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Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 8:33am On Apr 06
#copied....(few editing)...

We need daughters, sisters and wives who are passionate students of knowledge, i want to have a daughter and wife who in my weakness i can rely on their understanding of the Deen... Our generation is almost Barren of this kind of females... Unfortunately our brothers are not telling these sisters about how decayed and degenerated their situation is,... they rather sell to the sisters matters of romance, wearing jilbaab and looking for ideal husbands as though Islam starts and ends with it... What about having sisters in the fields of Arabic, Tajweed,Qira'aat, Hadeeth, Usool al fiqh amongst others. .... THE MATTER TIRE ME.

Whenever a sister asks me about issues relating to themselves such as Hayd and so on, i don't answer because i am suppose to be asking her... Ukhti, I have never menstruated mehn, I am shy to answer such questions...

CAN WE PLEASE VIEW THIS AS A MATTER THAT NEEDS URGENCY? BECAUSE I AM SCARED

This life is not all about falling in love and spending money... The only narrations you know is about how the prophet drank from the same spot His wife drank from, or the prophet was the romantic husband...how the prophet helped with chores and so on.

We need our Sisters to stop been petty... You have stronger potentials than the brothers especially in these times when we are most busy pursuing the dollar.

BaarakaLlaahu feekunna...

#patiently_waiting_for_bashing

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 8:43am On Apr 06
I agree. Men can also read on issues related to women and vice versa.
Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 8:53am On Apr 06
snapscore:
I agree.

Na'am, the children will benefit a lot from it because they stay with their moms more than they stay with their dads...

Men can also read on issues related to women and vice versa.

We will have to read libraries upon libraries niyen...

#joking..

Expatiate on what you mean...
Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 9:04am On Apr 06
AbdelKabir:


Na'am, the children will benefit a lot from it because they stay with their moms more than they stay with their dads.

Yes! Which is why it's important



We will have to read libraries upon libraries niyen...

#joking..

Expatiate on what you mean...

That is what I mean. Like its important to study issues related to both genders. I am mentioning this because of the example you gave.
Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 9:05am On Apr 06
^^

Typing with my phone again.
Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 9:09am On Apr 06
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Yes! Which is why it's important





That is what I mean. Like its important to study issues related to both genders. I am mentioning this because of the example you gave.

OK....baarakaLlaahu feeki
Re: Sisters Come In..... by carinmom(f): 9:28am On Apr 06
Your observation is right, it's really painful, but then the blame should not be entirely heaped on the sisters as our fathers and husbands should also get their portion of the blame.

One of my friends once observed that if we apply thesame kind of vigour and zeal in the pursuit of matters partaining to the deen as we do to western education, we would all have become ulamas in various fields of Islamic knowledge.

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 9:35am On Apr 06
carinmom:
Your observation is right, it's really painful, but then the blame should not be entirely heaped on the sisters as our fathers and husbands should also get their portion of the blame.

Na'am I agree.....fathers and husbands should be blamed and it was mentioned in the op{not explicitly).

One of my friends once observed that if we apply thesame kind of vigour and zeal in the pursuit of matters partaining to the deen as we do to western education, we would all have become ulamas in various fields of Islamic knowledge.

That's nothing but the truth.....8+6+4=18....18 years in learning the deen, you would be at least a big student of knowledge.... And that's for those that won't go for masters and PhD..

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 9:49am On Apr 06
carinmom:

One of my friends once observed that if we apply thesame kind of vigour and zeal in the pursuit of matters partaining to the deen as we do to western education, we would all have become ulamas in various fields of Islamic knowledge.

Strongly agree!!

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by khaifa(f): 12:33am On Apr 12
The writer was really on point, buh if you grow up in certain regions of d country, it takes extra determination to learn more in the field of Arabic.

Take it or leave it if you can't seek to acquire such knowledge before marriage, it becomes very difficult after marriage.....


