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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Mac2016(m): 2:24pm On May 17, 2017
VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. undecided
Love is a seed just work on your relationship you might love her so much later. and tell her every morning that you love her, buy her the type of dresses u like and make love to her always and make her your best friend as well...the love will spring up. I know ur problem and thats the change of location u have lived on distant relationship but now ure close..that change of location alone can make u contemptuous of ur partner but with time and steps outlaid earlier, u will overcome

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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 2:24pm On May 17, 2017
the guy that was duped by fake husspuppi has been receiving money from people ...they pitied him

Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 2:25pm On May 17, 2017
It's no problem at all because love is not what is needed to make any relationship work.

For instance, I would want a tall, intelligent, witty, respectful and hardworking man when I am ready to settle down. So long as he falls into that category I can live with him forever, I don't believe in 'love' only personal interests.

Go out there and be crazy all you want but If I were you, I'd want to come home to the person who can give me peace and quiet. So, forget love and start being logical.

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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by ElsonMorali: 2:25pm On May 17, 2017
VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. undecided

Obviously you aren't telling us the whole story.

What is it about her that you don't like? Or maybe you have a south african side chick with ass the size of Olumo rock and hips jutting out like...(you-know-what)

Whatever the problem is I'd suggest you find reasons to love her. If you cant find any, manufacture some.

The goal? To love your wife till death do you part.

Oh btw, love is not a mushy mushy kind of feeling. That is lust. Love is a conscious and definite choice you make when you decide that you'll be with someone for the rest of their lives "for better for worse, for richer for poorer..." I'm sure you'll recognize that phrase.

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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by nairaman66(m): 2:26pm On May 17, 2017
VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. undecided

Dude you are an ingrate!! Everyone is looking to find a woman like her and you are here rambling! You need slap to reset your brains!! If you ever let this woman go, I swear you will be a lonely man the rest of your days!!

By the way, just send me her number I want to advice her.. grin

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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Amberon: 2:26pm On May 17, 2017
Siyabonga
StephDamielola:


Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda..... grin grin grin
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by SteveTyla(m): 2:27pm On May 17, 2017
VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. undecided
If you opt for divorce you might never find anyone as good as her..wise the f up!!!.
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Benwems(m): 2:27pm On May 17, 2017
VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. undecided
you don go fvck another kitten, come hear dey talk non sense. . Gerrara hia mehn. Irresponsible man.

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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 2:28pm On May 17, 2017
VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. undecided
NONSENSE...
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Timbuktuo: 2:28pm On May 17, 2017
VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. undecided

God will punish you if you hurt that poor girl.

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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by geekybabe(f): 2:29pm On May 17, 2017
VicMadich88:
I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. undecided

You have apparently been having fun with other ladies. Sha dont go and infect d poor babe with HIV. Most SA girls with their big yansh and viral load.


If you still wanna keep your marriage, Relocate that babe bros. Find a way for you guys to be together.
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by xtivin(m): 2:30pm On May 17, 2017
There is no alternative for you, You must find a way to love her by force, Learn to love her that's all.
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by intruxive(m): 2:30pm On May 17, 2017
Thats the problem with distance in a relationship. You have to try and make it work now, cos u r married. Get close to her and you will fall in love once again
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by seyiseyi11: 2:30pm On May 17, 2017
He no betta. For person way dey do this guy
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by iamnicer: 2:31pm On May 17, 2017
StephDamielola:
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti undecided undecided undecided undecided


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts


BABE YOU SO RIGHT
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by sexy74(m): 2:32pm On May 17, 2017
[quote author=VicMadich88 post=56598417]I met my wife (very beautiful, humble Igbo gal) in 2012, and we've been datin since then. We both from Imo State...

On tht same year we met, I moved to south Africa to study an still residing in SA. I see her twice a year, and she visits SA as well. We got married ths past February, and few days after our wedding, I had to return.

