that whatever I cooked was what he felt like eating at that time especially since my favorite meals to cook were quite different from what he would typically like to eat!

The last time I asked and he shunned me/ started being grouchy I made up my mind never to ask. I just serve whatever pleases me and it's a take it or leave it policy I'm running at the moment....

Shikena

Like really? You don't care? Wow

burticious:

Like really? You don't care? Wow

Well if something has caused repeated friction for over seven years one has to be drastic in sourcing a solution now! Abi?

I sha cent kee mysef

burticious:
Please I need your honest answers.. Cooking at home..should a wife ask the husband first what to prepare or she should just prepare any food she feel like and ask husband to come eat.. Which one is right?

Lol, so for 365 days in a year she should continue to ask you what you will eat morning, afternoon and evening? If she is a house wife maybe that will fly but for a working woman that will be unfair

I'm not married, just wise

sexymoma:
shebi na where money dey.. u go dey ask hubby what to cook
in some places
Wife: Im cooking beans will you eat?
Hubby: Nope
Wife: Shey you'll take cornflakes den abi we should prepare Quaker oat for you.
Hubby: ok
case closed.

In this case, money dey, food dey.. And also remember the craving are not the same.. What you cook might not be what he really wants to eat... And believe me, my prayer is to always eat what I like to eat every time and not to just eat what I see.. And if God has bless u to that stage of providing for that.. And reverse is happening what do you do

Also remember satisfying your man food and Sex craving are very important in marriage.. If you do well wit that two.. Probabilities of your man cheating on you will be minimum.. If he's not feeling your food and you re not giving him adequate Sex.. Then I'm sorry

burticious:

In this case, money dey, food dey.. And also remember the craving are not the same.. What you cook might not be what he really wants to eat... And believe me, my prayer is to always eat what I like to eat every time and not to just eat what I see.. And if God has bless u to that stage of providing for that.. And reverse is happening what do you do

if you are craving for a particular meal, give her money and tell her to prepare it.
as a matter of fact, there should be time table
so we gonna draft the time table together, your opinion, my opinion and everybody is fine.

I cook anything i want but sometimes he will be like i want abacha ehen or its bin long i ate ukwa
Or after making eba atimes he will be like i no wan chop eba o.i will jus make fries n quaker oats.case closed
But most times.i jus make what i want

Wat bout all those pot bellied men cheating on their wives. Y reduce men to puppets unable to adapt. Yuck

burticious:
Also remember satisfying your man food and Sex craving are very important in marriage.. If you do well wit that two.. Probabilities of your man cheating on you will be minimum.. If he's not feeling your food and you re not giving him adequate Sex.. Then I'm sorry

Gloriagee:
Wat bout all those pot bellied men cheating on their wives. Y reduce men to puppets unable to adapt. Yuck

lol pot bellies are not only full with food o ...

burticious:
Also remember satisfying your man food and Sex craving are very important in marriage.. If you do well wit that two.. Probabilities of your man cheating on you will be minimum.. If he's not feeling your food and you re not giving him adequate Sex.. Then I'm sorry

So if i don't ask him what he will eat= cheating
If i don't satisfy all his se xual fantasies = cheating
All of you go and hug transformer.
Sick of the constant cheating threats.
If you want to fork,fork and after forking please tell.me so.i can arrange my own fork as well.E don do for.this prick and cheating matter.No one cares!!

Its not a woman's job to prevent cheating,she's too busy building a future and investing for her children.

I think you guys will soon realise that divorce rates are multiplying cos women are sick of the burden of preserving marriages while you guys act like it's your right to do as you please while we run round like.headless chickens trying to make you people happy.

That era is coming to and end,.If you guys don't pull your weight in the marriage as well and it breaks down,so be it.No one is born to kill themselves over a man.

Can you imagine living with all these useless threats? All the women cheated on that cooked and forked like demons nko? Community prick.will always be community prick.

Personally,if i want to treat my man i could ask what he wants but on a good day,i cook whatever i like.If he's hankering for something special he has hands.

We are both in stressful jobs,no time to be doing prayer and supplication for food.

We love each other like that,when there's no food,we eat out or order food.Case solved.

Na wa o.. So people now marry because of kids.. Lol.. So if there is no kids nko.. No love? Your husband or your spouse should be the first priority in your marriage.. Unless you married for something else.. Satisfy your spouse always...

Una well done o. I will say God is the head of the family... Na him go provide wetin family go eat. Just wait unto the lord...hallelujah!

A wife must always ask the husband before she cooks. Its more or less like having an agreement on what to eat.

For some certain reasons e.g health though, the wife can cook and even force whatever is appropriate down her husband's throat.

Gloriagee:
Wat bout all those pot bellied men cheating on their wives. Y reduce men to puppets unable to adapt. Yuck

It will still be the wife's fault for giving him too much food, and for not pushing him to exercise.
Meanwhile, if she also portions his food and insists on healthy diets, she will drive him out to some other woman that can serve a meal with 4 pieces of cowleg, 3 of shaki/towel, 6 of pure beef, 2 of tendon and 3 bottles of chilled stout.

Hehehe

Damned if u do, damned if u don't.......

eyinjuege:


It will still be the wife's fault for giving him too much food, and for not pushing him to exercise.
Meanwhile, if she also portions his food and insists on healthy diets, she will drive him out to some other woman that can serve a meal with 4 pieces of cowleg, 3 of shaki/towel, 6 of pure beef, 2 of tendon and 3 bottles of chilled stout.

Hehe

babythug:
I used to ask all the time and we had countless quarrels on the issue! I felt it was my way of ensuring that whatever I cooked was what he felt like eating at that time especially since my favorite meals to cook were quite different from what he would typically like to eat!

The last time I asked and he shunned me/ started being grouchy I made up my mind never to ask. I just serve whatever pleases me and it's a take it or leave it policy I'm running at the moment....

Shikena

You should know his likes and what not, and if you live i don't care life i percive a problem coming your way.

Pidgin2:


Lol, so for 365 days in a year she should continue to ask you what you will eat morning, afternoon and evening? If she is a house wife maybe that will fly but for a working woman that will be unfair

I'm not married, just wise

Befor 365 days you should know his likes and likewise him.

She should ask him what is his interest for the meal.