[quote author=carinmom post=55311198]Your observation is right, it's really painful, but then the blame should not be entirely heaped on the sisters as our fathers and husbands should also get their portion of the blame.

I totally agree with this point.... but also I think we need show more interest in learning and also our brothers should also be ready to tutor us.( am no 1 on the list undecided lipsrsealed) Allah help us to......

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 5:35am On Apr 12
khaifa:
The writer was really on point, buh if you grow up in certain regions of d country, it takes extra determination to learn more in the field of Arabic.

The criterion has always been determination, no one gets it easy, you struggle for it, some grew up in saudi but still don't know the classical Arabic (language of the Quran), except the one they learnt by heart, not everyone has the stomach for memorizing rules, reviewing them every now and then in order not to forget, reading volumes of books applying what you've learnt and so on.....DETERMINATION HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE KEY NOT LOCATION.

Take it or leave it if you can't seek to acquire such knowledge before marriage, it becomes very difficult after marriage.....

When has knowledge ever been easy to acquire?

totally agree with this point.... but also I think we need show more interest in learning and also our brothers should also be ready to tutor us.( am no 1 on the list ) Allah help us to......


We are always ready grin you just need to meet the right person who fears Allaah....
Re: Sisters Come In..... by khaifa(f): 11:23am On Apr 12
AbdelKabir:


The criterion has always been determination, no one gets it easy, you struggle for it, some grew up in saudi but still don't know the classical Arabic (language of the Quran), except the one they learnt by heart, not everyone has the stomach for memorizing rules, reviewing them every now and then in order not to forget, reading volumes of books applying what you've learnt and so on.....DETERMINATION HAS ALWAYS BEEN THE KEY NOT LOCATION.



When has knowledge ever been easy to acquire?



We are always ready grin you just need to meet the right person who fears Allaah....

You are right bro, Dats why I said EXTRA DETERMINATION. It has never been easy but I also believe that everything can be made possible by the will of Allah especially if one really has d intention.
My mum made sure we learnt how to recite d Qur'an buh we just read without any knowledge about tajweed, dis my husband started teaching me when we got married but believe me it's not been that easy. But this my younger sister was able to learn during her university days.... may Allah forgive our shortcomings oooh! Ameen wink

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 11:55am On Apr 12
khaifa:


You are right bro, Dats why I said EXTRA DETERMINATION. It has never been easy but I also believe that everything can be made possible by the will of Allah especially if one really has d intention.
My mum made sure we learnt how to recite d Qur'an buh we just read without any knowledge about tajweed, dis my husband started teaching me when we got married but believe me it's not been that easy. But this my younger sister was able to learn during her university days.... may Allah forgive our shortcomings oooh! Ameen wink

Yoruba kind of reading ba?
Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 1:46pm On Apr 12
@khaifa

I completely agree with you! It becomes harder when you get married. I don't know how some people do it. When I was much younger, had time and the chance I wasnt intersted. Now I am like.... how do I seek knowledge? Where do I start from? Do I focus on Tajweed or Quran memorization. How do I learn about the hadiths? I will like to go to an actual university but a ones I found require Arabic.
Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 2:21pm On Apr 12
I think location also plays a role. Its easier to learn in certain places than others but determination is a key factor.

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by Alennsar: 10:09pm On Apr 12
snapscore:
I think location also plays a role. Its easier to learn in certain places than others but determination is a key factor.

well you're right I started my own Arabic class after my secondary school cos m always alone when others left for Arabic class and thank God for my husband cos after d walimot I stopped everything until I got married.

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by zealot4me(f): 8:33am On Apr 15
snapscore:
I think location also plays a role. Its easier to learn in certain places than others but determination is a key factor.




