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Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Adiwana: 9:19pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
goingape1:Ya.It's as simple as that. |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by kov624665(m): 9:20pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
The mistake you made is that you think a marriage decision is only made by the guy and the girl. I've you thought it out if this girl would marry you if she ain't got a child? She must have seen the mugun in you that you can marry "after-one" 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Flintstone06(m): 9:21pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
olaszydaruma: Haha! Na she go tell you time... She dey control you kwa |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by makay200(m): 9:27pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
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Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by hollamat(m): 9:37pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
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Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Moving4: 9:45pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Go ahead & marry her after all its ur Decision nt theirs |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Qriousity(m): 9:52pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
goingape1:sin is sin, wrongdoing is wrongdoin. |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 9:59pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
suzan404:Pain of a single mum.,..na joke I dey o...but seriously if that guy is Yoruba and he go ahead with his plan...he will regret it. |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 10:00pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Qriousity:and The wages of sin is death? Different sin have different repercussion |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:12pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
TINALETC3:You right...families don't welcome a wife that's a single mum only if the man is a single Dad too |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:14pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Harun111:Just know that you are her second love...bro... her child comes first...think welll before you move on idiot...so many single mum can love you till death when they are facing challenges to be in love |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by chiraqDemon(m): 10:17pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
kunlesufyan:Its not about his parents Its about him Parents have had their own fun and still want to block somebody I wouldnt care My business is to endorse whoever my child brings home Long as he or she is of character that my child is ok with Its this same kind of parents that will keave their house and go and be causing trouble in their child's house 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:17pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
MayowaAleem:Them no born am well to follow his mind...we go beat the hell outa him...we warning him already before now. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:19pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
cutediva87:Dem no born him well to marry her...person wey don start dey bleep since 15...you don't know us in our family...you can come over and help him beg naa... |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:22pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Cutehector:Come na... |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:23pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Kakamorufu:Whatever...we don't want that bitch in our house |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:27pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
JerryTemi:Bitch....we already knew the girl got a kid...my brother will be her second love and not first becos her child will always come first....continue to give a dead advise to mislead him....we are waiting for him here...you can follow him up to cook the lies very well though |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:28pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Qriousity:Come and tie them together naa...the girl know say we get character for our house so she go feel the warmth weather |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:30pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
goingape1:Don't mind them...when they started bleeping without condom and future they don't know there will be tomorrow....assholes...everywhere...that lady fit don born 2 to different man |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:32pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Sunnytega:She only had a child...yes...she did...at age 15...kilode... they swear for her toto ni...we don't drink boredhole in our family 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 10:32pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Taryur3:you go know them by there comments! |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:33pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Sunnytega:No but because she started bleeping at 15 |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 10:37pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
silverspringle:Good luck ko...Jonathan ni...we don't want that bitch...she started bleeping at 15...do you know how many abortions she might have vomited since then till now...you blowing one nonsense advise...face your front and never come here |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by ststyreal(f): 10:38pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
tosyne2much:My friend, you have a good point but the truth remains that he (op), loves the girl so much from what I can deduce from his write up and in turn the girl loves him too, so why will he allow his parents to decide or determine who he shares his life with. The issue of marriage is first about your happiness and secondly, you can consider your family. If I tell you my story of how my husband's siblings including his mother, ganged up to beat me up during my courtship period, you would think I would never smell their community again let alone getting married to him today. The young girl is innocent, in the sense that she have not offended them in any way except for having a child, if they are without sin, let them be the first to cast a stone at her. Family people always widen their nose when it comes to their son getting married, always looking for faults to castigate the lady even when there is no need for it. My husbands family were against me for no just cause but when they saw that their son really loves me, and me self come dey show my husband better love make dem for vex tire, today the story has changed. I didn't hold all that their evil plots against me then to heart after we got married, rather I proved them wrong by respecting them all, embraced the kitchen like cooking and assisting anyone of them in the kitchen. Your wife should just be good. Be sure that she possesses good character because that is the basis of marriage not beauty and most importantly, prayers!. Prayer works wonders during my time of trials with my in-laws. God turned their hatred towards me to love. Today, the whole village knows that my mother in law loves me. Today, my sister in laws call to tell me their challenges and seek for my advice or opinion even when they are far far older than I am, this is what prayers can do and above all, pray that the will of God be done. |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by dominique(f): 10:50pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
goingape1: So because she made a mistake at a young age, she's supposed to pay for it for the rest of her life? Useless men everywhere, taking advantage of and impregnating young girls and denying responsibility. Had the useless baby daddy risen to his responsibility, will the op be proposing to her? It takes a real man to love a woman with all her baggage and op is one. |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by ststyreal(f): 10:51pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Taryur3:Mr saint and righteous man, hope you have not bleep any girl since you were born, if not, as you are pointing a finger at this girl, check, the remaining four fingers are pointing back at you. Smhhhhh |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by goingape1: 10:55pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
dominique:if your mother is a single mum and your dad got married to her then I take ya dad as a real man! 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Kakamorufu(m): 10:58pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Taryur3:wait. Are u the brother who went snitching |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by Taryur3(m): 11:00pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
ststyreal:One single mum sighted and disturbing here....we bleep with care and not under age...at 15.? Nooo....we just don't ant her....child's ove is the first she will considered before thinking of my bro |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 11:00pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
ststyreal:Wooooow¡¡¡ what a good testimony 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by tosyne2much(m): 11:04pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
dominique:That is to say that the past sometimes haunts one in the future even if has been thrown to the bin Thats just the kind of society we find ourselves and nothing can change it. A society where people dig up your past just to deprive you of your progress |
Re: I Love My Girlfriend But My Family Don't Want Us To Marry. by TheeDetective: 11:05pm On Mar 24, 2017 |
Not playing the blame game o, but at 15 years old she already has a child, that means that she probably was 14 when she got pregnant which is a very young age to be a mum. At that age, one would expect her to be concentrating on her school work and not having a baby. That said, she’s 22 now which means the child is about 7 years old. The question is can you accept that you have a 7 years old step child? When you eventually have your own first child with her, how would you feel? It's understandable if you already had a child as well but for your case, you never get pikin yet o and you think its child’s play to suddenly become a father to a step child? No offence o, but e go hard small, so make you pay careful attention to wetin your family wan talk for this matter o. No let anybody deceive you say go ahead and marry her it's all in the past so nothing happen o, cos when everything blow, dem no go der there with you o. 1 Like |
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