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Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by superior494(m): 1:40pm On Jun 30, 2017
STUPID THINGS A WIFE CAN DO TO MESS UP HER
MARRIAGE

There are fifteen stupid things a Wife can do to
mess up her marriage, I want you to check them
carefully and avoid them.

1) DARING HER HUSBAND TO BEAT HER: You
block the door way, and then dare him to beat you
and see what will happen. Lots of women have
done this in the past and they end up regretting it.
It is unwise to do this.

2) DARING HER HUSBAND TO SLEEP WITH
ANOTHER WOMAN: You will be making a major
mistake if you dare your husband to sleep with
another woman. You may live to regret it

3) NEGLECTING TO DRESS RIGHTLY BECAUSE SHE
IS MARRIED: “I am married, who is looking at me”
That was the defense of Mrs Layi when she was
confronted for the reason why she dressed so
shabbily. It is the mistake of most careless married
women and it’s a major mistake you can make

4) DENYING HER HUSBAND SEX REGULARLY: You
are a career woman; you feel sex in marriage is
secondary, you deny your husband your body
regularly, so he is sexually starved and intimacy
famished. His secretary, colleagues, and girls in
church are begging him to come but you padlock
your skirt. I can see danger signal.

5) LEAVING HER HUSBAND FOR HER FRIEND TO
CATER FOR: “My friend please be my eye as I
travelled for this one week, help cater for my
husband and my little kids” That was Mrs Rosa
when she made the journey she will later regret all
her life. By the time she came back her friend had
really helped her by sleeping with her husband. She
later eloped with the man, leaving her own husband
and two children.
It is very stupid to commit your husband into the
hands of your beautiful and very active but Godless
friend.

6) LEAVING HER HUSBAND IN THE HAND OF HER
HOUSE MAID: Your maid is the one that cooks,
cleans the house, and cares for the children and
your husband. You suddenly become a lazy bone
since the arrival of the maid, all you do is to shout
and back orders, nobody will snatch your husband
you are the one graciously giving him to those that
need him.

7) EMPLOYING FULLY GROWN, RED BLOODED
LADY AS A MAID: She is fully grown, well-endowed
in the back and very tantalizing in the front, dresses
like an actress, cat walks like a model and that is
your own house maid? What a mistake!

cool EMPLOYING HOUSE GIRL THAT IS MORE
BEAUTIFUL THAN HER: Employing a house girl
more beautiful than them is a major technical
mistake most women make. In the process many
of them used their money to employ a rival for
themselves. Don’t be foolish when getting a maid.

9) USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL
HUSBAND: Your husband is growing; you are sitting
down at home eating. He is dressing like a guy with
jeans and face cap; you are celebrating the fact that
you are a married woman. Your husband is on
twitter, facebook, whatshap, skype etc; the only
thing you know about phone is to receive and make
call. Your husband is talking about stock market;
you only talk about tomato market. He is talking
about Forex; you are talking about fruit and
vegetables.

10) FAILING TO COMMIT HER FAMILY INTO THE
HANDS OF GOD: A wife won’t do well if she fails to
commit her family into the hands of God regularly.
Don’t make this mistake, be prayerful, hand over
your family to God. May you never labor in vain!

11) FIGHING HER MOTHER-IN-LAW: You may fight
your Mother-in-law dirty and think you can win, you
will end up losing. Her son and herself have been
friends and lovers for years; may be before you
were born. She was the first ‘wife’ of your husband
and also the first ‘girlfriend’. Her son cannot divorce
her and she is more experienced than you in
matrimonial battles, in fact she is a veteran of many
conflicts.

12) TELLING HER FRIENDS ABOUT HER SEX LIFE:
when you tell your friend about your sex life she can
size you up and know whether your husband is hot
or not, whether he is sexually fulfilled or not. She
can even know your husband “turn on” and use it
against him and grab your husband. Most women
have carelessly lost their husband as they complain
to their friends “my husband is too demanding, he
does not know anything but sex, I’m not a horse, I
can’t kill myself” A friend will pick information like
this and cover things up where you’ve been failing.

13) REPORTING HER HUSBAND TO HIS MUM: It
looks beautiful to report your husband to his Mum,
but the end result will end up hurting you.
Most mothers will support their sons any day;
children are always right before their Mothers. Seek
counsel in the right quarters, never report your
husband to his Mum.

14) LETTING CHILDREN TAKE THE PLACE OF
THEIR HUSBANDS: Many wives do abandon their
husbands, denying them of love, care and attention
as soon as babies begin to arrive. To sleep in bed,
they put the Baby between themselves and their
husband, making the man to feel lost in his own
house.

15) USING SEX WRONGLY: sex is supposed to
bind you together, it supposed to create intimacy
and love but in many homes it is the bone of
contention.
Some women do turn sex to a tool of manipulation;
some use it for trade by barter. Some wives will
suddenly become commanders at home when their
husbands touch them for sex, ordering the man
around, “go and off the Fan” “go and lock the gate”
“go and check whether our children are sleeping”
this is very bad.
Some wives sleep like log of wood in bed while
some even wear jean knickers to bed.
If you continue like this you will hurt your marriage
deeply and you may destroy your future also.