Nop I don't think location has got anything to do with learning, u can learn in a hole as long u have the ryt resources and ur mind is set to do it.
Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 3:42pm On Apr 15
^ I lean to that...
Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 3:44pm On Apr 15
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Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 7:29am On Apr 19
Saarah Al-Kasraan read to her husband Hammad ibn `Ateeq the entirety of Soorat Al-Baqarah from her memory on the first night of their marriage. (Taken from "`Ulamaa Najdi" by Al-Bassaam)....

I pray Abuhammaad son(Hammad) be lucky as Hammad ibn 'Ateeq grin cheesy

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 1:00pm On Apr 19
Salam alaykum,

I guess I can ask my question here since there are sisters here and its more likely the sisters here would have answers than brothers. Are there any educative and family friendly cartoons you know about? Usually I would ask for series but I guess a movie can work too. I want something educative so that at the end of it, I can draw/teach a lesson or moral.

A lot of the ones I see on TV have a lot of negative message it passes it coupled with magic and things which I don't like.
Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 1:13pm On Apr 19
I dont remember when last i watched cartoons, watching cartoons after being a kid is a girlie thing *I think*.....No idea...


Cc: Carinmom, zarinaain might be able to help.......

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 1:17pm On Apr 19
AbdelKabir:
I dont remember when last i watched cartoons, watching cartoons after being a kid is a girlie thing *I think*.....No idea...

Do you think cartoon won't work for boys then? What else might you suggest?
Re: Sisters Come In..... by FriendNG: 1:19pm On Apr 19
snapscore:
Salam alaykum,

I guess I can ask my question here since there are sisters here and its more likely the sisters here would have answers than brothers. Are there any educative and family friendly cartoons you know about? Usually I would ask for series but I guess a movie can work too. I want something educative so that at the end of it, I can draw/teach a lesson or moral.

A lot of the ones I see on TV have a lot of negative message it passes it coupled with magic and things which I don't like.

Opps. Arewa24 done stop the show. It is a historic religious cartoon, it is not that long and I enjoyed it.
Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 1:23pm On Apr 19
snapscore:


Do you think cartoon won't work for boys then? What else might you suggest?

Cartoon will work for boys until they get to their age of adolescence....

Although I don't deny some boys will still watch it even after age of adolescence, but its rare....
Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 1:46pm On Apr 19
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Did a Google search for you and you might want to see this http://topislamic.com/5-islamic-cartoons-free/
Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 1:52pm On Apr 19
AbdelKabir:


Did a Google search for you and you might want to see this http://topislamic.com/5-islamic-cartoons-free/

Jazakallahu Khyran. I will go through the website.

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbdelKabir: 1:55pm On Apr 19
snapscore:


Jazakallahu Khyran. I will go through the website.


After you've done that....tell us if it was beneficial...
Re: Sisters Come In..... by Nobody: 2:07pm On Apr 19
AbdelKabir:


After you've done that....tell us if it was beneficial...

3 out of the 5 weren't working and the other 2 wasn't a very good quality (but I can search for it online). The Conquest of Constantinople looks interesting.
Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbuHammaad: 2:31pm On Apr 19
AbdelKabir:
Saarah Al-Kasraan read to her husband Hammad ibn `Ateeq the entirety of Soorat Al-Baqarah from her memory on the first night of their marriage. (Taken from "`Ulamaa Najdi" by Al-Bassaam)....

I pray Abuhammaad son(Hammad) be lucky as Hammad ibn 'Ateeq grin cheesy

Aaamiiin grin Baarakallahu feekum

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Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbuHammaad: 2:32pm On Apr 19
There are so many Islamic cartoons @snapscore but most of them are in Arabic. I have some audio ones as well but you need someone to translate for them.
Re: Sisters Come In..... by AbuHammaad: 2:37pm On Apr 19
You can find the videos on this Muslimgurl channel


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UffB3_-Gogg

I used to have all the videos but I had to delete them because they took so much space so I only have audio now

I was using them to improve my Arabic back then. It starts from 01- Adab az ziyarah to 28- Huquq Al wãlidayn

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