But now I feel I made a very big mistake by marrying her, not because she's bad for me bt because I've realized I'm not in love with her anymore. I don't know wat to do, she's such a wonderful lady. God fearing, sings in the church choir, young and beautiful.

How should I let her know that i'm not in love with her anymore? I'm scared of the embarrassment my parents will bare with all of this? Our pastor at church? Her family? I don't believe in divorce, so are my parents...but what do I do in this situation?. undecided[/quote
her picture or i dont believe it.
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by hoseao(m): 2:32pm On May 17, 2017
StephDamielola:
I just pity for that Virtious Woman.... Truly you don't deserve her type.

You deserve those SA girls with big hips that drinks mungwongoti undecided undecided undecided undecided


Truth be told, you are seeing another Woman. YOu are just looking for excuses to justify your crazy thoughts
u nailed it wow
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 2:33pm On May 17, 2017
StephDamielola:


It means "I love you"

And yes, when they want to climax, they scream NAKUPENDA cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by 9jatatafo(m): 2:33pm On May 17, 2017
OP is straffing one SA big hips
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by jnrbayano(m): 2:34pm On May 17, 2017
torqque7:


LOL your comments have been making me laugh..you are an interesting lady..by the way what does nakupenda mean?is that what Southafricans say when they are climaxing?

Nakumpenda.

I love you

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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Elle277(f): 2:36pm On May 17, 2017
What are your reasons?, please share the reason behind your sudden decline of love towards her,,or is this a fake story?
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by holluphemydavid(m): 2:37pm On May 17, 2017
there is fire on the mountain
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by andyanders: 2:37pm On May 17, 2017
You are just a disgrace to man as a being. Why must you feel this way if you are not into relationship with someone else? Maybe you have been fvcking those ones that gives you mouth action hence your stupid action. How will you feel if someone does same to your child in life?
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by jnrbayano(m): 2:38pm On May 17, 2017
StephDamielola:


Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda..... grin grin grin

Nakupenda.

Just recalled Brenda Fassie's Nakupenda song
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Oju4190: 2:38pm On May 17, 2017
My broda na wa for u ooo...... Na wa for u ooooo
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by agrovick(m): 2:39pm On May 17, 2017
Nawa o
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by doyinbaby(f): 2:40pm On May 17, 2017
sEGXY2:

Actually its a two way thing. Good people generally are taken for granted especially by people who you hold in high esteem. The surprising thing I'm yet to fathom is why bad boys are irresistible to good girls and vice versa.

There was this smart girl I had a massive crush on years back, extremely pretty and intelligent yet the guy she was dating was opposite of her, ugly and dull but he had the bad boy vibes. She had an accident while coming back from his place after they quarrelled badly, I was with her throughout her stay in the hospital meanwhile her boyfriend didn't even show up. her family even thought I was dating her, considering the way I was running errands like her slave. She even told me she'd consider dating me when she gets well, I was happy inside my mind. you won't believe few weeks after she became alright she and this dude hooked up again, I just gave up on her.
she never loved you

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Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by MSN1(m): 2:41pm On May 17, 2017
Ookk..seen undecidedOokk..seen
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by sixtusn: 2:42pm On May 17, 2017
Bros, no other wife any where for u. She is your wife. Any other one u think u love is just lusting. Don't do anything u will end up regretting in life. There is a house and there is a home. There is a woman and there is a wife. The choice is urs but don't just destroy ur destiny for lust. Pray seriously and see urself liberated.
Re: Not In Love With My Wife Anymore! by Nobody: 2:42pm On May 17, 2017
StephDamielola:


Distance is also part of the problem. Lets tell the truth, this Partners need sex and more closeness. Sex isn't only for procreation, it helps to solve problems, to ease tensions and to renew the bond between two lovers.

I believe the SA girl from Kwazulu Natal have been giving him head and he is busy screaming Nakupenda..... grin grin grin
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