No sane human being goes into a marriage with the plan of quitting after a few years down the line, but we found out that so many marriages actually crash after a few years. I have listed here a few signs to watch out for which if not checked can lead or contribute largely to a marriage crash

* Dishonesty : if you cannot be trusted to tell the truth most of the time by your partner. You are guaranteed that your marriage is heading for the rocks.

* Waiting For Your Partner To Initiate Sex :
Sex should not always be a one way traffic thing, if you allow it in your marriage, it becomes more of a duty on the part of the "initiator" rather than fun which should be enjoyed by both of you. This can lead to infidelity, so you need to watch it.

* Trying to avoid fights with your partner:
You are not doing your marriage any good when you try to avoid quarrels, fight or arguments in your marriage, you are actually storing things up for a future harvest which may snowball into divorce.
It is important to let your spouse know your mind on every thing you are not comfortable with even if it degenerates into shouts and arguments. In most cases your partner will understand you, even if he/she does not agree with you, as your marriage matures you will find more matured ways to pass across your messages.

*Bad Relationship with In-laws :
In some tribes, when you marry from their family,you must have it in mind that you are marrying the entire family, if you want to have a long lasting marriage you must strive to maintain good relationship with your in-laws. They can make or Mar a marriage if you try to neglect them, some in-laws can be very troublesome and they don't mind the consequences.

http://www.panumo.com/2017/03/four-signs-that-your-marriage-will-not.html

Thinking more of yourself first before ur partner is another reason. 70% self 30% partnering is really bad. It influences a lot of things ranging from your readiness to communicate to reactions to spouses action etc. It should actually be the other way round 30% self 70% my partner.

There is no rule that serves all parties in marriage. What might work for a couple might be disastrous if another couple tried it out. Same goes for your list. Always remember, there is no black or white in marriage, at best seek for the grey areas.

May God punish troublesome bastard inlaws

There are no rules or signs to ensure a lasting marriage. All that you mentioned can be seen in some marriages yet it will last as long as both couples are alive.

Marriage no get rules cos we humans are different & complicated.

you will become an inlaw one day oh

MsJackson:
May God punish troublesome bastard inlaws

MsJackson:
May God punish troublesome bastard inlaws

hmmm...it is obvious u will make a troublesome inlaw...