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Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by angelila: 10:28am On Jan 25, 2010 |
I Learnt that it is not Good for parent to use abusive word or curse their children because it might have a negative on the child in the nearest future. but some parent to abuse their children but the child still grew up to be great and fullied so what are your opinions |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by AYOANU: 11:14am On Jan 25, 2010 |
it is not right for parents to use abusive words on their children. it may affect some while it may not affect some. but who can curse the man that Jesus has blessed nobody parents should try as much as possible to pray for their children instead of cursing them. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by MissIfe(f): 11:25am On Jan 25, 2010 |
I agree, some might turn out nice but that doesn't mean all will, I believe it is important to avoid all kinds of violence or negativity when raising a child: abusive words, threats, physical violence, fear etc. Of course, that being said, no one is perfect and we can all say words that we'd regret later when angry or under pressure, especially if that's the way our own parents raised us. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Fhemmmy: 3:54pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
It is the most terrible thing any parent could ever do . . . . always have a way to come back and bite them in the rear. Besides, there is power in the word spoken. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by iice(f): 5:14pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
Na. Can't say people even are that attentive to the reactions of people. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by coolier(f): 5:25pm On Jan 25, 2010 |
No. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Sissy3(f): 7:53am On Jan 26, 2010 |
while some parents may see it as a harmless act or just a thing of the moment for many children it does directly/indirectly affect their self esteem especially through the teenage years particularly when used repetitively. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by idifu(m): 2:23pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
no |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Nope, |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Rooneyboy(m): 2:35pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
That is their business , if they want to use abusive words or not. It doesnt affect me . |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Profkenny1(m): 2:39pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
It's the most irrational thing for parents to use abusive words on their children and whether they like it or not they will reap the words spoken into the lives of their children! |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Bukittes(f): 2:40pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
You know sometimes nairalanders post some topics they already know the answer to. Why do we keep doing this now? @ Poster, u said u learnt, haba, even a toddler knows this now, find a more challenging topic that will help everyone and not these kind of nursery questions we ask here. Abeg, we need to grow up. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by ayettymama(f): 2:51pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
definitely not i mean where im from rains of abuse is not uncommon but theres certain words i believe you should never call your child like stupid, or slow, or a b.a.s.t.a.rd neva neva neva!! instead say naughty, or animal names like stubborn goat! |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by milkan05(m): 2:58pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
hell no!!! |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Remen: 3:18pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
They shouldnt cos its not d right way of bringing up a child. As 4 me its better u flog me than u abuse me, |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by aieromon(m): 3:24pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
The issue should not be whether it has a direct relationship with the outcome of the child's upbringing because it doesn't. A child will turn out good/bad regardless of whatever form of abuse he receives. However,it is the responsibity of the parent to shield the child from all forms of internal/external abuse.Achieve that and leave the rest for God. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by DoubleN(m): 3:29pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Not good at all because a curse from a parent will definitely affect a child in future.So Parents instead of cursing please bless them. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by slap1(m): 3:46pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
One thing i've observed is that kids whose parents use abusive words grow up to do the same. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by pauloch(m): 3:50pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Common sensically, what is good about ABUSE? Such a parent should call the erring child and advise him or her accordingly. They should know that the tongue can be used to bless and equally curse. If you are a parent, go and reverse the Curse or Abuse. Pauloch. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by MsTom(f): 3:53pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
No matter what, Never!!! |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by mamagee3(f): 3:53pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Parents should never use abusive words on their children They can correct them without abusing them. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by bettes(f): 4:01pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Never!! |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by eldee(m): 4:05pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
~Sissy~: Exactly. It also makes them unable to express themselves amongst their peers in a sociable manner. They find it hard to express slight displeasure without resorting to heavily abusive words. It's so much better to talk to them and express what you think about their actions in clear words so they don't pick up socially repugnant habits. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by egift(m): 4:11pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Most parents are only such because they got old, got pregnant or impregnated someone. Many are not mature enough for it or even have qualities to be one. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Abekeade08(f): 4:45pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Parents should never ever abuse children. BIG NO NO. When children are young, they are very impressionable to the point that they start believing all of the abuses rained on them. This can later affect the child in a negative way when he/she grows older. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by otukpo(f): 4:49pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Nope. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by DOAweb(m): 4:53pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
slap1: Not necessarily, but it is a contributory factor though as it eats deep into the fragment of emotions. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Phony200(m): 5:10pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
No. Absolutely not. |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by ayo84(m): 5:32pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
nope, you shuldnt , you'd be suprised that your kids wud just end up what you actually call them |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by koolchicco: 5:32pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
A big Fat NO!! |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Moyola(f): 5:35pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Good parents shouldnt! |
Re: Is It Good For Parent To Use Abusive Words by Chrisbenogor(m): 5:41pm On Jan 26, 2010 |
Is there a parenting manual somewhere? |
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