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Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by flipflop(f): 5:36pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Good day all, this question has been on mind for a while. "should intending couples who are getting set to marry each other pool their resources i. e money together in order to meet the expenses for the wedding and marriage" Note that the ratio of contribution is such that the man contributes more e. g 60:40 - man:woman Matured madams and sirs, pls what is your take on this? Thanks |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by dingbang(m): 5:40pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Its advisable 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by Nobody: 5:46pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
I don't get the question here? Is one person supposed to die of expenses because he/she is getting married to the other? They should pull resources together, that's COMMON SENSE 101. 'but, don't give your man money for your own bride price. That's if you're from one of those 'obtaining' cultures. Instead beat it down to what he can afford. ^^^my opinion. 6 Likes |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by ifyalways(f): 7:31pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
Save together in same account? Unless it's a joint account and both partners are signatory. With the kind yahoooze proposals everywhere, only a fool will go save money in another's account all just to answer Mrs or Mr. 5 Likes |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by Blissquare(f): 9:06pm On Apr 16, 2017 |
It's usually a trick by d man. The suggestion always comes from certain kind of men. If the family is involved in d wedding, it is always a scam by d man. If the family is not involved, then it is allowed. For instance, if d couple wild be d ones to pay for the venue, musician, invitation...etc then they hav to save together. Saving together for ring or clothes or bride price or cake is a strategy for men to share their responsibility. U wild end up saving together for rent and sch fees. I suggest each partner to pick what aspect they want to handle according to each' budget. |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by Sleekyshuga(f): 12:38am On Apr 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:Women dey give men money for brideprice or you just wanted to be funny? A man that cannot afford brideprice (that's the cheapest), na wedding him wan do ? 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by I888(m): 1:28am On Apr 17, 2017 |
Sleekyshuga:ever heard of desperado? U never jam. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by Acidosis(m): 6:37am On Apr 17, 2017 |
Who raised the idea? |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by Nobody: 9:48am On Apr 17, 2017 |
Sleekyshuga:Babe which can question be this na? It happens steady o 1 Like |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by Sleekyshuga(f): 11:22am On Apr 17, 2017 |
PaperLace:I was serious. I know women sponsor weddings, even go as far as giving the man the money to play the role of bringing it out from his pocket all because of desperation (maybe, age catching up with her/them) but paying HER own brideprice (wey no be India we dey) sounded funny.. Issokay!! |
Re: Is It Ideal For Fiance And Fiancee To Save Together In Preparation For Wedding by Nobody: 12:40pm On Apr 17, 2017 |
instead of that why don't you take on different expenses. Like shared expenses. You pay for the cake, cathering, your dress, while he pays for the hall, decor, drinks etc etc. Besides, if you're going to be a couple, you both should have sort out financial responsibilities. So what applies for couple A might not apply to Couple B. 4 Likes 1 Share |
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