Hello guys, a friend of mine who has been married for 9years told me this morning that for the past 3 years, he has been sleeping in a different room from his wife, he said the reason was that the wife complained that he snores too much at night. I asked him if there are any other misunderstanding, he said there have been misunderstanding on and off. BUT the reason the woman gave was the snoring, and although the woman has been complaining about that for sometime.Sincerely I do not know what kind of advice to give. He said there has been friction with sex, it was becoming difficult to have sex with her, and she is just complaining of almost everything. I am even more worried, because this woman is a friend to my wife. Her husband (my friend) asked me not to tell my wife.Please what are your opinions on this issue especially for the married ladies here.

Hmmmmmmm, excuse not accepted...... . There may be some other issues unresolved. For snoring, it is be reduced by changing sleeping positions.

He didn't complain they've not been having sex for the past 3 years did he?

eyinjuege:

He didn't complain they've not been having sex for the past 3 years did he?

actually I asked, these are the usual questions one should ask, but he said there has been friction with sex, it was becoming difficult to have sex with her, and she is just complaining of almost everything.
May be I will add the answer to this your question to the post.

Ordinary #2500 or #1500 will save their union from deteriorating.....
There is a particular thing, worn around the head that holds the jaws, it is said to stop someone from snoring....
Why not go shop for it, instead of sleeping in separate rooms.

He should be happy self
I prefer sleeping alone , so I will have space to roll up n down on bed

Its not easy because there:_ a kind of snoring that can't be managedoo.
snoring get levels,on a scale of 2_-10 what was his snoring level when both of you slept at the same place

Abiagirl777:
Its not easy because there:_ a kind of snoring that can't be managedoo.
snoring get levels,on a scale of 2_-10 what was his snoring level when both of you slept at the same place

I did not ask, But I just believe all men snores

This is a critical issue the husband and wife need to sit down and advice both of them if they want joy in dere marriage..

Obviously there are some unresolved issues, most men don't notice things until its too late.

The issues might be prompted by something very little o, say the way he dresses or his hygiene... Just giving examples--that she was able to ignore before but now finds irritating.

Actually after 9years its okay if she wants her own room, but the snoring excuse and the friction with sex shows there's a crack somewhere.

Your friend needs to bring out his cupid side and own his wife o,
Make it a point of duty to check up on her frequently at work before coming home, be more conscious of her, like her hair, clothes and stuff, assist more with kids n cooking, even if its to just be Gisting with her in the kitchen while notoriously tasting the food before its served . Just ideas to get her to warm up to him you know.

Be romantic is all I'm saying, that doesn't always involve money, just show her that you care n stuff, if you like, shower her with gifts, but I'm not too sure this is wise rn, it will just be like you're buying her time for sex, that's how it'll end up IMHO

If possible sef, he should step up his outfits n stuff, you know, package himself well and make her head turn

Then also, have a discussion with her, even if she changes towards him, he should still find out why she acted like that in the first place

So let your friend win back his babe

All this people saying it's not an issue haven't seen some kind snoring. The man would be snoring and enjoying his sleep...while she remains awake all night.

It doesn't mean there is an issue...but it can lead to an issue...because it's not right. It creates unnecessary space.
They should find a solution to the snoring...simple!
Let us see what will be her excuse this time. If she comes up with something else, we can now come up with theories.

pocohantas:
All this people saying it's not an issue haven't seen some kind snoring. The man would be snoring and enjoying his sleep...while she remains awake all night.

It doesn't mean there is an issue...but it can lead to an issue...because it's not right. It creates unnecessary space.
They should find a solution to the snoring...simple!
Let us see what will be her excuse this time. If she comes up with something else, we can now come up with theories.

I think I told him this just this afternoon,

she is just complaining of almost everything.

This is the baddest omen of all. I see not a good end to d marriage. She needs re-orientation.

I even envy you. That's what me i want. whether I snore or not, I prefer my own room when I'm married.

Snoring is a superficial excuse many women use to wave the guy away. There is a major reason why she is acting this way. He should ask his wife questions instead of running to you.

