NwaAmaikpe:


I'm very sure you had lovely prewedding pictures..

My sister..
Your husband is sure of himself that's why he insists on no IVF.


Are you sure of yourself..

Is there something you aren't saying ('you invested a lot and you did so many things for love')...did you abort before marriage or damage your womb?

Why not try out some one else....if it clicks, you give it to your husband instead of shortchanging yourself.

You should be smarter than this,
Instead of opening a profile here, create an account on Baddoo... I'm sure a thousand and one men will be ready to give you a lucky shot of testosterone.

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

austinosita:
Dry your tears woman. That man does not love you. He has forgotten his vows: for better, for worse! He has not even started facing the real worse and he has already chickened out!

Love is patient. Love endures!

Don't beg him. Talk to God in prayers. No be you be God wey dey make pikin!

Better still, try and make him go to the hospital with you. Both of you should do a fertility test. He should do a sperm test, so you guys can ascertain the real prob.

If there's no issue after the tests, then just pray!

No beg am! Let him go if he wants! He does not love you at all! You will find a better person!



#whereisthelove?

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

torres89:
am a man but

men are wicked......

zuto4u:
God bless you bro for this wonderful piece. Indeed He still answers prayers and will never stop answering prayers.

Olabestonic001:


I am very sorry for this and I am sympathizing with you.
However, there are some questions that needs to be answered;

(a) Have you guys gone for medical checks and who is the root cause of this brouhaha?

(b) Do you have an history of abortion? If you do, do you treat it as a 'no biggie?'

(c) Do you always remind him about how much 'investment' you've made into his life whenever he mentioned the issue of conception? (I know as a man that such will always be seen as blackmail)

(d) Have you guys involve your parents? This is not the time to do cover up! Its time to tell them everything. Including if he's the one with low sperm count or you're the one with a case of abortion fighting back.

(e) Have you guys seen a Christian Counselor who can do well in your matter. And ensure if its a case of a former abortion fighting back, don't tell you young man not to fume. Accept any of your blames (if any) and ensure you do not believe giving men money or such stuffs makes them stay, men seek more than that! They seek honor and all. Pls, don't bring how you've 'invested' in him into such a sensitive issue, it will only make him see your investment as a blackmailing tool.

And that man needs to grow up too! Its not your right to tell him that though. Move him closer to great men that'll help him grow up.

GossipHeart:

Do you want to hear the truth ??

Couples who have been married for 40 years do break up, how long have you been married ?? 1 year ??

Last time i checked, there are 40 million men in Nigeria, you can still find a husband

He didn't sign an agreement that he will be with you for the rest of his life

GossipHeart:

Do you want to hear the truth ??

Couples who have been married for 40 years do break up, how long have you been married ?? 1 year ??

Last time i checked, there are 40 million men in Nigeria, you can still find a husband

He didn't sign an agreement that he will be with you for the rest of his life

He has his preference, he's a grown man, he can do whatever he wants

The same way you can't marry a bus driver

Just move on

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

ochobaba:
God can't forsake his people
This is a better opportunity for you to discuss with God am very sure he still answers prayers

torres89:
am a man but

men are wicked......

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Dreamscometrue:
I swear with my whole life that I HAVE NEVER ABORTED BEFORE.
We are both sound.
Yes,I do remind him whenever he pushes me to the wall but that I have stopped.No doubt,he has also done good and wonderful things for me.

pressplay411:
Can you take a minute and shut the Bleep up.
So what you're having marital problems? You're not the first neither are you going to be the last, so dont even entertain that i want to end it all crap.
Worst case scenario, he leaves you and you become a single lady again at whatever your age is. Is marriage all your life achievement and life goal is all about?
Single successful ladies every where having the time of their life, and I don't need to mention names.
Besides what makes you think you won't find love again? So many guys out here don't even want kids maybe cos they're already single fathers or they just don't, so many don't mind adopting.
My point in essence is life goes on. You just have to accept your fate, reevaluate your life and concentrate on what matters... What makes you happy? How about making an impact on your career, business, as a philanthropist, etc I'm sure you have an idea what I'm talking about already.
Really it might seem like all hope is lost but you know what, it never is. Stay positive, stay interesting, stay interested. Live. There's a lot to life.

Richy4:


Are you kidding me? So you have not seen someone that lost a loved one and immediately jumped in on social media...which country are you living in please

torres89:
am a man but

men are wicked......

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

Dreamscometrue:
..I just don't know where to start from.
I feel like ending it all.
My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus.

This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated.
God has really forsaken me...

How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused.
It is not going to be easy for me because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me.I am at the receiving end.

Will I be able to pull through this?

pressplay411:
Can you take a minute and shut the Bleep up.
So what you're having marital problems? You're not the first neither are you going to be the last, so dont even entertain that i want to end it all crap.
Worst case scenario, he leaves you and you become a single lady again at whatever your age is. Is marriage all your life achievement and life goal is all about?
Single successful ladies every where having the time of their life, and I don't need to mention names.
Besides what makes you think you won't find love again? So many guys out here don't even want kids maybe cos they're already single fathers or they just don't, so many don't mind adopting.
My point in essence is life goes on. You just have to accept your fate, reevaluate your life and concentrate on what matters... What makes you happy? How about making an impact on your career, business, as a philanthropist, etc I'm sure you have an idea what I'm talking about already.
Really it might seem like all hope is lost but you know what, it never is. Stay positive, stay interesting, stay interested. Live. There's a lot to life.