He'll start lusting and chasing sexy daughters of jezebel out there who may fetish him out of home to themselves

A smart wife builds her home, the stupid ones are careless. I know you'll be like....Why can't he have self control and stay faithful? Forget it dear. We are all humans and things push women to do things they never planned.
Be wise!!!!

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Adaowerri111: 1:43pm On Jun 30, 2017
Goat wey wan lost go still lost

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jun 30, 2017
Adaowerri111:
Goat wey wan lost to still lost

abi

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Akshow: 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017
Replace the title with fifteen stupid things couples do that mess up their marriage. All of the above in reverse can apply to men

1. Threatening ur wife with beating.
2. don't dare your wife to sleep with another man
3. Growing pot belly and neglecting ur look as a man.
4. Not phucking ur wife as she deserves to be phucked.
5. Don't leave ur wife for a friend to take care of.
6. Don't leave ur wife or neglect ur wife for ur hot house boy, driver or gate man
7. Employing a full grown man as house boy or gate man.
8. Don't employ a domestic staff hitter than u.
9. Using 1960s mentality of a woman as ur slave in 2017
10. U are the head of the family. Invite God to ur family
11. Fighting ur mother in law unnecessarily.
12. Telling ur friends ur bedroom business.
13. Reporting ur wife to her mum
14. Letting children take over ur love for her.
15. Punishing ur wife with sex.. .. .. hmmmmmmm ur name na sorry.

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Nobody: 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017
Why would a sane husband put his wife in a position that she has to dare him to beat her? It is just plain wrong.

A decent man won't be moved whether the maid he is left with is miss world.

A wife shld know sex is an important tool in a marriage. You can't deprive him of that. It is not just a tool to recreate, it is also a tool to bond.

A woman who doesn't care about her looks obviously is creating a room for the husband to cheat. The husband as well as a role to play. He should ensure to correct her, buy her clothes, encourage her. This is a team work.

Can't wait to be a family man.

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Caustics: 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017
angry

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by jazinogold(m): 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017
This is serious..... but if she no sabi cook n do, forget it!

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Arian11(m): 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017
Feminists wont like this ...third wave feminists want cuckolds as husbands...the one they call command and obey like it is charm

excellent piece OP.

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by itiswellandwell: 3:00pm On Jun 30, 2017
Nice points. Will send this link to my ex.


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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Papiikush: 3:01pm On Jun 30, 2017
15 is too much. I don't have time for all that.

One thing you will do to mess up our marriage. Cheat on me....Bìtch I will never come back to you even if Jesus asked. undecided

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by adewumiopeyemi(m): 3:01pm On Jun 30, 2017
Ok make I park my okada here. cheesy cheesy
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by OVA200(m): 3:01pm On Jun 30, 2017
Lalasticlala This is the type of thread we need in front page not Mercy Aigbe palaver or Husspuppy or Hushdoggy.


Op weldone.

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017
an interesting read

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by TroubleMaker47(m): 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017
Adaowerri111:
Goat wey wan lost to still lost
Na lie!
Rope nkor?

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Segadem(m): 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017
hmmmm, the topics that make front page these days about family, gives no options for women.
Is it only women that can mess up their marriages?

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Rukkydelta(f): 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017
Ok
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Pavore9: 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017
As if a man has no mind of his own. A married man or woman who wants to be faithful, will be faithful.

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by obinna58(m): 3:02pm On Jun 30, 2017
No 10 is bulshit cheesy
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Segadem(m): 3:03pm On Jun 30, 2017
TroubleMaker47:

Na lie!
Rope nkor?
hehe, u never see goat who chop rope before? grin
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by funnynation(m): 3:03pm On Jun 30, 2017
Truth but person wey wan waka go still waka

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by KingEbukasBlog(m): 3:04pm On Jun 30, 2017
grin
Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Nenejeje(f): 3:04pm On Jun 30, 2017
nice one op

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Dopeyomi(m): 3:04pm On Jun 30, 2017
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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by government77(f): 3:05pm On Jun 30, 2017
Nice write up. This is the type of informative and educative materials that we need. Kudos to the writer.

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by tron23(m): 3:05pm On Jun 30, 2017
This is a very insightful article. God bless you bro.

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Lilimax(f): 3:05pm On Jun 30, 2017
This one cracked me up: USING ANALOG BRAIN TO LIVE WITH A DIGITAL HUSBAND grin grin

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by uglodoh(f): 3:06pm On Jun 30, 2017
If my husband does something wrong who do I report to.? My Pastor?

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by silkytouch(m): 3:06pm On Jun 30, 2017
ziego:
OK

THIS ONE IS AMONG


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1uYKEJpkGzc

Really funny shii

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Re: Fifteen Stupid Things A Wife Can Do To Mess Up Her Marriage!!! by Oladelson(m): 3:06pm On Jun 30, 2017
is okay continu

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