Is a simple something. When you're upset with someone,he will never do Good in your eyes.whatever he does will be offensive to you.the snoring is just a minor issue or excuse. There are other major swept in the carpet issue that hasn't been addressed so sex will be difficult because your v@gyna can never be dripping at the touch of someone who you're provoked by

Solution is to have a husband and wife issue and thrash it out.if it's to fight to bring about peace,fight just make sure the issue is ironed out.there's something called breakup to makeup.employ that finally before it deteriorates to malice,snide or rude remarks or violence

Meanwhile as for the snoring are you sure he's not a fat man.fat people are annoyingly notorious for snoring and farting during sleep.asthmatic patients too snore or people with catarrh and blocked nose

dangotesmummy:
Is a simple something. When you're upset with someone,he will never do Good in your eyes.whatever he does will be offensive to you.the snoring is just a minor issue or excuse. There are other major swept in the carpet issue that hasn't been addressed so sex will be difficult because your v@gyna can never be dripping at the touch of someone who you're provoked by

Solution is to have a husband and wife issue and thrash it out.if it's to fight to bring about peace,fight just make sure the issue is ironed out.there's something called breakup to makeup.employ that finally before it deteriorates to malice,snide or rude remarks or violence

Meanwhile as for the snoring are you sure he's not a fat man.fat people are annoyingly notorious for snoring and farting during sleep.asthmatic patients too snore or people with catarrh and blocked nose

. Thanks for the reply, the guy is not fat at all. As for the one on one talk, for me, I think the lady is tired of the marriage, imagine my friend has tried severally to get a one on one chat with her, but she always refuses, she doesn't just want to talk, she enjoys an atmosphere of malice in the House

tuscani:
. Thanks for the reply, the guy is not fat at all. As for the one on one talk, for me, I think the lady is tired of the marriage, imagine my friend has tried severally to get a one on one chat with her, but she always refuses, she doesn't just want to talk, she enjoys an atmosphere of malice in the House

hahahahaha the bitter truth is that
1.maybe she's bored of the man
2.there's another person giving her the spark,shinning her Congo and making her feel like 21 again
3.maybe she's sexyally unattracted to the man again
4.maybe the man is dirty or not spontenous or romantic
5.maybe the man is a dictator in the house or always shouts at everyone

Kanwuliaextra has talked about these things.there comes a time in marriage where you're sick of your spouse and you're not any better than just roommates tolerating each other.all the butterflies in the tummy has vanished several years ago

dangotesmummy:
hahahahaha the bitter truth is that
1.maybe she's bored of the man
2.there's another person giving her the spark,shinning her Congo and making her feel like 21 again
3.maybe she's sexyally unattracted to the man again
4.maybe the man is dirty or not spontenous or romantic
5.maybe the man is a dictator in the house or always shouts at everyone

Kanwuliaextra has talked about these things.there comes a time in marriage where you're sick of your spouse and you're not any better than just roommates tolerating each other.all the butterflies in the tummy has vanished several years ago

NY friend is very loyal to his wife, I even frown at his meekness sometimes

so sad,

tuscani:
NY friend is very loyal to his wife, I even frown at his meekness sometimes

I said maybe its her that's no more sezually attracted to the man again. It happens when you've been fuckig and seeing the same deek for years

dangotesmummy:
I said maybe its her that's no more sezually attracted to the man again. It happens when you've been fuckig and seeing the same deek for years

ha , even in marriage ? This one be as ee get

tuscani:
ha , even in marriage ? This one be as ee get

as if you don't know

Ask that your friend to get another lady and put in the house and sternly warn his wife never to talk to the lady anyhow. That will open his wife's eyes to the reality of losing her home.

She WILL stupidly start running from prayer house to prayer house to save her home, just like most hypocritical religious fools who have refused to think but try to get God to magically turn their husbands into zombies who they can take for a ride.

I pity that stupid woman wey go try any nonsense with me. By the time I'm done with her eh, she go dey lick my feet every morning. Mtcheeeew

Snoring is a big problem for some people, me included. It can lead to lack of sound sleep and lack of sleep has ripple effects so it may not be entirely false