Shinatu:

In addition to some good points that some guys/gals have mentioned, I believe women change after marriage and I think the society is to be blamed for this.

In this part of the world the society is more tolerant towards men so that the man can have the worst character ever [/b]and will still be able to get a woman to marry because the woman is expected to live with the character, whereas there is a  long list of what a marriagable lady should be like, I call it the 'superwoman list', so the woman, in this society where marriage is the ultimate has to allign with this list or nothing for her.

[b]I tell you, no human being can be the 'superwoman' for life!

ruemu:

YES we all change.
like a poster rightly said ,  women tot men will change after marriage,  they rarely change, men wish the wife never change but she does.

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Again here is a line my married friend drop with me,  while we discuss some of the marital issues i see them leave with,

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Once you're hooked(married) to a WOMAN you're f    uc k ed for LIFE watever & however u see f   ck ed ,  go figure,

@ poster, So u got to learn a new way to live,  if u think u'll get it right by your old ways,  u'll get fustrated until u wake up, 
my 1cent

Food for thought.

daberechim:

Shinatu

I disagree with you. If you are a christain the bible made it clear that a woman should be submissive to the husband. the list you are talking about is an insurance for the man and all around him.

no man want a nagging wife, troublesome woman, disrespectful woman, non domestic woman even when you have all the money, non caring woman, insincere woman, unreliable woman, beautiful woman though it lies in the eyes of the beholder, inpatient woman, when it is good alone woman, the man is Good woman, etc.

daberechim:

Shinatu

I disagree with you. If you are a christain the bible made it clear that a woman should be submissive to the husband. the list you are talking about is an insurance for the man and all around him.

no man want a nagging wife, troublesome woman, disrespectful woman, non domestic woman even when you have all the money, non caring woman, insincere woman, unreliable woman, beautiful woman though it lies in the eyes of the beholder, inpatient woman, when it is good alone woman, the man is Good woman, etc.

felifeli:

Thank you. As a matter of fact I know of a gentleman who has been so badly mistreated by his wife that all he ever hears from her from morning till night was -"You are a useless man" just because the man did not earn enough.
It was so bad that on one occasion the man went for a job interview and when the interviewer asked him - what is your name., what came out of his mouth was " I am a useless man"
Guess who didn't get the job. Many men's life are completely ruined by marriage . If you don't love the woman enough to beat her up her once in a while you will die a miserable man. I know what many will say about wife beating after this post; but nobody ever says anything about husband beating because the man is often ashamed to say it to the world. Good luck with your marriage mate.