Fhemmmy:


It is not same at all . . . . I have seen a lady and i am damn serious that was seriously beaten by her husband and she went to the police station and lo and behold the man was arrested and was behind the bars for some days, so tell me what was the difference, is it not same Nigeria and same culture?

the lady used "long leg" factor

woye77:

the lady used "long leg" factor

Common, then, tell other ladies to grow long legs.
I am sure there are some women in the society, i mean societal women that has been beaten before and yet nothing happened, so what happen, the long leg they have all of a sudden shrunk?

So what about women that beat their husbands?

biina:

So what about women that beat their husbands?

That is not a man, but a baby in the hands of a Mom.
Cos if the woman wanna beat you, hold her hands and walk away . . . . .

I got in a relationship with a Nigerian man he was really nice in a the start bury I've noticed now he's getting verbally aggressive, like the other week he said i will get a good beating when i come back from university. When i asked him why his answer was and i quote "i can see you have been spoiled as a child and i don't like it" he also get aggressive if i say i don't want to have sex apparently i belong to him, im 19 and his 23 he said because of the age gap its his job to beat me, and if i try to break up with him he sends me the picture of the belt to remind me.. This is in the UK where 'domestic' violence is against the law and taken seriously but the man doesn't care he will beat me more if i involve anyone..

H-according to one of my 'SICKO' ex-gal MGBEKE pals. . . .it turns 'em on!
I got rid of her local azzzze instantly!

Same reason girl

What I expect in a thread like dis, is dat Men who beat their wives will come here and state why they do it and how much they enjoy it.

I think some men on NL beat their wives.

Let's be real and hear frm d horses mouths.

Wife-beaters, we are waiting 2 hear frm U o....

if it where a muslim now, only God knows. well say no to violence against women

@OP, they enjoy bearing their wives because they get away with, patriarchal society is also a cause, and women's self-destructive attitudes are all factors that contribute to this menace

say no to violence against women. imagine if it was a muslim tho

Fhemmmy:


That is not a man, but a baby in the hands of a Mom.
Cos if the woman wanna beat you, hold her hands and walk away . . . . .

If you're still with him and haven't sent his ass to prison then you deserve all the beating in the world. Send me his number so I can send some belts and horse whip to him.


You no get Sense ni abi your mama Don die?

pumpkin19:
I got in a relationship with a Nigerian man he was really nice in a the start bury I've noticed now he's getting verbally aggressive, like the other week he said i will get a good beating when i come back from university. When i asked him why his answer was and i quote "i can see you have been spoiled as a child and i don't like it" he also get aggressive if i say i don't want to have sex apparently i belong to him, im 19 and his 23 he said because of the age gap its his job to beat me, and if i try to break up with him he sends me the picture of the belt to remind me.. This is in the UK where 'domestic' violence is against the law and taken seriously but the man doesn't care he will beat me more if i involve anyone..

pumpkin19:
I got in a relationship with a Nigerian man he was really nice in a the start bury I've noticed now he's getting verbally aggressive, like the other week he said i will get a good beating when i come back from university. When i asked him why his answer was and i quote "i can see you have been spoiled as a child and i don't like it" he also get aggressive if i say i don't want to have sex apparently i belong to him, im 19 and his 23 he said because of the age gap its his job to beat me, and if i try to break up with him he sends me the picture of the belt to remind me.. This is in the UK where 'domestic' violence is against the law and taken seriously but the man doesn't care he will beat me more if i involve anyone..

This is why I mentioned self-destruction as one of the reasons for female battering. Believe me one day he will surely carry out his words, I just hope it will not be too late for you by then. Girl you have your life to live, it's your decision to leave or not, enjoy!