With mammoth delectation i want to know why most married women 4get how they use to play with their husband before marriage, before marriage they do a lot of kisses, romance and sex, there is never a dull moment, their head is always on the laps or chest of the husband, but after marriage they don't do that any more, 95% of their attentions now goes to the kids, the only attention they give to their husbands are, welcome, what will you eat and goodnight let me feed the baby. After much statistics i found out that this singular behavior of women is one of the most contributing factor why most married men go out to date girls outside their marriage, just to get better satisfaction and romance. please tell me what's your own view on this matter.

Im getting a sense of deja vous with this topic. Anyhoo, maybe if the man shares house duties and the upkeep of the kids with the wife, they can discover a new kind of non-sexual duty together. In Nigeria, taking care of the kids, cleaning the house, cooking etc is all done by the wife, please tell me, when will she have the energy and time to play house and romance with your lazy arse? Another prehistoric, archaic reason for trifling Nugors to cheat.

Men are natural predators.

stop blaming women

Just another man trying to justify his weak cheatin sorry self.

Have u asked yourself "what your role is as a father?" Or u think parenting is all about sex & producing children?

Have you worked full-time, had two or three young children and done housework with no househelp? What energy will you have? Try helping more, or getting a house help or cleaning agency, whatever works. It's your home and as the head of the family it's yours to handle.

@poster

I dont think you are completely right, but I think its the men's fault that women are like that, we hold on to ego and pride and male machismo as the head of the house while the women slave away 24/7

Try helping your wife with the chores (yeah I know you got to swallow that pride), remind her how much you value her and take her out like you used to (with the kids) and finally help her with the kids and before you know it you will buckin in the bed like bunnies as you used to.

If that doesnt work feel free to sue me

Women are helpers, if you are lazy and she is doing all the work them be rest assured at night you are on your own

yes, some women do often neglect their "romance" after having a kid. their priorities change and their child become their utmost priority. which is very  understandable, chasing a toddler around, housework and stress is enough to stop the romance machine engine, however, am of the believe that a woman should at least try not forget her friend, and first love, her husband and his needs too.  its very doable.

~Sissy~:

yes, some women do often neglect their "romance" after having a kid. their priorities change and their child become their utmost priority. which is very understandable, chasing a toddler around, housework and stress is enough to stop the romance machine engine, however, am of the believe that a woman should at least try not forget her friend, and first love, her husband and his needs too. its very doable.

good point sissy, but the fact that he is her husband does not mean he is her first love

The fact that you called it a duty is the reason why you will probably still be jacking off tonight. That is what Nigerian men want. Maybe you should try fixing your own dinner every once in a while. A man that is useful around the house is like pre-intimacy for a woman 24/7. You will get more attention if you do that than wait for her to care for you like she cares for the baby while you sit of the couch scratching your nuts and waiting for your stout.

!amebo no1:




good point Sissy, but the fact that he is her husband does not mean he is her first love

Okkie maybe not their "first love" per se but the person they fall/were in love with before kids came

Women na wa ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

Almost all of u talking here are saying the men do not help u!!!!

CAn u say it to his face??

With mammoth delectation i want to know why most married women 4get how they use to play with their husband before marriage, before marriage they do a lot of kisses, romance and sex, there is never a dull moment, their head is always on the laps or chest of the husband,

the reason is that most woman do that because they wont the married the man, that is why they can do any things at that time in order for them get married

men shine ur eye

no idea so nothng to say